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Who can help me? Is this real or an imagination? For 7 years we have shared joys and sorrows. We worked together every day and could not be turned away from each other. People often saw and told us that we were the perfect match. We knew this too! From the very first moment I saw him, that deep intense feeling was there! At that time I was still living together … I tried everything to forget him. He also has a relationship. Ignore, even left for another country. And in the end my relationship also ends … Nothing helped the desire from both sides remained, wanting to do everything for each other. Look into each other’s eyes, know what the other person means. buddies through thick and thin !! Only that boy is so confused with himself. He lives as his brother’s sister with his girlfriend. But is afraid to follow his feelings. Is afraid that his family and friends will look at him strangely when he leaves her. So stay with her because that is the easiest way. Since two months he has now left work because he! it could no longer cope with changed jobs. I only feel the pain now, the lack. Whether he’s dead. Dear people I only have 1 question if he really is my soulmate. Does he then also have this terrible feeling? And will he ever choose me again? My feeling is sooo strong … we called for hours a day, texted back and forth and saw each other every day and now from 1 to the other day it’s over …. terrible! Whether he’s dead. Dear people I only have 1 question if he really is my soulmate. Does he then also have this terrible feeling? And will he ever choose me again? My feeling is sooo strong … we called for hours a day, texted back and forth and saw each other every day and now from 1 to the other day it’s over …. terrible! Whether he’s dead. Dear people I only have 1 question if he really is my soulmate. Does he then also have this terrible feeling? And will he ever choose me again? My feeling is sooo strong … we called for hours a day, texted back and forth and saw each other every day and now from 1 to the other day it’s over …. terrible!
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Dear fellow sufferer, My twin and I are in the same situation. We are also colleagues and are really best friends, everyone at work sees it and also says that we are a perfect match. He had ended his relationship and I, too, my relationship a few months later. But now he has entered into a relationship with someone else he says he is not happy with because he feels a lot of love for me. But he doesn’t dare choose me because he is afraid. The feeling between us will always remain, we have tried everything to put it away but it remains. We tried to break the contact a couple of times, but that will never work for long. Unfortunately I can’t give you much advice on how to proceed now, but the only thing that helps me a bit is to keep thinking positively and never to lose that we can ever come together. A lot of strength in the coming period. (Unknown)
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You are intended for each other, no matter how you try to bypass it, walking away from it does not help, just continuing does not help, nothing helps. Yes he chooses you for once! when he finally loses his mind (haha), when he starts following his feelings, overcomes fear and lets Love conquer. will he smile for the rest of his life but not his full smile? is he going to live but not to the tips of his toes? he stays where he is .. also that is a choice! go enjoy a little friendship or dare to live it to the fullest .. if he is your twin then he also has that terrible feeling, trust that he will come! strength! (Unknown)
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Yes indeed if he “loses” his mind once, yes, hahahaha. He also says it is very difficult, which I sometimes cannot understand, because then I think you will choose this yourself, because of your fear you will find yourself in this situation, show more courage and decisiveness and still choose happiness. It is also hard for me to keep waiting for him, you cannot go anywhere, you cannot say goodbye to him definitively and you cannot start a new relationship either. Your environment also declares you crazy. It is a difficult process and I often try to bridge the difficult moments with prayer. And hope that he will choose me in THIS life. (Lotte)
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Well I will continue my life and whether my twin will fit in later? he was just as unhappy as I am about this and yet he does not dare, material things or something, well he does his best, I go for cosiness and love that I can get, and no longer always wants to pull the cart alone, go my give life a twist again, hope that we will remain friends who can mean something to the world because that power is there when we are together, but beyond? my sister had already warned me and she was sometimes right, he is not so strong in those things and maybe it is not for this life, I do not know anymore, but I do not wait .. it is also my life. (Unknown)
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What impatience again, see myself busy again, my ego? , first as friends and who knows more. every time that impatience I make it difficult for my twin, but my dear twin also makes it very difficult for me .. think then; stand up for yourself! yet more living in the now, as I experience it now, it is good again, fear of the future, letting go of being alone is what I have to do! who else struggles with that? with kind regards. (Unknown)
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My twin and I have been spinning around each other for 3 years, always attracting and repelling. But I have been “waiting” for him for 6 months now. So 6 months ago we expressed our love for each other and accepted that this feeling will always be there. How much patience should someone have? Am I not kidding myself? Should I just not give up everything and banish him from my life for good (well, as if that will work out, we are colleagues and if we are not together then we will feel each other very strongly, pfffff)? (Lotte)
