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Happily married … mother … I have never been looking for anything … you will meet your twinflame one day. This twin also turns out to be a woman … never felt anything for women and not yet, but with her there is also a huge physical attraction. Your life is totally upside down … the experience is unique, special, pure, confusing … but above all complete. My twin is also happily married … mother … and we are both totally surprised, overwhelmed by this emotional rollercoaster … but also by the wonderfully beautiful feeling we experience when we are together, but also when we are not together. We communicate with each other for hours … share everything now … are totally open. But this meeting also removes all solid ground under your feet. You can no longer give 100% in your own marriage … the experience that you can love a woman so much that the physical part also participates. But then the question arises several times: why should it be that you meet your twin in this phase of life … while we were both so happy and still love our men enormously … but have needed each other for a year now and smartly waiting for a balance between the home situation and the twin relationship … but after 8 months we can say that the twin relationship is only getting more … more beautiful … more intense..completer. Are there stories about finding a balance in this beautiful, difficult situation? while we were both so happy and still love our men immensely … but have needed each other for a year and are anxiously waiting for a balance between the home situation and the twin relationship … but after 8 months we can say that the twin relationship just more … more beautiful … more powerful..completer. Are there stories about finding a balance in this beautiful, difficult situation? while we were both so happy and still love our men immensely … but have needed each other for a year and are anxiously waiting for a balance between the home situation and the twin relationship … but after 8 months we can say that the twin relationship just more … more beautiful … more powerful..completer. Are there stories about finding a balance in this beautiful, difficult situation?

Answer 1
Recognizable. If it were not for me that I found my twinflame in a woman (I am also a woman) but in a man who is in close relationship with me and my husband. I can tell you that it is just as confusing as what you are experiencing. I too have often wondered why this had to happen, why did I have to meet him, why now, now that I am married and have children. I met him before, and we got along well right away, but after a few years I noticed that I really liked him. I also liked my husband, who was my friend at the time, and I was dating him. It was more or less self-evident that we continued together. That has happened, we are married and have children. But twinflame always remained dormant in the background. When we saw each other, “it” was there, we could read and write together. Only much and much later, now three years ago, did I suddenly realize that this is my twinflame. It turned my world upside down, things fell into place, but it was also difficult. And still. The desire for my twinflame is unstoppable, only gets worse. The feelings of guilt towards my husband were terrible, and in the meantime I have found a way in that. I am now searching how I can give this a good shape until the time comes when my twinflame and I come together. Because we have never had anything physically with each other. A good contact, and I know he feels the same, but we never moved on because it doesn’t feel right for both of us. Never talked about it, but we know this from each other. My big question and search is how we should deal with it. To what extent can we be clear to each other and our environment? We don’t want to hurt anyone, but in the meantime we hurt each other the greatest possible pain that exists. Yet I know that he knows exactly what is going on in me, and I know about him. It is just as difficult for him as it is for me. But I am confident that everything will go as it should. The biggest lesson I have already learned is that everything comes at the right time. D now it is always perfect. Always. We just have to go with the flow, and I want to give you that too. Just like you, I love my own husband, but also (and frankly even more intensely, differently, and certainly unconditionally) my twinflame. It is given to us, otherwise we would not have it on our path. Now try to deal with it as well as possible and grow towards each other. Love,
(Unknown)

Answer 2
Thank you for your beautiful answer … going with the flow is indeed the most feasible thing we can do at the moment … we certainly do enjoy this beautiful thing that comes our way. Words are not there, it is impossible to explain to someone who does not have the same experience. It embraces me, heats me, confuses me…. But above all, loving what is beyond all human capacity … which far exceeds myself and which I never thought I had in me. (Unknown)