Q0489. I do not understand it any more?

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For 7 years I dealt with what I thought was my twin. Every day we felt each other so well .. the sparks burst from it .. we laughed, cried, understood each other. People said to us … jeje what an energy you radiate together .. He was everything for me … Unfortunately he did all these years also a friend .. he dares not to leave her for fear .. afraid that he hurts all his familiar surroundings .. so does not go for his own happiness … he is a sensitive boy and he often cries seated me that he could not choose his own happiness … find it so pathetic for him .. but because he can not choose he has hurt me a lot all those years .. I often could not do it anymore … .. I am often fled because I did not want to live as a third wheel. Now he said it is now my turn to flee and try to let go of each other Apparently he succeeds … so hear nothing more. After he left my life .. I confessed everything to his girlfriend! via an email … error from me .. mega regret it a lot..but could not stand that he left..after years together and after sharing so much suffering and love … my energy was gone .. I finished it half a year often tried to get in touch … but unfortunately … dear people, I really lost him now .. half a year is long..and if he really loved me did he let something be heard? I know he’s not happy … but he’s someone who’s just going to do it or be happy … because he has never been able to tell her honestly … and now he must try to save his relationship … hope you give me a kind of understand. I confessed everything to his girlfriend! via an email … error from me .. mega regret it a lot..but could not stand that he left..after years together and after sharing so much suffering and love … my energy was gone .. I finished it half a year often tried to get in touch … but unfortunately … dear people, I really lost him now .. half a year is long..and if he really loved me did he let something be heard? I know he’s not happy … but he’s someone who’s just going to do it or be happy … because he has never been able to tell her honestly … and now he must try to save his relationship … hope you give me a kind of understand. I confessed everything to his girlfriend! via an email … error from me .. mega regret it a lot..but could not stand that he left..after years together and after sharing so much suffering and love … my energy was gone .. I finished it half a year often tried to get in touch … but unfortunately … dear people, I really lost him now .. half a year is long..and if he really loved me did he let something be heard? I know he’s not happy … but he’s someone who’s just going to do it or be happy … because he has never been able to tell her honestly … and now he must try to save his relationship … hope you give me a kind of understand. after years of being together and having shared so much suffering and love … my energy ran out .. I have often tried to make contact over the past six months … but alas … dear people, I really lost him now .. half a year is long..and if he really loved me did he let you hear something? I know he’s not happy … but he’s someone who’s just going to do it or be happy … because he has never been able to tell her honestly … and now he must try to save his relationship … hope you give me a kind of understand. after years of being together and having shared so much suffering and love … my energy ran out .. I have often tried to make contact over the past six months … but alas … dear people, I really lost him now .. half a year is long..and if he really loved me did he let you hear something? I know he’s not happy … but he’s someone who’s just going to do it or be happy … because he has never been able to tell her honestly … and now he must try to save his relationship … hope you give me a kind of understand. and if he really loved me did he make a point? I know he’s not happy … but he’s someone who’s just going to do it or be happy … because he has never been able to tell her honestly … and now he must try to save his relationship … hope you give me a kind of understand. and if he really loved me did he make a point? I know he’s not happy … but he’s someone who’s just going to do it or be happy … because he has never been able to tell her honestly … and now he must try to save his relationship … hope you give me a kind of understand.

Answer
Why did you email everything to his girlfriend to get it back to you? that does not work .. let him free .. and let him sort out his feelings .. he cries with you because he feels at home with you .. too bad he ‘must’ sort out and ‘must’ save what is left , I don’t think you should do anything in love … but you can. let him go, or be happy with the contact you still have if that comes from him. strength..loves (unknown)

Answer
Annoying for you that it went like this. You cannot erase the moment it happened. Don’t hold on to things that have happened, look ahead. He opts for distance. Let him go, or you will push him further away. Get your emotions under control and choose for yourself, no matter how hard you find it. You have no choice. That he maintained 2 relationships, there is always 1 that gets hurt. In this case you are the one. It’s not about being wrong, you made an opening to his girlfriend. Suppose his girlfriend found out about your relationship, did he choose you? Whether he is happy with his current girlfriend or not, it must be a choice from him to leave her of her own free will. Make sure that your ego does not get the upper hand over your feelings. Work on yourself. How would you like it if you had a friend who had another woman behind your back? You always play in situations like this! with feelings of others. Something I don’t approve of anyway. I wish you good luck and strength. (Unknown)

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Part of his heart is with her. And he is not nearly as far as you are, to be able to make choices in his life. Let go. Because if you keep pulling on him, he will take more and more distance from you. Who knows in eighty years, that you are intended for each other.if you are on the same wavelength. (Unknown)