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When I was 21, I came into a relationship that gave me everything I am looking for. We found each other at a level that I had never experienced before. We understood each other, asked each other the same questions and there was an all-embracing feeling. After half a year he disappeared from my life as suddenly as he had appeared. I did everything to keep in touch with him, but he did not respond. In the years that followed, I tried to accept it and move on. But the desire for contact was so great that it was difficult to achieve. He stayed in my head. In the meantime I lived together and I was in a very bad relationship. In a whim, I looked for him back via the internet. Within 2 emails we were back on the same line and the draft was immediately there. We both had a strong need to meet. This was a meeting from noon to late at night. The meeting was so strong, we immediately felt each other again and kept talking. Until 4 days later there was a warmth in my stomach that didn’t seem to go away. The following days I decided to break off the contact in order to deal nicely with my partner. In the meantime I had gained a lot of insights. The relationship with my ex has been broken and has been very difficult. But the meeting with that other person stays in my head. I occasionally dream about him at important moments in my life and every now and then we have mail contact. What has this been and how do I deal with this? The following days I decided to break off the contact in order to deal nicely with my partner. In the meantime I had gained a lot of insights. The relationship with my ex has been broken and has been very difficult. But the meeting with that other person stays in my head. I occasionally dream about him at important moments in my life and every now and then we have mail contact. What has this been and how do I deal with this? The following days I decided to break off the contact in order to deal nicely with my partner. In the meantime I had gained a lot of insights. The relationship with my ex has been broken and has been very difficult. But the meeting with that other person stays in my head. I occasionally dream about him at important moments in my life and every now and then we have mail contact. What has this been and how do I deal with this?

Answer
Hello, probably your friend was a soulmate, because you describe the relationship as very harmonic, without many conflicts. That actually excludes a twinflame. Often soulmates are for a period in our lives and sometimes come back when we need them. That he disappeared is hard to explain, but it happens very often. But of course not only with soul love. You have a beautiful connection when you are together, that is beautiful. Cherish that. It is unfortunately the case that not everyone, not even soul loved ones, stays in our lives forever. As painful as that sometimes is. You sound very wise and it seems that you have already given it a good place. Just keep it up I would say. I think the beauty of your story is that you have already shown respect for your ex at the time, despite the strong connection with your soul love. That says a lot about the person you are. Furthermore, you then liberated yourself from that bad relationship. You just grow. Those dreams are just fine and if I were you I would be happy with the mail contact, if only incidentally. If you feel comfortable with that and the other person, it is all right. Do you keep anything from being together now? Anyway; I hope for the best for you, I think you are clear and intelligent and I think you are already on the right path. Just keep it up. Enjoy the experiences with your soul love, whatever the future may bring. Nobody can ever take this experience from you (Unknown) Those dreams are just fine and if I were you I would be happy with the mail contact, if only incidentally. If you feel comfortable with that and the other person, it is all right. Do you keep anything from being together now? Anyway; I hope for the best for you, I think you are clear and intelligent and I think you are already on the right path. Just keep it up. Enjoy the experiences with your soul love, whatever the future may bring. Nobody can ever take this experience from you (Unknown) Those dreams are just fine and if I were you I would be happy with the mail contact, if only incidentally. If you feel comfortable with that and the other person, it is all right. Do you keep anything from being together now? Anyway; I hope for the best for you, I think you are clear and intelligent and I think you are already on the right path. Just keep it up. Enjoy the experiences with your soul love, whatever the future may bring. Nobody can ever take this experience from you (Unknown) I think that you come across as clear and intelligent and think that you are already on the right path. Just keep it up. Enjoy the experiences with your soul love, whatever the future may bring. Nobody can ever take this experience from you (Unknown) I think that you come across as clear and intelligent and think that you are already on the right path. Just keep it up. Enjoy the experiences with your soul love, whatever the future may bring. Nobody can ever take this experience from you (Unknown)