Forever
Do male twins experience the phenomenon differently than female twins and do they deal with it differently? I have noticed and found that it is mainly the female twins who are honest about it on an earthly level and that the men deal with it differently / are more reserved in expressing their feelings. But maybe I am wrong. Therefore a call for all twins here, are you male or female, and do you know twin of your feelings and would you like earthly contact? I’ll start. I am a female twin, my male twin knows about my feelings but he already denies that he has feelings for me for 3 years. I would really like to contact him to exchange experiences and to avoid misunderstandings because it is already difficult and complicated enough. Who follows?
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Hi forever, I am also a woman twin, we have met each other more often ha and yes we do express ourselves, we express our feelings, we go for our feelings, that is beautiful but also terribly difficult. I feel so sure of my feelings but never hear / see anything in the earthly, only spiritual contact? I am a bit tired of it .. I am not so easily disrupted by me but if you never hear anything on earth level it becomes very sad as a person sometimes. to do well as an angel but yes you are also human and then you crawl out of that tub again to float on a sea of desires and hope .. love from me (Unknown)
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Yes good question. I think my twin / husband and I (wife) have the same feelings. His wife thinks it is nonsense, I think I am someone who is in love with him and has wrapped it nicely in a theory that is not scientifically proven . So can not express his feelings. Souls can guide each other in reincarnation, so if one soul incarnates, another can temporarily come in the womb or outside, to keep company for a while. This my twinflame has done to me. I I wonder if he can contain this, I told you, he does not respond. (Unknown)
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Hi Forever. You ask the question that I also thought about in recent days !! They are mostly women on this site. I also wondered if the twinflame event is experienced differently in a man. My twin is 25 years younger than me. I recognized him, because of his age he didn’t recognize me. He knows somewhere that there is something special, but he still cannot admit it to himself. I, too, would very much like earthly contact, because sometimes I just miss him terribly, but I am also afraid that I will then fall into the corrective role. And that’s no good. If we were in contact, our difference in soul level would only lead to more misunderstandings. He is still so young, he has no idea that this can exist, I CANNOT talk to him about it. But what would I like to talk to him about what he feels, what he experiences, what he does or does not feel about me. Whether he likes it or not that this band exists. But I would also love to! illen know how he is doing. Whether he is a bit happy or if he likes that I have not forgotten him. I recently sent him a text message asking if everything was okay with him. No answer of course. But the next day I clearly felt for a short moment that he was happy with my message. That he liked that I did not forget him. I would really like to help him. I want to do everything for him. But we both have to go through it alone. Apparently we agreed that at the time … I love you dearly… xxx (Unknown) Whether he is a bit happy or if he likes that I have not forgotten him. I recently sent him a text message asking if everything was okay with him. No answer of course. But the next day I clearly felt for a short moment that he was happy with my message. That he liked that I did not forget him. I would really like to help him. I want to do everything for him. But we both have to go through it alone. Apparently we agreed that at the time … I love you dearly… xxx (Unknown) Whether he is a bit happy or if he likes that I have not forgotten him. I recently sent him a text message asking if everything was okay with him. No answer of course. But the next day I clearly felt for a short moment that he was happy with my message. That he liked that I did not forget him. I would really like to help him. I want to do everything for him. But we both have to go through it alone. Apparently we agreed that at the time … I love you dearly… xxx (Unknown) That he liked that I did not forget him. I would really like to help him. I want to do everything for him. But we both have to go through it alone. Apparently we agreed that at the time … I love you dearly… xxx (Unknown) That he liked that I did not forget him. I would really like to help him. I want to do everything for him. But we both have to go through it alone. Apparently we agreed that at the time … I love you dearly… xxx (Unknown)
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I am also a woman. I met my twinflame about three years ago. I had never heard of “twinflames” but it was incredible what happened to me. Finally (two years ago) I took the step and told him about my feelings. He said he felt that there was more going on between us than just being in love. He was convinced that there was a soul affinity. Then I went on a discovery and I discovered this site. I could finally articulate what went on inside of me. A relationship is impossible because he himself is still in marriage with children. He and his wife only speak to each other for the most necessary things. I have seen this with my own eyes. However, he feels responsible for the two oldest children, so that he remains in this (unloving) marriage. I understand that, but meanwhile a game of attracting and repelling has been going on for