Paul

I do not ask these questions for myself but for my sister. She thinks she has found her soulmate; a man she doesn’t know personally, and she invited him out. Now he is in a different relationship, so has said no, and now my sister’s grief is intense. It’s hard for me to understand because she has met the man twice 5 minutes, but I do my best to understand what is happening here. My questions are: how is it that she reacts so intensely to the rejection? What is the use of meeting a soulmate when you can’t do anything with it? What lesson is learned from this in life? And especially; how does my sister deal with this? It is hard for me to see that she is obsessively sad. I hope you can help me further. Best regards

Answer 1
Ah how very sweet …. Your sister is lucky with a brother like you! It can indeed hurt a lot, not normally so much, most people here know on this site. Support her as much as you can and show understanding, but I think you do. Yes and the lessons … they are different for everyone … you learn the lessons that are important to you. It often has to do with certain fears / blockages. Once it starts, you go into a very long process. Every time one step further. Once you have passed the phase of intense pain, which unfortunately can last quite a long time (months to years), then the fun part comes. That you feel that you are being rewarded. That you have risen above yourself and you have come your way. Even then you sometimes fall back, but you can usually give it a place better and faster. It’s about self-development. As long as your sister wants to grow, it will be fine. Keep telling her that it’s okay! mt. And we don’t know what that ‘it’ is. It can just be something very different from what she now wants .. And that is the growth .. And let her read, and develop herself spiritually. There are so many fun things to do in that area. Sweat lodges, trance journeys, regression therapy … I was all very happy because everything slowly fell into place. But tough and hard that I had! Am just now a few weeks on top …. and it started 3 years ago … Strength and lots of love for your sister. And with such a brother she will be fine! It can just be something very different from what she now wants .. And that is the growth .. And let her read, and develop herself spiritually. There are so many fun things to do in that area. Sweat lodges, trance journeys, regression therapy … I was all very happy because everything slowly fell into place. But tough and hard that I had! Am just now a few weeks on top …. and it started 3 years ago … Strength and lots of love for your sister. And with such a brother she will be fine! It can just be something very different from what she now wants .. And that is the growth .. And let her read, and develop herself spiritually. There are so many fun things to do in that area. Sweat lodges, trance journeys, regression therapy … I was all very happy because everything slowly fell into place. But tough and hard that I had! Am just now a few weeks on top …. and it started 3 years ago … Strength and lots of love for your sister. And with such a brother she will be fine! Am just now a few weeks on top …. and it started 3 years ago … Strength and lots of love for your sister. And with such a brother she will be fine! Am just now a few weeks on top …. and it started 3 years ago … Strength and lots of love for your sister. And with such a brother she will be fine!
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