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I have known my twinflame for 6 years now. From the first meeting there was already a certain energy between us. Our band grew slowly and we became very good friends. It soon became apparent that we actually felt more for each other than just friendship. I was just out of a relationship I had been through a lot, and was pretty confused. So was not ready for a relationship. I went into therapy and it was pretty intense. I started pushing him away, I thought he deserved more than this. In the end, the contact was broken. I met someone else and started a relationship with that. But of course I couldn’t forget my twinflame. After 9 months I emailed him, I fought against it, but could not stop myself anymore. I needed to know how he was doing. He immediately responded to my mail, and I soon found out that he could not forget me either. The contact soon became more. We saw each other sometimes and I really wanted to be with him forever. But there was a problem, I had nature! like a relationship. The person I have a relationship with is very good to me. He has no one else and he is so crazy about me that I am afraid it will not end well if I break the relationship. So I kept postponing it, and postponing it until my 2-lingual soul was really fed up, and just couldn’t take it anymore. Last December he broke off contact again. I was devastated, but it was the best, at least the easiest. However, I could not forget him, he missed him every day. And still long for him so much. And I thought I’d lost it forever. I was deeply and unhappy. We didn’t see each other, did not speak to each other and yet my feeling for him became not less, but more. Less than a week ago I suddenly received an email from him. In which he wrote that he misses me as much as I miss him. I immediately emailed him back. Now we have regular contact via email. I know it may not be wise, but I can’t stop it. I know I will never be happy without him. I also know that I have to choose for myself, because otherwise I will be unhappy forever. But I don’t want to hurt my friend. but can’t stop it. I know I will never be happy without him. I also know that I have to choose for myself, because otherwise I will be unhappy forever. But I don’t want to hurt my friend. but can’t stop it. I know I will never be happy without him. I also know that I have to choose for myself, because otherwise I will be unhappy forever. But I don’t want to hurt my friend.

Answer
You make it very difficult for yourself. You love your twin but stay with your partner knowing that you can’t be happy with him. How long can you keep that up? Do you want it to go so far that your twin will meet someone else immediately? Then you will regret that you have not made the decision before. You stay with your partner out of compassion! I think you have the right action to your partner, only you are the one who has to cross that threshold. Dare to take that step. Your partner is responsible for himself and not you. Know that you know what you have with your partner with your twin, it must still be clear whether he wants the same as you. Everything sounds very nice from the mouth, but the practice is different. Good luck. (Unknown)