Q0513. Who can advise me?

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Soul love is the source from above tapped by twinflames who have found each other and yet may it not be so? what is that ? is that the purpose of the universe / god? is that what is expected of us? how bad can you make it for the world. I don’t believe anything of that! if you get something beautiful and you put it next to you because ?? is that the intention, a moment of happiness and then say give it back again. I have been on the road for a long time and I am sad and I do not want to be dragged by emotions anymore but they are there, sometimes I am so tired of everything that I am paralyzed, cannot even cry anymore, my heart rises explode sometimes. it is indeed meant to be there. my love has grown and has grown, but it cannot be. lots of happy moments, a lot of sweet attention and still not being together, that is pain to the bottom. feel paralyzed and on the other hand I let myself float on the hope that someday and then I feel happy again. what can I do, what can I do? my sweetheart is sad and I want to support her how the hell am I doing? if she wants to keep me at a distance because I am too much for her, how can I express my feelings for her? who can advise me what I can do? How can I express my feelings for her? who can advise me what I can do? How can I express my feelings for her? who can advise me what I can do?

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Twinflames can only come together when both are spiritually mature. How spiritually mature are you already? You do communicate with each other, after all, you know that your soul love is sad. Cultivate that communication remotely. After a while, it works just like a “real” relationship. hold each other’s hand, just like in normal life. Then you become spiritually mature, I notice myself. Does she have to redo or complete an earthly occupation from a past life, a heavily responsible task in which some vagueness is absolutely not tolerated? Then it’s better to stay away from each other, my twin and I experience. For the common good and well-being. Twinflames have a serving function,

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I recognize it. Feel a lot of sadness and guilt in my case. It is very heavy and I fear that my twinflame will get this from me and feel my misery. I find that very unpleasant for him, but for now I am not able to switch the button. Feel deeply sad and sad. What I would like to say to you is: try to be there for your darling, you can even do that remotely. She definitely feels it. And when you see each other, love can be in small things, they too are picked up, you can count on that. Try to keep the positive things in mind and keep that good feeling. And send her all your love before bedtime. Lots of love (A twinflame)

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Have you ever asked / looked for other ways of contact that would be acceptable to both of you? (Unknown)

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I myself also wonder every day why things should be so difficult. I believe in a God who loves everyone and not in a God who wants to see us sad. Yet this soul love also brings a lot of sorrow with it, I sometimes think that God is trying to shape us or grow us through the sorrow that we have. I try to have more faith in God and he will know why this happened this way. I may tell this now soberly but it really hurts a lot, I have already shed a lot of tears, but keep hoping that it will all be okay someday. If your twin no longer wants to see you, you may still be able to send positive energy and love to her through telepathic contact, she will always continue to feel your presence even though you are not together. A lot of strength and success. (Lotte)

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Sorry, I can not advise you because I am in the same boat. I am also sad, powerless but also angry with the universe that she does this to me !! You meet your twinflame and after a few days it will be taken away from you. What a sadness !!! My twinflame is not (yet) aware of what happened between us. Due to a misunderstanding, we have practically no contact anymore. The last time was a sort of quarrel in which he clearly showed that I did VERY hurt him at the time. They say that you have to let go while I am only thinking about how I can make contact with him and see if he is still so angry. But I don’t dare. I’m afraid he will still be angry and slam the door in my face. Sometimes I think I feel his insecurity and sadness and I would really like to talk to him. But then every time I try to control myself not to make contact because I am afraid of his answer but! r also because you hear from all sides that you should leave it alone. Sometimes he feels very strong and doesn’t need me. Then I know in my head that I don’t have to approach him. It’s so hard to handle this !! It is almost impossible to wear on your own. The uncertainty, the powerlessness, the desire, the fear of losing, the sadness. This has now taken 3 months and I am so tired of the whole event. I wish I had never met him … … but I cannot and will not forget him !!!! I love him too much for that. (Unknown) But then every time I try to control myself not to make contact because I am afraid of his answer but! r also because you hear from all sides that you should leave it alone. Sometimes he feels very strong and doesn’t need me. Then I know in my head that I don’t have to approach him. It’s so hard to handle this !! It is almost impossible to wear on your own. The uncertainty, the powerlessness, the desire, the fear of losing, the sadness. This has now taken 3 months and I am so tired of the whole event. I wish I had never met him … … but I cannot and will not forget him !!!! I love him too much for that. (Unknown) But then every time I try to control myself not to make contact because I am afraid of his answer but! r also because you hear from all sides that you should leave it alone. Sometimes he feels very strong and doesn’t need me. Then I know in my head that I don’t have to approach him. It’s so hard to handle this !! It is almost impossible to wear on your own. The uncertainty, the powerlessness, the desire, the fear of losing, the sadness. This has now taken 3 months and I am so tired of the whole event. I wish I had never met him … … but I cannot and will not forget him !!!! I love him too much for that. (Unknown) Then I know in my head that I don’t have to approach him. It’s so hard to handle this !! It is almost impossible to wear on your own. The uncertainty, the powerlessness, the desire, the fear of losing, the sadness. This has now taken 3 months and I am so tired of the whole event. I wish I had never met him … … but I cannot and will not forget him !!!! I love him too much for that. (Unknown) Then I know in my head that I don’t have to approach him. It’s so hard to handle this !! It is almost impossible to wear on your own. The uncertainty, the powerlessness, the desire, the fear of losing, the sadness. This has now taken 3 months and I am so tired of the whole event. I wish I had never met him … … but I cannot and will not forget him !!!! I love him too much for that. (Unknown)

