Q1253. Let go or not?

Unknown

I am the stayer in the twin relationship. I have known my twinflame for 31 years, and 23 years ago we had a strong relationship of 6 weeks until she broke it and met her current husband. They then had a short break after which my twinflame immediately visited me. I then released them and told her to go back to her current husband and marry him. Until the birth of her daughter we had (long) contact at least once a week by telephone. Then we lost sight of each other. Until 5 months ago when she wrote me a letter in which she wanted contact. I then wrote an e-mail after 5 days. We agreed, and the first meeting, the kiss, the embrace. An internal explosion as she described it. So much desire and passion squeezed in that one moment. Our contact has since accelerated. We have telepathic and empathic contact, and in the meantime have had sex a few times, which cannot be described, an amalgamation that can only happen between twinflames. In the meantime, she has an impasse with her husband, and her husband has announced the divorce. However, she is back in running mode, start doubting everything between us, putting on shedding has started again. Sometimes it seems like manic depression so quickly her feelings can change. From deep love to absolute coolness and rejection. I know it’s a sign that she hasn’t accepted it yet. It sometimes pisses me off and I say things I don’t want, hold her in the mirror with things that others don’t tell her. But what else are you a twinflame for? Everyone says I have to let them go? Is this wise? We had another sex meeting last night in which she told me that the thought constantly haunts her mind “don’t let me go, NEVER”. What should I do? I love her so very much. And I know she loves me dearly. She only chooses her husband because it is safe, trusted and because of her low vision she is also very dependent on him. Do I have to surrender myself and be there for her until she sees the light and makes her choice? Or will I not let go never make her choice because it is easy and she does not have to make choices? twinflame relatives, help if you please? Really worried! What should I do? I love her so very much. And I know she loves me dearly. She only chooses her husband because it is safe, trusted and because of her low vision she is also very dependent on him. Do I have to surrender myself and be there for her until she sees the light and makes her choice? Or will I not let go never make her choice because it is easy and she does not have to make choices? twinflame relatives, help if you please? Really worried! What should I do? I love her so very much. And I know she loves me dearly. She only chooses her husband because it is safe, trusted and because of her low vision she is also very dependent on him. Do I have to surrender myself and be there for her until she sees the light and makes her choice? Or will I not let go never make her choice because it is easy and she does not have to make choices? twinflame relatives, help if you please? Really worried! and makes her choice? Or will I not let go never make her choice because it is easy and she does not have to make choices? twinflame relatives, help if you please? Really worried! and makes her choice? Or will I not let go never make her choice because it is easy and she does not have to make choices? twinflame relatives, help if you please? Really worried!

Answer 1
I have the impression that you have never let go of each other. Moreover, she is very unstable, I deduce from your story. I give you the tip to really let her go, no telephone contact and let them sort it out for themselves. (Unknown)

Answer 2
Every choice you make is the right choice at the moment! It is your soul love. It is your story. It’s just a story. It is your path that you must walk with or without her. Listen very carefully to your own heart before you make a decision. Every step you take has a consequence. Don’t forget one thing, you only come across soul song once in this life. If I look sober, her doubts are based on her past experiences of the past. Her doubts are yours too. Her fear of abandonment is also yours. You are not separate and you will not be. It is only a path that is going to be walked to the eternal light in your own together or separately, without ever being able to be detached from each other’s thoughts until the ultimate balance is achieved. (Unknown)