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Dear fellow sufferers. I’ve got a couple of questions. How do you get through the day my twin left after 6 years of my life. After working together every day. Is going to live somewhere else with his girlfriend with whom he is not happy. Fleeing for his own feeling so it is now two months ago and I break every day .. think of him every minute. is this going to be less? I have such a strong feeling that he is my twin. I read a lot of messages from women here waiting for their twin. Why is it so easy for men to stay with a woman who is not 100%? Do they really switch off the feeling? How is it possible that we women have so many emotions and really break down and that you have such a strong feeling that it is him. Aren’t we just going crazy or do we really have to wait and hope that everything will turn out fine? And where is the feeling of the men … is it really that you better stay with her for material things and because you are already so la! ng have … bullshit own happiness is important! So for everyone go for your true love!

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Hello fellow sufferer, I have often thought about it. I think it has to do with the fact that the man is the material boss and the woman the biological boss. The man takes care of it from the outside in and feels responsible for it. That goes for everything. Of course there are exceptions. But the man is primarily focused on the material matter. With too many emotions the hatch closes with the man, because that hinders his focus on the material. Perhaps it is programmed in our DNA. Incidentally, this does not detract from the energetic contact. Perhaps it is the case that the (new) partner whose husband is less fortunate should not be in the middle, because then he will RIGHT look for his twin. If that (new) partner is not listed, the energetic connection between the two twins remains open and is the man satisfied with it? I felt my twin startled when I told his wife that her husband and I were twin! were. That was not the intention! Perhaps he thought: “Oh, now my wife is standing in between and our connection is no longer open as before. It went pretty well this way (Unknown)

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My twin is also uncertain, I am going to look for a solution for myself, I will investigate all the possibilities again, and then I want peace for myself. wants to be happy with everything in my life, wants to close things up, and then I don’t have to wait anymore, because then I will see if he is coming or not. felt so much unrest and sadness and I don’t want that anymore .. I find out that I only have to look for it because my twin is not ready yet .. I think I will. have a nice life, with ups and downs, but it is my life, I don’t want to feel split into two worlds anymore. my twin is welcome and I wait quietly, but no longer in the waiting room, but in a home that I made for myself and am for myself … kind regards. (Unknown)

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When I found out that my twin was messing around with another lady behind my back and seeing her, I knew it wouldn’t last. It was very hard in the beginning but knew that I had to pick up my own life again. The contact that I and my twin had was purely business matters that we still had to deal with together. I forced myself not to think about him but to focus on myself. The more I did this, the more my twin tried to make contact with me in a loving way. Even now that he has left her, I keep the boat down, because he has to come to terms with himself and I cannot help him with that. Moreover, I informed him that he must first work on himself if I want to continue contact with him. He is good at making problems, I don’t want to go along with that anymore. Focus on the things that are important to you and what you want to do further. I know, just like you, that this is a difficult choice but not unpleasant! lable. Above all, stay close to yourself. Success! (Unknown)