M.
What I often wonder is whether such a burning love and such heartbreaking sorrow can also come from one side? How do you know for sure whether it is your soulmate, soulmate or twin? The only thing I know for sure is that I am sick with sadness most of the time. Not because I don’t want to let go or because my ego thinks I should be sad. No, because when I try to let go, I wonder how the hell I let go, I feel that sadness even worse. It is not something I want to feel, who chooses this feeling themselves. It is pouring out on me, at the most unpredictable moments. And then a sign of twins would be that you are so tired. But don’t you get tired of all those emotions? I am often in bed already at seven o’clock, together with my daughter. Someone is typing here who has been longing for her twin for 16 years … my god how do you keep that up? I have only had this feeling for months and I am walking on my gums. And then that shaking and that eternal energy, the nightly awakening etc. If my soul loved would feel all my feelings then I feel sorry for him. And if this is his sorrow then I thank him very much. Before I met him I was stable and happy with my daughter. Once I knew him I walked on clouds, my true Jacob had finally burst into my life, and how it felt as if I finally got what came to me. And as suddenly as he came he walked out of my life again. So much love, even moved to tears, and then ice cold saying that all that love for him didn’t play that bad. Huh? What can I learn from this? That burning love is not always mutual? Or that one of the two of us got out during that roller coaster? Someone told me, if a man is really in love, he will never leave you, no matter what problems he has, no matter how difficult it is for him. For the sake of clarity it was a man who said that. Or was I the finder of the butterfly doll. He had been waiting for days for the butterfly to come out of the doll. And when the butterfly finally crawled out of the doll, painfully slowly, it remained at the last moment with its wings hanging in the doll. The finder of the doll thought it would have been long enough and thought better of lending a hand and very carefully cut open the doll. The butterfly came out. But what was the sad consequence? It was not for nothing that the butterfly stuck with its wings. Those wings had to take one last road. Unfolding slowly. But because the impatient flipped the doll open, the wings of the butterfly had remained wrinkled. The butterfly could not fly and died. What I am saying is, maybe it went too fast, I should have slowed it down. So that it could have blossomed slowly. Ah well mustard after the meal. Maybe that was the lesson. Runners are dead-enders. However it may be. The burning love and the heartbreaking sorrow are still there. And the harder I ignore it, the harder it slaps my face. My cup is overflowing … .. I have had enough of it. And who am I to say that he is not ready, that his ego stands in the way of our love? Why do we actually have that ego, it only brings misery. I am curious about the reactions to my story and question. I’m sure my ego wrote this.
Answer 1
Hello M, I am the one who has been “in” the soul love for 16 years. And of course I also experience that intense and destructive feeling that you describe, but that is only a part of a larger whole. How do you keep that up? Simply by living your life, by having a firm faith in the universe and by taking the happiness out of yourself. That is the most important thing. Feeling good with yourself, nobody need to feel complete. It has also taken me years to get to this point but I can now say that I am here. I enjoy my life and even the sad moments. They have their own beauty. Releasing is indeed what you have to do and that is very difficult. Send your twin away with love. Tell him you don’t want it anymore. That he may come back when he’s done. That it’s good the way it is. It is certainly your ego that wrote this story. And precisely ego, soul love is usually in the way. Ego is guided by the norms of our society, of what is allowed and not allowed, and ego condemns. Unfortunately you cannot just give up ego because we live in an earthly world. But occasionally there are times when the ego seems to be a little further away and two people can see each other in the soul. It is precisely those moments that give me the courage to believe that everything will be alright at the right time, and it gives me the energy to keep going. You can do that too (A.) Unfortunately you cannot just give up ego because we live in an earthly world. But occasionally there are times when the ego seems to be a little further away and two people can see each other in the soul. It is precisely those moments that give me the courage to believe that everything will be alright at the right time, and it gives me the energy to keep going. You can do that too (A.) Unfortunately you cannot just give up ego because we live in an earthly world. But occasionally there are times when the ego seems to be a little further away and two people can see each other in the soul. It is precisely those moments that give me the courage to believe that everything will be alright at the right time, and it gives me the energy to keep going. You can do that too (A.)
