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I met my twinflame years ago in a certain social setting where we regularly met, but unfortunately our paths soon separated again. He did not dare to trust his feelings, but let his uncertainties take control, which then erased the picture (we were both extremely in love, it splashed from it, was clearly present, but because we did not say it, he did himself then I was not in love with him, he got heartache and left!). Later I explained to him that I was in love with him at the time. He is now married and has children. I never see him again, he does not want that either (that does not fit in his directed picture and he finds that scary, someone who comes so close, he could only hurt him even more, and he is all too often hurt, etc.!, he prefers to keep control of everything, which is why he likes to treat people who are already at a certain distance from him (he doesn’t quite understand that that is precisely his “wounds”) from the past), and moreover, he does not think it is good for his wife to have a close relationship with another lady, which is also difficult for himself to handle, in short: trillions of reasons for him to take it for himself to convince them that contacting is not a good idea, all of which can destroy that one reason for doing it, namely: being able to enter into a very special friendship with someone else, in whatever form, which can be very enriching). After him, I have never been in love with anyone else again. I still feel our band every day, I get emotions from him. Energetically, he does cling to me. Now I don’t really know what wisdom is. Waiting for him, while he may never make the choice to come together again? Or start a family with someone else, while I know that person is not my great love? I already know what the answer is, because I could not put myself and anyone else in a half-hearted relationship. So unfortunately I don’t have a family. Even if I add water to the wine, I never actually meet anyone with whom I might want to start a family. But I would like to hear how others in a similar situation dealt with this. By the way, I have to say that my twinflame is not happy in his current relationship, at least that is how it feels, so that gives me hope. I do think that if that relationship goes away, he will come my way again, because he has since settled more in his feelings. But does that relationship end?

Answer 1
Directed by him…. or directed by upstairs? Is it your twin and are there signs that you are coming back together for an assignment? Or are you just thinking about the red roses and the caviar? Then, in the latter case, there is a good chance that you will remain separate, or that your future togetherness will NOT be directed from above. Because that is always the case with reunification between twins, that it is determined from above, and also the time. In my opinion, during the release period, so where you are now in, there will be periodic checks from above. In our (= me and my twin) case I think that is FIVE years. (Who knows)

Answer 2
I think the spiritual world would have preferred my twin to be further in its process than it is now. But if he does not take the last necessary steps, I think that they really will not force him, then I just had bad luck. (Unknown)

Answer 3
Yes, I chopped with this ax until last week. Recently I know that it cannot be between me and my twinflame. It took me a good year to get clarity. I’d rather live in hopes and dreams than in the harsh reality. There are fifty reasons that make him keep his distance from me and although I do have a strong feeling about the true reason, I will never fill it in for him. That is impossible, as long as he does not say what is going on in him. He won’t do that either. Knowing this, I could keep fooling myself by waiting and hoping for something that I know is not (yet) in. I chose to breathe new life into my true passion: singing! And I feel very happy about that. I also know that there will never be another man like him who will cross my path. A relationship with someone else will be different, but not necessarily less, never forget that. My twinflame was there for a very clear reason and we have learned a lot from each other. We still bring each other to greater heights, but we both lead our own lives and it is good that way. It feels liberating to be very conscious of being present in the NOW, instead of focusing on future things that may not take place … Good luck, because I know how this feels. And cry when you feel that you have to. It has to come out and sooner or later that happens anyway, so it’s better to let it happen if it presents itself. (Unknown) We still bring each other to greater heights, but we both lead our own lives and it is good that way. It feels liberating to be very conscious of being present in the NOW, instead of focusing on future things that may not take place … Good luck, because I know how this feels. And cry when you feel that you have to. It has to come out and sooner or later that happens anyway, so it’s better to let it happen if it presents itself. (Unknown) We still bring each other to greater heights, but we both lead our own lives and it is good that way. It feels liberating to be very conscious of being present in the NOW, instead of focusing on future things that may not take place … Good luck, because I know how this feels. And cry when you feel that you have to. It has to come out and sooner or later that happens anyway, so it’s better to let it happen if it presents itself. (Unknown) It has to come out and sooner or later that happens anyway, so it’s better to let it happen if it presents itself. (Unknown) It has to come out and sooner or later that happens anyway, so it’s better to let it happen if it presents itself. (Unknown)

Answer 4
I can only tell you that you will have to be patient, a lot of patience. Your twinflame must walk his own path, and apparently that includes his current partner and children. You help both of you the best by accepting this and leaving him completely free. Difficult and perhaps hopeless for your feeling, but that is the only way. If you are destined for each other that will really happen one day, but the universe determines when. What you could try is to build a friendly relationship with him (don’t know if that will work). You then get to know each other in a non-committal way without any sexual charge and that can be a good basis to go on. (Unknown)

Answer 5
I recognize that he prefers to keep control everywhere, but in the end he will no longer succeed. Then things will happen that he has no influence on, things that are arranged from above. Then he has to go along with it. It is impossible to say how long that will take before he has to release the check. When I look at my situation, I am sometimes amazed how much the universe can do. Last week I made another discovery and then I think how is it possible again. I think you should let it come over you and try to let it go a little. As far as the last answer is concerned, I feel exactly the same way; first try a friendly contact and then maybe later more, but then that idd must be possible and you must of course want both. I would be open to that, but if my twin doesn’t want it or can’t (which I understand) then yes, then it stops and you wait. (Unknown)