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I hope that you will eventually find a good way to communicate with each other. I myself have tried to contact my twin several times, including through letters and text messages, but he continued to deny. The last time I sent him an SMS, about a month ago, he spoke to me, totally unexpected, a very impersonal and surprised message on my phone. I was totally off the map for 2 days, so I don’t dare anymore. He knows my phone number so I can always request my hot mail account through that route because I would like to contact. Heavy huh (Unknown)

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Yes it is very heavy. I have known for a long time who my Twin Soul is (and actually I felt this for a long time but didn’t want to). We too share a telepathic contact and sometimes I can feel it very clearly and sometimes not at all. I know that he also “receives” me but is not very aware of what is going on. Not yet. He’s in a whole process, just like me. Only I’m a little further in that. I find it so difficult and sometimes wish that I didn’t have to go through this. But on the other hand it is also so beautiful. They are not many moments, but the moments that are there are usually beautiful. From that I draw my strength. And sometimes, like now, that strength fails and I sink into a deep hole and feel cold and empty. Tomorrow the weather can be different. I believe that some twinflames come together and find love together. For us, however, I do not see this happening. At least not for the time being. He must first develop further. I would love me so much! t talk to him about this but know that it will destroy more than I do well. So I control myself and that is not easy. (Unknown)

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To the person asking the question: have you already wondered why you met and in what context was that? Very often, I myself have the idea that twinflames meet each other for a short period of time to rectify something from the last communal life. Just a moment on the i and then independently again. Until a certain point in time … To take my own story as an example: My twinflame cut off my ovary because it made me pregnant in our previous joint life. This was not allowed due to a difference in position. put an end to that history and that trauma. That was the reason we met again after 130 years. I met this life twice briefly, cut the ovary and no longer met each other, even remotely (internet or telephone or something)

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Why stay away from each other if you have an earthly occupation? what nonsense, if you opt for that together and combine the so-called ‘floating’ with the earthly, then I think that is fine. Perhaps all those ‘earthly’ professions need to be examined. if you combine it with the wonderful twin ‘love feeling’ then you will go a long way, for general benefit and well-being you can work very well together, even in an earthly or floating occupation. I have a service profession myself and I would really appreciate it if it were supported by an intense love. It would only be an enrichment for my work, because if you are very happy yourself, you can pass it on even better. (Unknown)

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The combination of the earthly appeal with the “heavenly” twin love, that will come. But not yet. He can’t afford it yet, he still has to make “flying hours”, he has to keep both feet on the ground. Because of my continuous presence he would get the urge to float too, then I pull him in the air. That may be at a later stage of our lives but not yet. It would simply be irresponsible. It is not for nothing that he has chosen a very earthly, sober life partner. He who pulls the rope when the balloon goes up. That is what he needs at this stage. (Unknown)

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Nice as you see it nice to experience it that way .. that it may be so, twin n I are not there yet n wish you all the best you are already a long way, well I think success with the flight hours and the terrestrial combination of such a thing. (Unknown)

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Another question; are you also unfaithful if you think so much about your other half and you wake up at night at the same time, that you feel the other, sometimes I am overwhelmed by love, very strange then fall asleep again after a while .. but next to my husband, thinking about the other ..? even in the evenings when I relax and often I also know when my twins work is done, a kind of contact I immediately feel, whether she flows through me for a moment. (Unknown)

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No that is not unfaithful, nor faithful. It is just CONTACT. It is only unfaithful if you keep silent about your husband lying in bed next to you. Withhold, keep secret, that is unfaithful. (Unknown)

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Allow the other time and confidence to go through this transformation process. Twins meet each other and this is terribly beautiful but also your deepest hidden feelings come up that one still has to process. Work on your transformation process, work on your emotions that have come up. With 1, this transformation process takes longer than the other. Every twin relationship is also different. Have faith that you will ever come back together with your twin, as long as you work on your own transformation process! Never say never, you have to do something for it! (Alicia)

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I noticed that my twin would rather not have contact, heard very briefly and yet would rather not, okay it is good as it is. Releasing is difficult but I can only imagine it because of all the confusion that my twin would rather have contact, So now I just have to listen to myself, it is hard for me to hear that my twin is crying. and yet let go out of respect that is what I have to do and will do .. will send him my Love and will no longer follow what he is doing on the internet because that is counterproductive for me, because I just don’t know who says and writes what .. so then but nowhere to respond..hope and want me to ..Liefs (Unknown)

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I sympathize with you, we have that as well as me and my twin. I grew incredibly spiritually through him. He is already very spiritual. We have been in contact for a year and it is fantastic with each other. The feeling of coming home is definitely with us. Also have rot moments together but that will usually be fine again. We want to be together but the gods do not approve of this (because we were already together in a previous life. This is so sad. We are always lonely, but when we are together it feels so good. But I still have the hope we can really go on together. We will stay connected all our lives. But we want to live together. Hope but for a miracle it will work out for you too. Strength of a lonely sad happy twinflame. (Unknown)