Q0523. I love you too … is that so difficult?

Unknown

Why is it so hard to admit that you love someone, especially when it comes to your twinflame? Afraid of being hurt? But if one soul says so and the other does not, who is or will be hurt? Look, if one of them has a relationship or both and there are entire families involved, then I understand that you are very careful and that you are not openly and publicly expressing those feelings. But why can’t you just deal with that in an adult way by saying both, OK we love each other very much but we do and can’t do anything with it now because it’s not our time yet? Society and our norms and values ​​have instilled in us that we should not love others if we are already in a relationship but the feelings that twins have for each other are so pure and serve a higher purpose, why should you not feel it and share it with each other if you deal with it properly? I myself have great difficulty with the fact that my twin refuses to admit his feelings on an earthly level, and I would like to know his motives.

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If you speak it openly, you risk a reply, the right to a defense. And that reply immediately comes in so deeply that you can see it better. Self-protection for both. (Unknown)

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You already know about your twin that he / she loves you. Why does it have to be confirmed again and again? Lack of self confidence? I would think carefully with every man-twin statement: does it work in a separating or binding way? A statement such as “I love you” can, if incorrectly timed with twin, have a very separating effect. That distinguishes twins. Because they are so terribly aware of each other. The verbal confirmation is earthly uncertainty. Because of the many lives that we have experienced, we have become very attached to each other. That also makes it easier to do nothing verbally about it, we already know about each other. Even an adult reaction. with each other.And we also make no contact except paranormal contact.If something serious happens to you tomorrow and it is in the newspaper,

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Do not think that it is due to a lack of self-confidence with me, if I had not known for sure I would never have told my twin. I’m not exactly someone who sells feelings quickly, certainly not with a “stranger” man. I wondered if it might have been my twin’s lack of self-confidence, afraid of losing himself, being vulnerable or something. What could be better than, if you are both spiritually “mature”, sharing your experiences together, it can be an enrichment for your further joint development. You may wonder why your twin must first end up in the hospital in order to dare to have contact, well … Maybe I should then conclude and accept that my twin is just not ready yet. (Unknown)

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That reply: I recognize it, even though I experienced it. That is the reason that I dare not contact him. The fear that if I do, he will reject me. And nothing can touch you deeper than the twin you reject. Self-protection and prevention of further removal, that is what keeps me from emailing him. But I would love to receive earthly confirmation that he loves me too. Because it is said so nicely here, but I don’t think my twin is aware that he loves me. Perhaps unconsciously, but that is so deep, I have not yet felt that love from him, I think. I have received little energy from him. Except when we still saw each other, I certainly got a lot of energy from him. And I would love to feel that deep warm love through me, when he thinks of me in love. I feel so alone on this path and in my sorrow of missing. I wanted him to be aware of on! they were souls and loved me just as much as I loved him. And think of me just as often as I think of him. To send your love to each other. That sounds great!!! Nothing can make you happier than your twin who loves you. (Unknown)

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Once. Words often destroy more than they do well. In a twinflame relationship, it is precisely the unspoken word, the feeling and the intuition that is most important. Feel each other, even remotely. And not so much what is said, because that is often something very different from what the heart whispers. I experience it for myself. I can’t just say everything on my heart to my twin. That would be the biggest problem for both of us. He recently said that he had learned to listen to his feelings from now on. Then I replied that I do that as much as possible, but unfortunately I cannot always follow my feelings …. I think he has picked up the message. There were others, but they did not understand the meaning of my message. Fortunately, those people are unconscious and only see what their eyes are serving them. Twin and I see and feel much more than that. Also pay attention to body language. It tells you more than 1000 words. There is a lot to be found on the internet. (Unknown)

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I have a question: If you then all get signs in daily life, such as the profession of my twin, it comes across in a magazine or songs about Soulmates and figures such as 12:12 or 13:13. I feel it has to do with my twin but does it mean that my twin is also busy with me or should I do something? I hope someone has experience with this and knows what to do because get stuck a bit .. XXX (Unknown)

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Wanting to hear twin in an earthly way ‘yes I feel something like that, wanting to hear something is not an uncertainty, after all you feel it … it has to do with compassion and respect for each other and maturity. accept it. nix never has to die in life and be born. (Unknown)

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Yes or then what should you do? you know best yourself, what you can do is what you thought you would relate at the time when those figures appeared. if you think you want to see your twin, for example, and assign to him / her and the numbers appear, then that is a little push for you. you know and feel the best that they want to tell you all those signs of the universe. (Unknown)

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I often think that we, all living things on earth, are a transmitter / receiver / decoder of vibrations, and I believe that love is a high vibration that we are not so well able to send / receive and decode. be able to receive and decode sound up to a certain frequency, or see light up to a certain intensity. Perhaps somewhere in history, we have been genetically tinkered with our genes and could do that. As in the Biblical story of the lion lying with the lamb and Adam and Eva who were not ashamed of each other. In my opinion, grief is a lower vibration and we can easily pick it up. AND / OR: Is there a kind of artificially created “firewall” around us, manipulated space, which means that those high vibrations do not enter properly or that they enter, but we do? don’t pick them up. This has been described excellently by the cosmologist Carl Sagan. (Unknown)

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I think that feeling is more important, but you should never assume that your twin understands everything, if you yourself have certain knowledge of your twin, in an earthly way, then also pass on some of your feelings, in an earthly way. soul love is not only for yourself; it takes 2 2 tango. do not put your principles above the laws that come from above. nobody accepts that, permanently. (Unknown)

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I am the questioner and am now aware that very large misunderstandings can arise if you refuse to communicate on an earthly level. Fortunately, after a lot of puzzling, I am now finding out what it really looks like, at least I think so because there is still no communication on earth level .. I can only say, stay very close to yourself, to your own feeling and let never lead you by what you think you see or read … (Forever)

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answer number 2 hits the nail on the head … I just realized that the spiritual challenge of your twin without earthly contact is a kind of training for when you are really together … where the intensity will be many times greater. (Unknown)