Q0530. How do I get through that wall that my twinflame built around his heart?

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Recently I have noticed a great distance between me and my twinflame, as if he had built a wall around his heart. I still catch his feelings and I know what he is doing, but I don’t understand him anymore. He does everything to banish me from his system and that makes me sad. How can I gain access to his heart in a loving way?

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It is such an intensely sad feeling when you have the idea that you are being ignored. That he is trying to block you. I think the only thing you can do in such a case is be patient and send him your love. Not what you want to hear. I know. I can also scream because my twin doesn’t see it, doesn’t want to see it, or can’t see it yet. Your twin probably can’t surrender to it either. It is still too confrontational. And what can you do better in his case? Try to disable your feeling !! Trying to pretend it’s not true !! But he will find out in the coming time (years?) That it will not work. And maybe that he is now trying to keep his distance for self-protection because it is too intense what he is experiencing. Matters must also be processed. But you have always been twinflames and will remain forever. Your spiritual growth is probably not equal and that is a keih for those who go faster! practice in patience. But do not be afraid, you will soon feel an opening again, because this fight can never last long. His soul wants to grow despite everything, is it not to the left or to the right. But the lesson in this is patience. Worthless … .. I know all about it … (Unknown)

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Thank you very much for this response. I know, patience is a good thing and I do. I’ve been deeply in love with him for 16 years so a year more or less doesn’t matter anymore. It is an always lasting story for me. It transcends many lives and will continue after this life as well. I certainly send him my love, every night before I go to sleep I think of him. During the day I often feel a warmth around my heart chakra, such a feeling as if you have been drinking strong liquor that gives such a warm feeling in your throat and lower … do you know that? I feel that he is also doing a lot with me in my mind. Get a lot of characters that there is a connection. And that makes me happy. but the desire for him (physically) is sometimes so intense that I just don’t know where to look. Only recently was he here and then I look at him and I feel it so intensely. He can also look into my eyes so intensely, just a little longer than people would normally do. And he makes sweet comments. Then I melt completely. I know that his soul is much farther than his mind in this regard. The soul already knows everything, but it does not want it rationally yet. Every time we speak and see each other, I feel as if I have removed another brick from the wall around his heart. (Unknown)

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And yes if you are in the car and your child is sitting next to you and says .. mom you drive like crazy! then you know again that you have to slow down .. patience is that really meant for twinflames? pity, am not so good at it. (Unknown)

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Oh dear questioner. Already 16 years ??? How nice that you can keep this up for so long. You also have no choice by the way. I gave the first reaction and I must honestly state that I only met my twin this summer and therefore do not have much experience. I do have that warm feeling as if you were drinking strong liquor (haha … nice comparison), but I have the feeling that it only comes from me. I always have this feeling when I’m working intensively with my twin, for example when I’m writing my story. The love that I feel for him then goes SO strong that the tears of it often catch my eyes. It just burns under my heart. I myself would like to receive the love of my twin back, but as you can read above, that is by no means an issue. When I read how you are together, then there is not much talk about attracting and repelling. Perhaps these are the last pieces you still have to add to him! lps; breaking his wall. Such a wall can never fall in one go, that would be too intense. You will be very carefully and carefully prepared for being together. Because I believe with all my heart that a relationship between twinflames is SO delicate, that it is only for the few to be allowed to be together for the rest of this life. This love is so intense; both will have to be fully YOURSELF before this love relationship can work. I wish your patience will be rewarded so that you don’t have to wait much longer. But I also wish that you can be intensely satisfied that this has happened to you, and that you can enjoy the beautiful love that you carry with you !!!

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Yes, I recognize that about that patience. From time to time I feel like I have to wear a sign on my forehead “watch out, danger of explosion!” By the time you almost explode, that valve opens slightly, just enough to breathe again. As someone else also wrote, a kind of tension spring, that is tightened more and more. They sometimes say, you get no more than you can handle, but I feel I have already crossed all borders. Time will tell … (Unknown)

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For the explosion hazard, how come you have to be patient? can’t you go to your twin? why do you go beyond all your limits? I recognize it .. awkward huh? yes as someone once wrote about making mistakes, if they are made out of love then you cannot make mistakes in my opinion .. sometimes wonder ‘why do you hurt yourself so much?’ (Unknown)

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I am the explosion hazard and also an old soul who is in her last earthly life. An earthly relationship would not work with my twin at the moment, partly because I am married and twin is not yet finished with its development, it is just not our time yet. If I left my current partner now, it would go against all my feelings, no matter how much love I feel for my twin and how much I would like to be with him. I know this is my lesson for this earthly life. I have an interesting piece for you to read so that you can understand it better, but I cannot refer to another site here. My e-mail address is known to the editors, you can e-mail me for the link. (Unknown)

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Best explosion risk how do you know that you are an old soul? and how do you know that you are ‘further’ than your twin? (Unknown)