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We have also experienced and conquered this! I have experienced exactly the same as you. Note: because it is attracting and rejecting, you are now attracting. You are with HEM with your heart and soul, so that he does not feel emptiness and therefore can tolerate the situation. If you want him to start attracting, you have to let him go (for feeling) and just find happiness in small things and move on with your life. However, this is not letting go of him. As soon as you feel completely well, he will feel empty (because you are no longer with him) and he will feel the pain and feel how hard it is to miss you. Then you start to feel good, because HE is with you. I have discovered this through years. It is just like chemistry, quite funny but really works. I always have that with my twinflame. He will come back to you but first you have to let him go. Show him that he has lost you (in a nice soft way). If all goes well you don’t have to discuss things because this happens at a different level. Let go of what is valuable to you, and if it comes back, then it is REALLY yours! Do not be afraid! He won’t last long with her without you. Give him time and space to discover this in his own way. And if he doesn’t, then you know where you stand! Believe in him and in his love for you. Forget the things your ego says to you. Be free and open with jealousy and anger. Then you move forward! (Unknown) Do not be afraid! He won’t last long with her without you. Give him time and space to discover this in his own way. And if he doesn’t, then you know where you stand! Believe in him and in his love for you. Forget the things your ego says to you. Be free and open with jealousy and anger. Then you move forward! (Unknown) Do not be afraid! He won’t last long with her without you. Give him time and space to discover this in his own way. And if he doesn’t, then you know where you stand! Believe in him and in his love for you. Forget the things your ego says to you. Be free and open with jealousy and anger. Then you move forward! (Unknown)
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Dear stranger, how happy I am with your message, finally someone who can tell me how to deal with that attracting and repelling and who has also overcome it. Thank you very much for your advice, I will certainly follow it, I will let you know how it ended. (Lotte)
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Good tip, thank you, that is a truth like a cow, if you are in such a position it will be fine, I also have a lot of walking and I was always there again, I will continue to do that in my heart , but I am now so far that I have found peace again within myself, and I hope to be able to hold on to that .. letting go is difficult but try it, thanks for the nice explanation, love. (Unknown)
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Yes, the answer from above is really true, my twin also says that he likes to feel me always and everywhere, then he is with his girlfriend but still feels close. So yes now I think he has no urge to choose me because he has both of us. I am going to do my very best to let him go and hope he will come back someday. And if he doesn’t come back, I still have a good life without him. But yes I have to try not to react too negatively or angry to his behavior and not to be jealous of his girlfriend. If I have conquered this then I can be very proud of myself, because it’s a heavy job. (Lotte)
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what a nice answer, so recognizable but never found words before, and idd works that way. At the moment that I really let go he is lying on the sidewalk, I miss you so he says …… after which the story starts again the other way around and I put him on the sidewalk, what crazy people, but very crazy about each other! (Unknown)
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Finally I can let go (at the moment, for a few days, without much pain) and because of that I could investigate things that were not yet clear to me, which I still doubted. As a result, I now also get an overview of my life, an old situation that is still oppressive to me, I get bad dreams from it, which make a lot clear to me. Now I can finally get things going for myself … always there was the dependence on me again, the loving safety net of my twin, and now I do it myself. Hopefully my twin will come out this way. By letting go you can better oversee your own situation, without the loving arms and attention of your twin, without the support of your twin. If you feel this then you are free and only then can you really give each other all the Love, when you finally come together .. For the questioner; hopefully this will help you. Let your twin flee, let him in his situation as it is now, if he is your twin it will become clear to him and he will come to visit you again, be patient because it can take a long time, is my experience. Also try to let go of your own dependence on your twin..Liefs (Unknown)
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My Answer was: We have also experienced and conquered this! I have experienced exactly the same as you. Please note: because it is going to attract and reject … Dear people, I am very happy that you have benefited from my tip / answer. Be happy with yourself. You love your twin because you see yourself in them, so take good care of yourself and be sweet and beautiful to yourself, because without you there is no twin. Everything you struggle with plays with both of you. As soon as one of you is completely ready then the other is too. If not, you have to work on your spiritual growth. It is very heavy, but try to see it from the good and beautiful side. It is a process. Give it time, give it space and everything will go as it was before: naturally and without plans (because you have not planned your meeting and yet it happened). Be strong … they are with you with heart and soul, only they must also grow and overcome things. Much love, (Angela)