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Would very much like your opinion. Am not at all jealous and certainly not with regard to twin. But there is 1 person that twin sometimes chats with and then I am totally upset! I have met that person for 9 years in my life, has never been my favorite, kind of unusual type, it is difficult to describe, kind of floating type but the fake drips off, it always looks a bit pathetic. Why am I so upset every time Twin is talking to that person? it really makes no sense at all, I have had a good day, I see them chatting, I am totally stressed and feel completely depressed, I can cry. So I don’t just get rid of that feeling again, is just writing this message in tears … isn’t that normal? have been wondering for a long time why I apparently always have to meet that person in my life, even if I sit on a terrace in the summer and that person appears to be sitting there too, can I no longer relax, jammer? would like to understand, do you have an idea? It is not even really a jealous feeling, but it cannot be described otherwise.
Answer 1
9 years? Then you are an ultimate test case. It looks like you are being tested. In freedom, in ultimate charity, in … yes in what actually? Just as long as it doesn’t matter anymore, who is around you? I would ask a medium, show a picture of her. And then things might fall into place, an eye-opener, the penny drops. Does she know that you are twins? (Unknown)
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If it had just fallen a bit again I almost literally bump into that person this morning and then it starts again …. my blood starts to boil … so a little later in the forest I start to swear again in tears in myself (not on that person) but out of pure frustration because I just don’t understand why I am so upset about that) so I try to analyze it for myself … OK, what are my keywords with that person; frustrated, fake guru, wolf in sheep’s clothing, inappropriate lascivious, such a type that gives you substitute shame … not even rich, not even attractive to look at but maybe the opposite sex thinks differently about it …, all in all undefined characteristics to be jealous I thought, really can’t think of 1 reason. I already had this feeling before I met twin and I am certainly not the only one, but then it didn’t touch me. Then why am I so upset when twin talks to that person (and not as twin to literally! And figuratively much nicer people), what should I learn from this, why can’t I just stand above it? the only thing I can think of is that I hate people who are fake / made / not real and can’t stand that twin might not realize that, I am very curious about your reactions. And you know, maybe I’m also very wrong in that person and now it functions as a jammer to bring out the worst (hidden defect?) In me haha. I can really see the beautiful, the good, the sweet and the positive in everything and everyone, but this person really only gives me the jitters, as if it is a “piston”. (Unknown) Then why am I so upset when twin talks to that person (and not as twin to literally! And figuratively much nicer people), what should I learn from this, why can’t I just stand above it? the only thing I can think of is that I hate people who are fake / made / not real and can’t stand that twin might not realize that, I am very curious about your reactions. And you know, maybe I’m also very wrong in that person and now it functions as a jammer to bring out the worst (hidden defect?) In me haha. I can really see the beautiful, the good, the sweet and the positive in everything and everyone, but this person really only gives me the jitters, as if it is a “piston”. (Unknown) Then why am I so upset when twin talks to that person (and not as twin to literally! And figuratively much nicer people), what should I learn from this, why can’t I just stand above it? the only thing I can think of is that I hate people who are fake / made / not real and can’t stand that twin might not realize that, I am very curious about your reactions. And you know, maybe I’m also very wrong in that person and now it functions as a jammer to bring out the worst (hidden defect?) In me haha. I can really see the beautiful, the good, the sweet and the positive in everything and everyone, but this person really only gives me the jitters, as if it is a “piston”. (Unknown) and figuratively much nicer people talks), what should I learn from this, why can’t I just stand above it? the only thing I can think of is that I hate people who are fake / made / not real and can’t stand that twin might not realize that, I am very curious about your reactions. And you know, maybe I’m also very wrong in that person and now it functions as a jammer to bring out the worst (hidden defect?) In me haha. I can really see the beautiful, the good, the sweet and the positive in everything and everyone, but this person really only gives me the jitters, as if it is a “piston”. (Unknown) and figuratively much nicer people talks), what should I learn from this, why can’t I just stand above it? the only thing I can think of is that I hate people who are fake / made / not real and can’t stand that twin might not realize that, I am very curious about your reactions. And you know, maybe I’m also very wrong in that person and now it functions as a jammer to bring out the worst (hidden defect?) In me haha. I can really see the beautiful, the good, the sweet and the positive in everything and everyone, but this person really only gives me the jitters, as if it is a “piston”. (Unknown) why can’t I just stand above it? the only thing I can think of is that I hate people who are fake / made / not real and can’t stand that twin might not realize that, I am very curious about your reactions. And you know, maybe I’m also very wrong in that person and now it functions as a jammer to bring out the worst (hidden defect?) In me haha. I can really see the beautiful, the good, the sweet and the positive in everything and everyone, but this person really only gives me the jitters, as if it is a “piston”. (Unknown) why can’t I just stand above it? the only thing I can think of is that I hate people who are fake / made / not real and can’t stand that twin might not realize that, I am very curious about your reactions. And you know, maybe I’m also very wrong in that person and now it functions as a jammer to bring out the worst (hidden defect?) In me haha. I can really see the beautiful, the good, the sweet and the positive in everything and everyone, but this person really only gives me the jitters, as if it is a “piston”. (Unknown) maybe i’m also very wrong in that person and now it functions as a jammer to bring out the worst (hidden defect?) in me haha. I can really see the beautiful, the good, the sweet and the positive in everything and everyone, but this person really only gives me the jitters, as if it is a “piston”. (Unknown) maybe i’m also very wrong in that person and now it functions as a jammer to bring out the worst (hidden defect?) in me haha. I can really see the beautiful, the good, the sweet and the positive in everything and everyone, but this person really only gives me the jitters, as if it is a “piston”. (Unknown)
Answer 2
It sounds like that person makes you very insecure, as if you are afraid that your twin will like her more than you. Very human feelings but totally unnecessary in the light of twinflame kinship (assuming that he is definitely your twin). This is because no one can ever get between a soul’s love. Yes, your twin can enter into a relationship with someone else or, like mine, have a lot of changing friends, but no one ever comes between the bond that exists between you. Check with yourself what it is exactly in that woman that annoys you and makes you feel threatened. If you know that you might be able to do something with it. For the sake of honesty, I must admit that I also have a look at my twin’s facebook to see who he interacts with and what those girls look like, but I have never felt insecure about that. I’m the best (haha) and one day he will see that for himself. But I do know that feeling that you describe; not fun. (Unknown)
Answer 3
Hi answer 1, yes 9, but she has only disturbed me since I know twin, for that I thought it was a bit desperate / pathetic. And I can really hope that person does not know that we are twinflame, imagine, she sells herself as a spiritual coach haha, do you see that twin can tell his story there? Heard this afternoon from a friend who is married to her twin that she also knows this type of confrontation, precisely because I am so disgusted with that person, I cannot possibly understand (it touches me so) that twin can chat so nicely with the other person , thought it was a nice truth for myself haha. (Unknown)
Answer 4
Could it be a person with whom you have karma? maybe a soul from a past life that triggers you every time, maybe a soul that once stood between you and twin and do you feel this again? just another option that comes to me. (Unknown)
Answer 5
Answer 2, no it does not make me insecure, and furthermore it does not matter to me so much who twin talks or interacts with but this jammer somehow releases a lot of anger in me and I wondered why. I am not angry with that person (never have been), with twin or with myself and yet I feel anger. Maybe anger about the situation, a situation where you see things happen in disbelief and think “how can you be so blind, do you really not see what is happening?” (Where you wonder your idd, is this really my twin? Haha ). With everyone else you think…. well fill it in … but with twin it is immediately so confronting, also has nothing to do with jealousy. But the anger is over now and above all I feel very sad and powerless again, I also know that the weather has a purpose, but I still don’t know which goal it is, and I allow myself to use it again “voluntarily”, pfffff, will it ever end? I’m so tired of this. (Unknown)
Answer 6 Answer 4
, yes I have wondered that too and nothing is impossible but I really know a lot of people, men and women, spiritual and non-spiritual, who feel exactly the same dislike for that person. And that is precisely why I think it bothers me that Twin is apparently charmed by her, and kicks in with her eyes open (because that’s how I see it, sorry). (Unknown)
Answer 7
Dear Questioner, maybe make a lesson for your twin to distinguish what is really love and what is fake, maybe he thinks to see something in her that he knows is there but can’t find it anywhere? If so many people feel the same way with that person you would hardly think that it is only about your karma but more about the insights of your twin. wish you a lot of strength because you can read it pretty well, try to stand above it! love. (Unknown)
