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So much recognition what I read here from others Making choices. Letting go etc. Open and honest to both partner and twin .. Happiness that partner is open and looks further. Know about this website What I am “worried about” is that I do not want to and cannot choose. If I do, I am not honest to myself. You also do not choose which child you love and feel the most love for. Isn’t that impossible to separate from each other? The Love that is there feels so intense etc in me. Want to give it And share it to both and for myself. Parter and twin know this also think it is good and beautiful Can you continue being three together with everything that goes with it?
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small anecdote … a friend of mine is a judge, she said; her rear neighbor is separated by her. kids now live with ma. dad works on Mon-Wed, Mon on Thu-Fri. they do not have a babysitter on do-free. so dad will look after kids at mom’s house. it is more convenient and cheaper and good for the kids (baby) if he also lives there, those 2 days. they are all happy with it, no problem. that is also how I think about twin love, if you are honest and a form that works… .prima whatever works, but for everyone! (Unknown)
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I don’t know how much I would like to be with my twin, I wouldn’t want more than friendship if he didn’t choose. A comparison with children is something else. Having a relationship with a partner and a twin, how do you see that? My twin also wants both but that would cost me so much energy, so I decided for myself that I would really like to see twin very occasionally, but as a good friend. I have a good life and I want it that way All this unrest does not bring you closer together. I respect my twin’s relationship and I don’t want it to go wrong with me, so I decided to keep my distance. (Unknown)
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for me. I am becoming more spiritual and my twin chooses an earthly life so that he remains standing with both feet on the ground. He has also chosen a very earthly, sober life partner for that reason. I feel that he has also left this part of the country to feel me less and to run less risk of seeing me. What that may trigger him back to the floating and he must live this very earthly life. Either he must or he chooses voluntarily for that. So let go, make a choice. (Unknown)
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Personally I could not, it would be an unequal relationship. I love my partner and my children unconditionally, but the love I feel for my twin is in no way comparable to that. This goes so deep, I never thought such a thing was possible, my twin is a part of myself. Strength with making your decision! (Unknown)
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What exactly do you mean by EVERYTHING that belongs to it? (Unknown)
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Answer questioner on EVERYTHING that belongs: What you as a person do, think, feel, experience, happen, share, give etc. (Unknown)
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Love does not diminish if you also feel love for others. Thus love is infinite and as such infinitely divisible without diminishing. Attention, care, money, living space, time … you can share them all and if you share them, you divide them, and it becomes less. But not love !!! Love is an inexhaustible divine source, you can feel love for everyone, without this diminishing for one of them, that is the true beauty of love. So you do not have to leave your own partner when you also feel love for someone else. You therefore love your own partner no less, and you yourself are the one who decides what you want to do with that love. (Unknown)
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In the opposite case, fear sometimes arises, when a friend tells us that he / she feels love for us, we become uncertain about our own situation. How can we continue with our partner, and can we still remain friends. Here too we have to think carefully why we feel that fear, we would not feel that fear if the butcher said that (if he is that friend), or someone else with whom we do not share anything. That fear can therefore only arise when it concerns someone who is dear to us, or for which we also feel love (even though we would rather not call it that). Only then do we doubt our own feelings and become afraid of the possible consequences if we surrender to those feelings. So it’s not the other that scares you, but your own thoughts about your own feelings from which fear comes. That fear of the love that someone else feels for us does not have to exist at all, that fear only shows that we are still uncertain about ourselves. By being confident about our own interpretation of life, that we determine what we want or don’t want, the love of the other can never be a threat. In addition, we can accept that we ourselves also feel love for the other person, since this says nothing about the love we feel for our own partner. Love is a divine gift, meant to give to ourselves and everyone dear to us, without ever running out … or the jug of love that never runs out. (Dream Friends) That fear of the love that someone else feels for us does not have to exist at all, that fear only shows that we are still uncertain about ourselves. By being confident about our own interpretation of life, that we determine what we want or don’t want, the love of the other can never be a threat. In addition, we can accept that we ourselves also feel love for the other person, since this says nothing about the love we feel for our own partner. Love is a divine gift, meant to give to ourselves and everyone dear to us, without ever running out … or the jug of love that never runs out. (Dream Friends) That fear of the love that someone else feels for us does not have to exist at all, that fear only shows that we are still uncertain about ourselves. By being confident about our own interpretation of life, that we determine what we want or don’t want, the love of the