Answer 2
That burning love, that desire, is only present in one half of the twins who can and wants to see what is. I recognize your feelings and frustration as if it is mine. My twin doesn’t feel the same as me. If he did, he would have contacted me a long time ago. I know for sure that my twin has enormous unrest every now and then, too. But because he is still in the denial phase, he manages to shut himself off from me and therefore from those associated feelings !! He is not yet ready to see and feel this. In your situation, too, it runs as it should. You first had to experience this together to be able to transform both now. It is only so horribly painful for one soul (who I think is a bit further) if the other does not yet want to acknowledge what is there. You are supposed to dive deep into it. That you start looking for yourself. And you do that because you no longer want that pain. You look for how you can give your life a twist again so that it becomes pleasantly livable again. Twins can only be together if they are both completely healed and grown. There are still lessons that you both have to learn. That is where you are now. It is very difficult, I know everything about it. Try to resume your life after you have found something so beautiful and lost again…. But that’s your assignment. Get strong, learn to be happy even without your twin. Your twin cannot be responsible for your happiness, and vice versa. You first have to become happy yourself by becoming yourself. The same applies to him. Make no mistake, even though he does not experience this pain as you do, KNOW that he has also recognized your soul and that he is also learning, growing, transforming. It is not that you are the only one of the two to fight. He fights to keep trying to deny, but he will not succeed in the long run. I know exactly what you are going through and I also know that you will succeed in getting through this !!! But it’s heavy. Lots of love. (L.)
Answer 3
Dear M, I think you already give the answer to your question. Your story about the butterfly doll suggests that you actually know that you may have gone too fast. Is that ego? Yes it is, but at the same time I am convinced that you acted out of love. That is why you are so sad and angry now. You may be, because there is little greater suffering than losing love. Losing a soul’s love in particular can hit you very hard. Two things can happen: he will come back, or you will someday remember this and know what you have learned, and will feel that it has made you stronger. Now you don’t see that yet, but be convinced that it didn’t happen for nothing. In any case, I wish you a lot of strength in processing this grief. (Unknown)
Answer 4
It is often the case that one is stable before one encounters the twinflame. You are now only in the initial phase. The first 18 months I experienced as the worst, the center of gravity. Then it slowly became lighter and easier. It sounds incredible, but still: you get used to it. It has been shown in history that twinflames who get too close too soon, that the draft arrives there, dismantles a bad pier (eg with Romeo and Juliet, Abelard and Heloise, me and my twin in our previous lives) . I wish you much strength from (also) a twinflame. (Unknown)
Response dear people who have responded. Thank you for your beautiful answers. The nice and confusing thing about this process is that you feel different every day. Last night I had a special conversation with a special friend. He gave me nice insights. Including this one: let go in love and you will be ready when he returns. But if you suppress your feelings and no longer want them, your neurons will actually see this experience as negative and you will no longer recognize it as your lover. Then you will reject him, and you will miss your chance. I got my truth out of it. This friend also has visions and can therefore make me wiser. That certainly helped me start releasing. My process is going very fast at the moment. I learn new things every day and feel more and more. An experience that I regularly had with my special love was that I sometimes spontaneously forgot his name when he was with me. Then I thought that was strange, but now I have given my meaning to it. Namely that he has already had different names through life. Or that names are superfluous with a love so close to the core. Does anyone recognize this? Sometimes it also seemed like he was someone else. Then I was almost shocked because I thought someone else was lying next to me. For example, he once looked very much like my neighbor, whom I don’t like at all Does anyone recognize this? Sometimes it also seemed like he was someone else. Then I was almost shocked because I thought someone else was lying next to me. For example, he once looked very much like my neighbor, whom I don’t like at all Does anyone recognize this? Sometimes it also seemed like he was someone else. Then I was almost shocked because I thought someone else was lying next to me. For example, he once looked very much like my neighbor, whom I don’t like at allOr maybe I am really going crazy ? (M.)
Answer 5
My response to the last response here; I recognize that names no longer matter. A twin has had so many lives with different names and different faces that it doesn’t matter. It is the soul that is recognized by your own soul. And a soul is the only thing about a person that is not changed by life and death. The only consistent. I know from dream experiences and visions that my twin was always blond, and in this life he is. Before I fell in love with him, I fell only on boys with blond hair, and still. That is deeply embedded in me in one way or another. So no, you are certainly not crazy. (Unknown)
Answer 6
Day M, yes it seems more often that twinflames don’t call each other by name, they just say sweetheart, sweetheart and so on. I too always forgot the name of my twin in the beginning, perhaps because I remembered his name from the previous life? When I figured out his name (via search engines on the internet), I was surprised: Oh, is that your name now? And I immediately thought of a certain period / life in which we met. And now it turns out to be correct that we have to repeat that life. similar to that life, wonderful. (Unknown)
Answer 7
Answer 4: not to mention Jeanette MacDonald and Eddy Nelson and that annoying authoritarian MGM boss (see Wikipedia). They were twinflames but were not allowed to do anything together privately. It is now almost impossible to imagine, but this happened less than a century ago … I think this story of these two people is worth a film in itself, I would like to point out to Hollywood (Wieweet)