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Dear forever, do you sometimes feel like your twin is suddenly somewhere? do you always feel before you see your twin that he is around? and do you also feel that special energy flowing in, namely that your ego sinks into your shoes? and you just do not know how and what? (Unknown)

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Just in response to the 4th answer below this question, my question. Yes 16 years is a long time. I haven’t known all that time that he is my twinflame. I didn’t really find out until the beginning of this year. All the while before, there was something lurking, I had strong feelings for him, and there was a very special and telepathic bond between us. Since I know he is my twinflame, I have quickly made progress on my spiritual path. I have become even more sensitive than I was. The coincidences can no longer be counted that he and I were brought together or that I was reminded of him. Next weekend I will probably see him again and it makes me happy in these cold days. I never cherish expectations (you will learn that in 16 years) but I really enjoy the moments that have been given to us. We are always at a certain physical distance from each other, so in the same room, sometimes next to each other but that is it. The times he touched me are engraved in my memory, as well as all the words he ever spoke to me. I am certainly grateful that I can experience this special love. What I hope is that we will somehow get closer together. I do not necessarily have a relationship with him, as in an earthly love affair. But a close friendship that you can always fall back on would be very nice. (Unknown) I do not necessarily have a relationship with him, as in an earthly love affair. But a close friendship that you can always fall back on would be very nice. (Unknown) I do not necessarily have a relationship with him, as in an earthly love affair. But a close friendship that you can always fall back on would be very nice. (Unknown)

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Explosion Danger () writes: I have an interesting piece for you to read so that you can understand it better, but I cannot refer to another site here. My address is known to the editors, you can email me for the link. Could I also receive this link? Thanks in advance. (Lilly)

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Dear questioner. Here I am again. His touches and sweet sentences are also engraved in my memory. As a twin you can already be so happy with the smallest touch, gaze, word. Have you not had enough lessons in patience and austerity? I get discouraged when I realize that I am only 4 months away. I’m fine now. I am learning very quickly. But I don’t dare think about the coming years. Because I am afraid that there will certainly be as many as you have had. The loss will always remain for as long as I live. The best gift I can get is when my twin can look at me the way I look at him: Full of love, trust and without expectations. Just know that you are there and support each other with your unconditional love. That is my wish … (Unknown)

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For the person who asked me the question; yes, sometimes I suddenly feel my twin regardless of time or place, and yes I also feel that I will see him beforehand, sometimes consciously sometimes unconsciously and then afterwards I think, you see I knew it. I often have to laugh very hard about it. I also have that special feeling and often have a kind of blackout, because for a moment I don’t know how and what at such a moment. I think that is also because twin and I cannot communicate on an earthly level and that makes sense on the one hand, but I think it would be a lot easier if twin and I would have mail contact, for example, in order to exchange experiences that way. Love (forever)

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In answer to the penultimate answer: You are indeed 16 years later … that goes very quickly. And yes, I also dream of the day that twinflames will look at me in full awareness in love, unconditionally and without expectations. That moment will come but when? I am already so far that I can. The wait is for him. (Unknown)

