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I have known her for a year now and three months ago we discovered that we were twinflames. We felt a kind of love but couldn’t bring it home since we both don’t like women but we did have those feelings. We enjoyed each other intensely for two months. The energy flowed like crazy and it was a great adventure. During the kiss and the sex it seemed like fireworks so much energy and love was released. We had a lot of plans. Her wish was a relationship but actually more of a child. She has always stated this very clearly and also said that it did not allow a relationship. Still, doubts arose and she said that she could still live with me because we just preferred to spend the whole day together. The biggest fear was the outside world and her family, a reason for her to never take the step for fear of. She started a month ago with a course in converting negative energy into positive in order to gain more insight into herself. From that moment I think it has changed. She took more and more distance and it became clearer that the love she felt was not the kind that I saw. In the meantime I felt so much for her that I would really like to take the step to embark on this adventure together. But during kissing and sex the energy continued to flow and yet I saw cracks. It felt like she thought now I have to take the step and break before I can go back. What I don’t think is that someone who likes being with you can relax and dare to suddenly become so different. I have confronted her with this and said that I think she is afraid to give in and therefore prefers to flee. This is of course not true but for a relationship she is not really put in the cradle, I wish her heartily, but it is also not really what she is looking for because she now only wants a child with or without a husband … she is looking for a safe base and peace. I clung because I was afraid of losing her, I see that I suffocate her with this. This is my lesson in learning to let go and have faith, but it hurts so much to feel this distance. There are people who say that she is further than me in this process and that the love that exists between us is not the same love to start a relationship. I don’t agree with that but she does. I see that as v! adhere to a safe straw. I certainly feel what it has done to both of us. She has become cold and distant after the start of that course and no longer wants intimacy because that gives her peace so that she can continue. I understand that in this process I have to let her go and maybe hope that she returns because this is how I see and feel it. I am angry now, but actually more disappointed and sad because she is so concerned with herself and makes it happen that I am the one who only wants more and that she does not feel that way and therefore distances herself. She just wants to have fun together without any fuss, but then how? We remain twinflames and how should I feel the energy when we treat each other as just two girlfriends? I know that we are in the disposal phase, but when we meet again she is very restless and distant … how can I best deal with this. We do not want to break at all but this does not work either. If there is so much energy and love I can trust that there is a good chance that she will come back to me after her own journey or is this simply not destined in this life and I have to let her go completely and then we can be friends interact with each other? I really wish her all the luck but also give myself happiness and don’t want to give up so quickly and easily … I can’t talk to anyone about it and don’t know what to do next? If there is so much energy and love I can trust that there is a good chance that she will come back to me after her own journey or is this simply not destined in this life and I have to let her go completely and then we can be friends interact with each other? I really wish her all the luck but also give myself happiness and don’t want to give up so quickly and easily … I can’t talk to anyone about it and don’t know what to do next? If there is so much energy and love I can trust that there is a good chance that she will come back to me after her own journey or is this simply not destined in this life and I have to let her go completely and then we can be friends interact with each other? I really wish her all the luck but also give myself happiness and don’t want to give up so quickly and easily … I can’t talk to anyone about it and don’t know what to do next?

Answer 1
The encounter with your soul love is a life-changing event for both. Your story shows how much you love her and that is wonderful. However, soul love, the encounter of twinflames here on earth is often about an even greater love than the love for the other, namely: the unconditional love for yourself. Self-love, self-acceptance, self-confidence, etc. It is difficult to give advice, the only thing I would like to give you is “be very kind to yourself.” Get to know yourself again, read about twinflames and especially English-language articles about twinflames (Eng. For twinflames). A new world opens up for you. I wish you a lot of wisdom, love and light. (Unknown)