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I happened to be on this site because I suspect that I have found my soulmate … from day 1 that we were together from the first minute that click was there … just as if the world suddenly stopped, he also experienced it that way we have it for a long time called love at first sight but we know it is more than that … we have had a relationship for a very short time but he says he can’t … he loves me but no matter how hard he tries he can’t do it for now … but when we see or hear each other then the world stands still … we feel the love coming towards us … can anyone tell me how it is possible that there is so much love between us but that we cannot be together?

Answer 1
That happens to you, and it doesn’t stop. They seem to be two worlds, on the one hand the daily business as it goes and where you have to go a lot, and on the other hand the world of your love with the person with whom you have that enormous click. Then you think HERE I LIVE FOR. The impact is huge, it has been like that for years. You cannot get away from your trusted world and on the other hand that all-surpassing love and romance. And when you try to break free from it, it seems like your world is collapsing. You try to reason it, and everyone has their opinion ready, but you cannot express that feeling. Then you discover how stuck you can be in your already existing world. Then you also discover how small bourgeois the world around you can be when they start judging. (Unknown)

Answer 2
I can fully agree with answer 1. Soul love and daily reality are also two completely different and incompatible things for me. I saw my soul love yesterday at a party and when I was home I could not hold back my tears and I had a terrible cry for him, for us, for what may not be but there is. And because he seems so miles away from me when I see him lose himself in smoking, drinking and giving an attitude that is not actually his. I look right through it and see who he really is. It hurts me so much to know that he has a long way to go until he is completely free of all his addictions and can look at our band with a clean eye. It is his way and I cannot help but let him walk that way. Let go of what is not mine and send him all the love and power he needs. I also try to get it out of my head as good and as bad as it goes. But to be honest, I am still working with him too often. The reason why two people with such a deep bond cannot be together is, I think, because you are not going on right away spiritually. The one is usually farther than the other. Only when you are both equally “far” and in the same way in life is / thinks, then a relationship can arise. And that will come for sure sometime, but this is often preceded by a long time with a lot of pain, hard lessons and sadness in half of the two. One must be the wisest and let the other be in love what he / she is. Only the strongest half can do that. (Unknown) I also try to get it out of my head as good and as bad as it goes. But to be honest, I am still working with him too often. The reason why two people with such a deep bond cannot be together is, I think, because you are not going on right away spiritually. The one is usually farther than the other. Only when you are both equally “far” and in the same way in life is / thinks, then a relationship can arise. And that will come for sure sometime, but this is often preceded by a long time with a lot of pain, hard lessons and sadness in half of the two. One must be the wisest and let the other be in love what he / she is. Only the strongest half can do that. (Unknown) I also try to get it out of my head as good and as bad as it goes. But to be honest, I am still working with him too often. The reason why two people with such a deep bond cannot be together is, I think, because you are not going on right away spiritually. The one is usually farther than the other. Only when you are both equally “far” and in the same way in life is / thinks, then a relationship can arise. And that will come for sure sometime, but this is often preceded by a long time with a lot of pain, hard lessons and sadness in half of the two. One must be the wisest and let the other be in love what he / she is. Only the strongest half can do that. (Unknown) The reason why two people with such a deep bond cannot be together is, I think, because you are not going on right away spiritually. The one is usually farther than the other. Only when you are both equally “far” and in the same way in life is / thinks, then a relationship can arise. And that will come for sure sometime, but this is often preceded by a long time with a lot of pain, hard lessons and sadness in half of the two. One must be the wisest and let the other be in love what he / she is. Only the strongest half can do that. (Unknown) The reason why two people with such a deep bond cannot be together is, I think, because you are not going on right away spiritually. The one is usually farther than the other. Only when you are both equally “far” and in the same way in life is / thinks, then a relationship can arise. And that will come for sure sometime, but this is often preceded by a long time with a lot of pain, hard lessons and sadness in half of the two. One must be the wisest and let the other be in love what he / she is. Only the strongest half can do that. (Unknown) but this often precedes a long time with a lot of pain, hard lessons and sadness in half of the two. One must be the wisest and let the other be in love what he / she is. Only the strongest half can do that. (Unknown) but this often precedes a long time with a lot of pain, hard lessons and sadness in half of the two. One must be the wisest and let the other be in love what he / she is. Only the strongest half can do that. (Unknown)

Answer 3
With growing surprise I read the answers. Anyway I am surprised because for years I thought I was the only one with a twinflame and I am having problems with that. I am so surprised because I read so much wisdom in the answers. With ant 2 eg: thank you very much! Strangely enough, that is not far from what I can reason intellectually, but the theory is always easier than practice. I find it hard to accept that I am not the smartest of the two of us. What I also have trouble with is that my twinflame on the one hand has always denied his feelings, but on the other hand it clearly shows what he feels, in fact: I feel what he feels. Only in recent years can I accept that as long as the road is not clear, he is married, and now I am, he will never admit his feelings. (Unknown)

Answer 4
Thank you for my response to answer 3! I am the one in answer 2. I am not so thundering at the moment, I am trying to get my twinflame out of my head and that is not possible. I just don’t want to think about him that much anymore. But then he will pop up again in my dreams, grrr. I feel very sad about the fact that he is running away from his feeling and that he is trying to numb it. I understand, but it feels so powerless. I’m just not able to send him positive vibes, I just feel bad. Will ring again, but it is a repeating pattern. I really have no idea how to strengthen our bond. (Unknown)