two years (with both). I have tried several times to bring this up. But that wall around his heart keeps standing every time. And that is very frustrating. If we could talk about it openly (old fears, old patterns), it would both benefit us so much, I thought. Because you can’t talk about it with others. They don’t understand you enough. For two years we have been looking for a way to keep earthly contact while respecting the boundaries of both. We did not succeed, however. His boundary that I am not allowed to cross (such as making feelings discussable) is actually the boundary of the minimum respect for myself. Otherwise I make myself too dependent on him. And that is not the intention of soul love. I suspect that these are lessons that you have to go through “alone”. Lessons to let go of your “own” old fears, old pains and old patterns. Lessons to discover who you are and what your own desires are (independent of others). W! and because of the influence of society, we have often evolved into someone we “should be” instead of who we are “truly” (even though we do not always realize this). And a soul love is apparently someone who helps us keep this in mind to go through this process. But you have to do it “yourself”, discover “yourself”. Out of love for yourself! We have now decided not to contact each other for a while. It goes too much with ups and downs that we both dispense with enormously. The intention is now to “live” each our own life. And then to see what the future brings. Accept that each person goes through this in his own unique way at his own pace. And meanwhile let go of the other to build your own life, independent of him (which also means that you are not waiting for him). But just live your own life in the here and now. If only it were as easy as writing down these words … (Unknown)
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To the 2nd answerer, why can’t he express his feelings? you don’t have to do what your partner wants? He has those feelings himself, is that okay or am I crazy? (Unknown)
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A brief addition to the second answer (from my quiver): We must not forget that most men work out a lot through their careers. So also everything that belongs to twinflames. (Unknown)
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He may express his feelings, but he just doesn’t do it. Not to hurt his wife. We love each other too much, you know? He finds it hard to tell his wife. So he keeps those feelings to himself. He gets stuck sooner or later. But then we will see that again. Time will come.
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To twin of the 4th response. How clever that you put your story here so clearly. I think there is always a difference between men and women when it comes to making feelings talkable. Sometimes you may also have the feeling that you are both more or less “worked out” to a certain extent, so that you as a woman hope that you can talk to twin about it. Not so much about feelings but more about, for example, where you get your information from, where you could search and so on. It is certainly true that everyone must follow their own path at their own pace and must first be completely “themselves”, otherwise it would not work. And if you are meant to come together in this life, then that will happen anyway. Hopefully you will not have to wait until you are both in the old people’s home, but if that is the case, then there will be a good reason for that. And if it is not in this life, then w! el in a next life. I wish you a lot of strength on your path and above all, stay close to yourself…. much love (Forever)
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In addition to the 7th answer (typed by me): For the feelings come true also correlates with where the Moon is in the birth chart, this of course also applies to twinflames! If it is in Capricorn like my twin, then it reacts more reserved anyway, and also in a practical and efficient way. I have the Moon in Aries, as a woman too, that is a more dashing temperamental and masculine way to express your feelings, and my twin male has the Moon in Capricorn, a female sign. (Unknown)
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I don’t know if my story has added value for you. In those 4 years that I and my twin broke up and have regular contact with each other. In the beginning my twin denied the love between us because he was unconsciously / consciously busy with his personal development. Now that he has endured a certain development, he now only recognizes our love. For me it was important that I continued to live my own life without being affectionate or having any desire for him, so to let go completely. This process took a lot of time including talking out conflicts, attracting / rejecting, expressing what you really feel for each other. Daring to show your weakness. Now the time has come for us to get to know each other again. We are slowly but surely growing towards each other. This can take another year. It is also possible that we will not come together more than just friendship. In the meantime, I lead my life and stay close to myself. I have projected the desire on my twin but m! I have to search for myself all the time. I have not known this for a long time, but now I know better. (Unknown)
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Twin man, yes that does cause a problem for the outside world, but I can say that my twin is 25 years younger but doesn’t matter, feeling is feeling, and that doesn’t stop you. we met 6 weeks ago, and just the pure feeling straight from our hearts. he moved in with me, outside world? a pity then live your life the way you want together (Unknown)