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How do I know that I am an old soul? by reading and experiencing a lot and then getting confirmation from third parties, among other things, I found out that it is the intention that twin and I can continue together in this life. Usually this is only the intention with old souls who are in their last earthly life. Furthermore, I have always been someone of “seeing first, then believing” and I have now moved from 0 to almost 100 in a relatively short time with my spiritual development, which probably means that I have experienced almost everything and therefore know very quickly ” And accept whether something is right or not. Whether or not an earthly fusion with my twin will actually take place also depends on twin, after all each of us also has his own free choice as to whether or not to follow his path and finish it. I know that the intention is, but whether it actually happens depends on 2 people, each with a free one! want. And if I am further than my twin? I don’t think I mentioned that here. Let me state first of all that we must both have attained a certain spiritual maturity to make it possible for us to merge in this life, we are equal to each other and one is no higher or better than the other. But I think if my twin would be just as advanced in its development as I would then, on earthly level, we could just normally communicate with each other about this, knowing that we are destined to be able to continue together. And that is unfortunately not the case now. Hope to have answered your questions with this… (The explosion hazard) but whether it actually happens depends on 2 people, each with a free one! want. And if I am further than my twin? I don’t think I mentioned that here. Let me state first of all that we must both have attained a certain spiritual maturity to make it possible for us to merge in this life, we are equal to each other and one is no higher or better than the other. But I think if my twin would be just as advanced in its development as I would then, on earthly level, we could just normally communicate with each other about this, knowing that we are destined to be able to continue together. And that is unfortunately not the case now. Hope to have answered your questions with this… (The explosion hazard) but whether it actually happens depends on 2 people, each with a free one! want. And if I am further than my twin? I don’t think I mentioned that here. Let me state first of all that we must both have attained a certain spiritual maturity to make it possible for us to merge in this life, we are equal to each other and one is no higher or better than the other. But I think if my twin would be just as advanced in its development as I would then, on earthly level, we could just normally communicate with each other about this, knowing that we are destined to be able to continue together. And that is unfortunately not the case now. Hope to have answered your questions with this… (The explosion hazard) And if I am further than my twin? I don’t think I mentioned that here. Let me state first of all that we must both have attained a certain spiritual maturity to make it possible for us to merge in this life, we are equal to each other and one is no higher or better than the other. But I think if my twin would be just as advanced in its development as I would then, on earthly level, we could just normally communicate with each other about this, knowing that we are destined to be able to continue together. And that is unfortunately not the case now. Hope to have answered your questions with this… (The explosion hazard) And if I am further than my twin? I don’t think I mentioned that here. Let me state first of all that we must both have attained a certain spiritual maturity to make it possible for us to merge in this life, we are equal to each other and one is no higher or better than the other. But I think if my twin would be just as advanced in its development as I would then, on earthly level, we could just normally communicate with each other about this, knowing that we are destined to be able to continue together. And that is unfortunately not the case now. Hope to have answered your questions with this… (The explosion hazard) Let me state first of all that we must both have attained a certain spiritual maturity to make it possible for us to merge in this life, we are equal to each other and one is no higher or better than the other. But I think if my twin would be just as advanced in its development as I would then, on earthly level, we could just normally communicate with each other about this, knowing that we are destined to be able to continue together. And that is unfortunately not the case now. Hope to have answered your questions with this… (The explosion hazard) Let me state first of all that we must both have attained a certain spiritual maturity to make it possible for us to merge in this life, we are equal to each other and one is no higher or better than the other. But I think if my twin would be just as advanced in its development as I would then, on earthly level, we could just normally communicate with each other about this, knowing that we are destined to be able to continue together. And that is unfortunately not the case now. Hope to have answered your questions with this… (The explosion hazard) But I think if my twin would be just as advanced in its development as I would then, on earthly level, we could just normally communicate with each other about this, knowing that we are destined to be able to continue together. And that is unfortunately not the case now. Hope to have answered your questions with this… (The explosion hazard) But I think if my twin would be just as advanced in its development as I would then, on earthly level, we could just normally communicate with each other about this, knowing that we are destined to be able to continue together. And that is unfortunately not the case now. Hope to have answered your questions with this… (The explosion hazard)

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To explosion risk. (what a great nickname you have received !!) I am very curious what your spiritual experiences have been from 0 to 100. Can you give me examples of that? I always say that I learn very quickly. Very stupid, it comes to mind and I just say that. While I am a beginner because I met my twin 4 months ago. But when I see how many years some people have been struggling with this lack, I must say that I have learned quite quickly how the twin principle works. While I still cry for him every day. While sometimes I don’t know where to go with myself if I miss him so much. I also know that contact between my twin and my is simply not possible. The answers I get to my questions and the purpose of this meeting are becoming clearer to me. I keep on racing. See the story more and more sharply, also want to learn, also want to transform and spread love to the world. But sometimes I feel that way too! lost, so new in this area. Was not spiritual at all. Now my date of birth also seems to be the master number 33. However, since last weekend I have lost my confidence and I am very sad. I want to have a hold, continue to believe in love and in the future. Can you give me some examples about your growth? I would really like that. Love … (Unknown) However, since last weekend I have lost my confidence and I am very sad. I want to have a hold, continue to believe in love and in the future. Can you give me some examples about your growth? I would really like that. Love … (Unknown) However, since last weekend I have lost my confidence and I am very sad. I want to have a hold, continue to believe in love and in the future. Can you give me some examples about your growth? I would really like that. Love … (Unknown)

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Yes, how did my spiritual growth go. It started with the realization that there was more between heaven and earth by experiencing for themselves what a “seer” could do, by seeing for myself how my dog ​​reacted to a remote reiki treatment, by receiving special messages via the shuttle. Then twin came into my life and I could feel his energy without knowing what exactly I was feeling. I started following a Reiki I course and then got in touch with “above”. At first I did not know / understood how that worked but by reading a lot (angels in my hair / return to love / the secret) I understood how something like that works. I also constantly received “confirmation” in daily life, most noticeably because of shooting stars when I sat outside in the evening. But in many more areas, sometimes throughout the day, too many to mention. Once I understood how that worked, I started searching and googling on the internet, first with twinflames, the year 2012,! akasha chronicles, the fifth dimension, lightworkers and so I came from one site to the other where I was mostly led upstairs. Sometimes I could not do anything with the information and sometimes I also “knew” right, yes this is true. All in all, all the puzzle pieces fell apart constantly and the puzzle became bigger and bigger. The most weighty and most obvious to me was the term EGO, almost everything can be traced back to that when it comes to processing sadness / old pain, if you “know” how the big picture works. If you have knowledge of the big picture and you understand then releasing pain / sadness / old is a lot easier, it is not so much that you are no longer allowed to feel or feel sadness, but if you know what it is you can give it a place. But just as it applies to the concept of twinflames, only when you experience it / understand / are ready for it, are you able to really understand how it works! t. If you want to know more you can email me, the address is known to the editors. Love (Unknown)