Q0455. Hold trust?

Unknown

How do you keep your twin coming to you once? Sometimes I don’t know anymore, then it makes me so tired, then my ego starts walking with me again and then I am afraid again.

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I am also sometimes afraid, for the situation in itself, for people I love to hurt, afraid of burning out, afraid of starting too early, afraid of being hurt by my twin, afraid that he will not let me out of protection ..but am always full of confidence from us, full of love; also know that it will be alright; that has nothing to do with that fear for me. I am sometimes glad that I still have that fear; has often saved me from stupid things. I need a piece of ratio to function. i can also be full in twin love but not always. (Unknown)

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Dear unknown, I am also full of confidence about the Love between twin and me, which stands like a house, no matter how much we sometimes hurt each other. Yes, I sometimes fear that my twin will act as if I am just a good friend, and nothing more, afraid that we will never openly acknowledge that we have something special together, afraid that we can never be together for a moment. For me it is also fear that this Love will never get off the ground because of that fear on both sides .. but the Love remains for my twin, no matter how sad and scared I sometimes am … I have also hurt people around me but that was also needed to find myself again and to send a signal how great my ‘disorder’ is, my feelings for my twin, my environment is starting to get used to it and I wish that happiness, would like to see me happy again. What I would really like to know how twin and I can fill it in together .. without hurting too many people .. but in which we can be together! that our Love can be nourished and become more for everyone. And you can only find out if you talk together without fear .. but with a lot of Love .. do you miss your twin like that too? would love to see his smiling eyes again. (Unknown)

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It goes without saying. I don’t think about it. All promises have come true in the last 50 years, I think about it. Not often, but sometimes suddenly. I think that evaluation strengthens my confidence. My twinflame keeps a finger on the pulse (to stay in his field). If I deviate from the “programming”, so I muse about other relationships, then he will protest immediately and panicky. So that I am strengthened in confidence again. And pay attention to the signals hey. And give no reason for anyone to question it. The more you talk about it to third parties, the more it is called into question. (Unknown)

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And then I might have a tip for those who have been active on this forum for some time: put all your answers one after the other in chronological order with a keyword instead of the corresponding question. This way you get a good overview of your development, which also strengthens your confidence. (Unknown)

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Well idd !! I now read the last line of the last message. I totally agree with that. I’ve been through that exactly. The more you tell people who have no knowledge of dr, who do not know what it is and / or what you experience, the crazier you get from those answers / advice. Listen to your feelings, instead of to others who do not know / feel what you are feeling !!!! With me it was that I immediately loved my buddy when I saw him. (I Knew I Loved You Bevore I With You) I thought why am I not in love then? me girlfriends who talk about that anyway ?? So you guessed it I was crazy! later those days I was walking a bit and came back to myself. Who do I encounter unexpectedly? yep me buddy. later that day I realized, that I had to do this alone and not just take the advice of others. Love (AngelfromHeaven)

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Yes, I recognize that panicky, always had the idea that he was there, as soon as I come into contact with something that is said or someone who could be a threat to our relationship, I also feel my twin reacting violently, it’s just like as if that is no longer possible and may .. actually nice because then I can trust that !! do I still have something to hold on to in my life … is that the collective soul you are correcting? what are you really attached to, are you? also sweet and beautiful..that is also what we long for. (Unknown)

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Have faith in the magic of your love. He has already done wonders and will continue to do so! Be there for your twin through thick and thin. Don’t be jealous or angry or have no principles. Be pure and trust that everything will happen at a certain pace and when you are ready. THEN you grow and as you grow it gets closer and closer. (Unknown)

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I always miss my twin, whatever I do and wherever I go, sometimes I am full of faith and other times I struggle with my ego and fears. I hope there is a balance between that. My confidence that we will come together is always despite all the pain and sorrow, I am entirely his, that is a truth like a house. But the ego wants it now and more … and that doesn’t work. Patience and letting go is my means against being unfamiliar, no matter how much effort it sometimes takes, it will always be good. He is me and I am him and together we are 1. (Unknown)

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At soul level we have already discussed the entire scenario, agreements have already been made for the future; only we are not aware of what has been mutually agreed (Unknown)

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‘and that is not possible’, but you can also work on that yourself .. miss my twin too, in everything, but I am very hard at work, every time I take steps towards my love, every time it becomes clearer how to make myself stronger, that I should not seek that truth from the other but from me. every day i feel that it will get better and better, but first i have to be clear with myself and all my feelings..Liefs (Unknown)

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Yes about that panicky and immediate response: it is a self-correcting system. Certain agreements have already been made before this life, and after you have met, this self-correcting system comes into effect. The common soul corrects this, I think, yes. We correct each other. We no longer know better. Because those agreements have been made, we can no longer get angry or jealous, sometimes disappointed or sad, but that is also becoming less and less. is just sweet. Crazy for a freebooter like me: the more I am controlled by him, the better I like it and the happier I get. (Unknown)

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I did not notice that immediately after meeting with twinnetje, there was something but could not place it, sometimes I could also ignore it I thought, but I always had to pay for this with sorrow. yes that control freak is always there a bit, but it gives me a direction and that is wonderful, finally I know how to proceed, just listen to this. but do not hope that my twin will have enough of this, as long as it does not make him too happy, because then he might be able to keep it up for a long time! would rather have a control freak with me than remotely. (Unknown)

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You write; “my ego wants it now,” but isn’t that your heart that wants it now? your ego keeps you away from your soul love .. it keeps you trapped in a situation that you no longer want, or is this a twist of thought from me? (Unknown)