Answer 8
Yes, if so many people have that same feeling with that woman, you can ask yourself what you should learn from it, or maybe your twin should learn something from it, I would also be bothered by it in your case. Maybe you can make it known to your twin carefully (Unknown)
Answer 9
To answer 3: in a twin-soul relationship it is the major contradictions in behavior, views and insights that often cause the greatest pain, that is the notorious confrontations precisely because you are actually 1, the same, those contradictions come very hard. And if that contradiction is someone of the opposite sex, it looks like you’re jealous, but the actual contradiction is the difference in understanding and that might just as well be a business transaction. Would you find it difficult if your twin told his story to her? (Unknown)
Answer 10
Karma is also what comes to mind when I read this. She triggers very strong feelings of aversion with you. I recognize that with regard to a certain person. I also have someone like that in my area. I avoid her as much as possible. Can imagine how annoying it is that he doesn’t see it. He probably has no karma with her. I would not complain too often about her against your twin, you will only achieve the adverse effect, namely that he will find you less sympathetic and her more. What you can do is, when you meet her, put yourself in an impenetrable cocoon that she cannot get through. You keep her at a distance so that she cannot hit you. I do that sometimes and it helps. (Unknown)
Answer 11
Thank you for your comments, yes, yes, I would find that difficult if twin told her story (perhaps that was also my biggest fear that he would not be able to judge her properly for whatever reason), in the 1st place because she does not feel pure, because I know how slinky she works, and that feeling has several (spiritual) people and in the second place because I also see her very regularly and she does not even dare to look at me because she probably feels that I see through her. And yes, I would really like to know if Twin has poured out his heart there, after all, I am also dealing with her…. think it’s crazy for words that I have to have sleepless nights from such a person … if she had been pure and OK it would have made no difference to me I would have liked it if Twin could talk to someone even if I knew that person. And about that karma, yes, I keep wondering, but then you have whole! many people karma with her haha. (Unknown)
Answer 12
Hi, 10, yes, with a big bow around it in a small cocoon, good tip, well most of them walk around with a big bow around just not twin, sometimes even had the feeling that twin used it to trigger me ( very painful !!). I also have a strong feeling that I had to protect him from a major mistake (?) And then I read a comment and then I fear that I might be too late…. and complaining, unfortunately we no longer talk to each other in the earthly, would save a lot of frustration. A friend advised me to send that lady “Love”, well maybe I will manage that in a while but at the moment I just feel a lot of sadness and frustration, still. (Unknown)
Answer 13
Dear questioner that is very frustrating if you are no longer in contact and you see that he feels very comfortable with such a woman and is still afraid that he will pour out his heart there, then I would also freak I think jealous or not is then also about you. Did you first have contact then and why not now? otherwise perhaps approach it carefully again? Kind regards (Unknown)
Answer 14
Hi, answer 13 , flipping, I like that! luckily I never flip at the moment because I am usually in my cocoon that protects me. And careful approach is not an option for me because then maybe twin will flip haha and no cocoon can beat that, but we do have contact in a different way and he knows it now. thanks for your response, love. (Unknown)
Answer 15
Perhaps this is an ultimate lesson for you to ACCEPT and RESPECT that, no matter how much you and twin are 1, he still makes his own choices and you have no control over them. That, even though you are getting closer to each other, learning the lessons per person continues. Because I don’t believe that when twins finally come together, there is no longer any need to work on the relationship. That will always exist. Only, if all goes well, with the previous lessons you have learned how to continue this in your twin relationship. Alertness is always required. So that the relationship lasts and does not run the risk of being lost. Twins have done too much work for that and are too expensive for society. Perhaps it is the lesson for you that you learn to accept that he can see things differently than you and that you have no judgment about that. That you keep faith in him. At least again! heavy kl…. . love (L.)
Answer 16
Dear L, it has already blown over, closed for me iig. You are right to work in every relationship, but I think the intention is to be “worked out” as much as possible as an individual, so that we will soon have an optimal chance of success together. It is not for nothing that we meet each other so regularly haha, we are very carefully polished to each other (sometimes in a very special way), they have thought about it well up there , love. (Unknown)