other can never be a threat. In addition, we can accept that we ourselves also feel love for the other person, since this says nothing about the love we feel for our own partner. Love is a divine gift, meant to give to ourselves and everyone dear to us, without ever running out … or the jug of love that never runs out. (Dream Friends) that we determine what we want or do not want, the love of the other can never be a threat. In addition, we can accept that we ourselves also feel love for the other person, since this says nothing about the love we feel for our own partner. Love is a divine gift, meant to give to ourselves and everyone dear to us, without ever running out … or the jug of love that never runs out. (Dream Friends) that we determine what we want or do not want, the love of the other can never be a threat. In addition, we can accept that we ourselves also feel love for the other person, since this says nothing about the love we feel for our own partner. Love is a divine gift, meant to give to ourselves and everyone dear to us, without ever running out … or the jug of love that never runs out. (Dream Friends)
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The Ego starts to scream everything and makes you crazy with words: It is not right that you feel so much love for someone while you have a partner. love If you continue to love that other person, your relationship will break You don’t want to know the other person as you really are That is not Love what you feel, that is an obsession Etc. That voice drives you crazy … really crazy … you lack sleep, you can no longer concentrate, there is always that voice and the thought of the other person. The existence of that other person makes your life a hell … you just have to put an end to it as quickly as possible and no longer interact. And you agree with that, because that is no longer possible,
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Making that choice of holding or letting go is emotionally the toughest thing I’ve had to do in my life so far. Everywhere I read about twin relationships and whether or not they go together. But is a twin always your own age? Or do you speak of something other than twin in the case of a very large age difference? Perhaps about soulmate. Or a soul from a past life. (Unknown)
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love can be shared with everyone but you don’t want a love relationship with everyone. what if you just want to share everything as twins, is it all so easy? I think it’s nice said it just probably does not work, sorry, love also means closeness and you just can not enter into a love relationship (with all the bells and whistles) with all the people you love, however much you would like that . I would not want to be able to live in a splits, it just depends on where you place your priorities. and yes I love my friends, my partner, my twin but can’t experience everything with everyone and then you come back to choices and that is difficult but maybe also a very tough lesson that you have to go through. I do not know is only a philosophy of mine .. But choices have nothing to do with ego for me, but with an honest look at your feelings and the consequences that entails. Then you act with love and not with fear. You act with fear if you dare not make a choice. And if you don’t! want to make a choice is also a choice, but then be happy with what you have. I have love in abundance and want to share that with everyone. have respect for everyone else’s wishes, but keep looking at yourself honestly. (Unknown)
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How can I tell you what cannot be said? I trust that you can feel it … How can you tell what cannot be said? You can trust your feelings and no longer have to fear what you will discover and so that the unspeakable can be spoken and you will be heard for who you really are! Nice isn’t it … (Unknown)
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If you really fully trust your feeling from Love and follow it with all your heart, then “making choices” no longer exists. Once you have made the choice to surrender to this forever, you know that it was the last choice you ever made. (Unknown)
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Yes, the last choice of mine has put myself to rest. I now live to my heart, to my feelings and that includes my twin. That is only the last thing that is difficult because we just love each other and always want to be together , but for that you need two, would like to keep seeing him and also want to keep hearing otherwise I think life is empty, this is the most important thing that you don’t want to miss anymore. (Unknown)
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Hello dear questioner, With everything that comes with it? Are you already getting closer to your answer … to your core at your source? I wish you … your wish !! (Unknown)
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Day TA Let go so that I can connect with myself again! That too is love. Even more, that is REAL love for myself, so that I can receive, give and also receive and give real love without Or with you. You understand me sweetly. I’ll always be there. I watch. When? When I am connected to myself and no longer cut off. It’s getting heavy. I experience and feel that you are there for me. Love you. (Unknown)
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yes choose with all your heart then all your wishes come true .. no matter how difficult it seems, hold the light of love, that gives you direction. someone sometimes described me when I no longer saw it; you walk in a forest and you are already so far that you can no longer see the beginning but not the end either, yet you have to go further and then there are bright spots between the trees that give you a hold, the direction you want to walk, then you come to yourself and that gives space, light and love. I see more and more the light shining through the trees .. then I feel that I am so close, so one, mentally and physically without the twin really being with me .. strength with your search .. love (Unknown)