Q0409. Why don’t we clarify things to each other?

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Why is there no clarity between twins, what they want together? Why be so cautious when you know that you really want to be together, why don’t you talk about this, why do you leave the other in uncertainty? in this way doubt and fear can be nourished again and my experience is that it is also filled in by others who try to undermine this Love. Don’t give fear and confusion a chance, but let each other know what you want, allow this Love. That is the most powerful energy against the dark side, that of fear. Feel that that fear has also caught me, then the trust is gone and I am back on the bottom again. great sorrow! Why not clarity?

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dear unknown, do not hide your fear, acknowledge him, recognize him, that is how he loses his power more and more. it’s okay to be scared in such a situation, for me it also has to do with awe for such a divine feeling and for so much inexplicable. have faith in the warmth and in the light, in yourself that is worthy to be loved so; others have no influence on that, it remains; even if the interference is well meant, they can better occupy themselves with their own lives, feed their own love, warmth, that they will also be granted them. give-receive your love, give clarity, desire clarity to your soul love / s, live …… (Unknown)

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feel very much with you. feel very pushed away by my twin, and spiritually supported, loved, attracted is double. that is why I no longer dare; I don’t think he wants it, so I respect that. remains confusing. (Unknown)

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What I also find so sorry; if you have changed a lot because of your twin and so do I think, and you have changed your whole life and then you notice that he still has doubts .. while he also wanted more, it feels bad, don’t think it strong (softly expressed) ) and actually I don’t feel like adapting anymore, I have done that all my life. Not now again. I live and I want a love that chooses me with all his heart and soul and not again a bit. This is not a love for interference from others and not a love for an intermediate solution, a kind of girlfriend there .. or so? This love can really be there if you are both ready …? because it will never pass. Would like to talk to him about that, what he wants (and not what others expect from him) and I think that he should not leave me in such uncertainty, that hurts! whine every time and that is real … (Unknown)

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Just a little bit about fear, the uncertainty, the bottom … I survived it again and you know; I think this site on the one hand contributes to survival and understanding, but on the other hand it can sometimes make you even more uncertain, is not a criticism, but everyone writes as unknown and sometimes you think that could be mine twin are that answer, sowed doubt, fear reaped ha, sorry if I have reacted too violently but it was a huge dip for ages, I think recognizable for many .. (Unknown)

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Yes, I understand that, why do you apologize? I think that so-called yes / no recognition can be confusing / hugely hurtful. soul love, I think you should be sober and open. it helps me to meditate again and again … if you see it as anonymous outlet / and msschn giving comfort, it is more pleasant for me. (Unknown)

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Third unknown (it would really be easier if people would sign, if only with an x, it makes responding to someone easier …) It is not strong idd no, and you are right, there is no middle ground in this. Let go, focus on yourself. The only way to change something about someone else’s behavior is to change your own behavior. It’s that simple. As long as you are within reach all the time, your twin can always keep going, because you are there anyway. No wake-up call, nothing. And for yourself it is also terrible. And twin or not, but you hurt yourself with it. Letting go = courage. And the only reason not to let go in such a situation is the fear that if you do it, love will disappear. I don’t want to act silly, but now you have nothing. Only a terrible back and forth. Without going back and forth, you might have pain in a different way, but you also get more peace and the opportunity to look at the situation from a distance. If it is meant to be, it will happen anyway. If not, you have already made a fresh start for the rest of your life. Hope that everything, anyway, will be fine for you. Light and love. (Juul)

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I sometimes lose faith in my twin, which is not justified, but that sometimes also has something to do with old, giving trust. maybe that is what makes that fear dominate me completely. I know that I am the most important person for my twin and I am sorry if I don’t trust him. that just lies with me. it is a learning process and I go one step further every time. have always had a lot of patience and sometimes I don’t recognize myself anymore. yes a twin brings out the best but also the most difficult. how beautiful and difficult real love is, yet I fight for it! the universe helps and has already given me so many signals. picking up trust and meditating again, that also helps me, it is only sometimes such a war in my head that even then that does not want to be good anymore! (Unknown)

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Just a tip, a music video on youtube; tristan and isolde how can i not love you. the entire film is recognizable, the struggle, the opposition! is about twinflames, I think, at least about Real love .. right through everything you can’t help but love the other. (Unknown)

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My soulmate doesn’t want to see me anymore. Isn’t he my soulmate …? Or am I more aware of it and is that a truth (and lack) that I will have to live with What do you think? (Unknown)