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As soon as he gets close, everything happens to me. But a conversation does not always come naturally … there seems to be a lot in between at the moment, I can sometimes find this annoying, precisely because I do want to be in touch. start a conversation. Is it embarrassment for both of us … or something else?

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I totally understand your situation !!. My God, I lost sight of my twin 3 years ago and I just have to feel him in my neighborhood and know that I am going to see him and then I start to flip completely, my my heart blows a beat and I start shaking over my body, that feeling has already prevented me from going to him on time twice because of fear. I think the intention is that you try to overcome that fear but that is really difficult, I am afraid now I feel that I will see him again soon but I am afraid that after 3 years I will not dare to say anything, also because of the vibrations … I I am also distraught and you know how you feel but I know that if you see each other regularly it might get better after a while !!! Try to surpass yourself and keep in mind that it is important !!! I wish you much courage and love xx (Claudia)

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So recognizable! I have been engaged in my “fight” for 20 years with my brother-in-law, my husband’s brother. From the beginning we have not been able to talk well together, as if we do not understand each other with words. He distorts me, my brain is confused when he is around. Only a few years ago I accept that there is much more between us, that we are soulmates. But talk? Talking about (our) feelings is not possible. He has been giving (small) signals for years and we communicate very quickly with short words in between, too fast for others to notice. We communicate with music, songs with meaning. Sometimes I get the assurance that he feels the same as me, but if my uncertainty prevails, all those signals are not enough. I sometimes hurt him, he sometimes hurts me. And in my mind we have whole conversations and I can explain everything, but in the “real” world that is not possible. But I trust us, we seem to have this world! just need to learn. It will be alright! (Unknown)

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Response to answer 2; I’m in the same boat; been in love with my husband’s brother for almost 20 years and now I know that this is no ordinary crush but a real twinflame love. I have found this out through various signs and incidents and it is still being confirmed every day by new signs. I think he knows it and feels the same for me, but we’ve never talked about it. I hope we can do this someday. That would give me a lot of peace. (Unknown)