Q0290. All of a sudden the whole soul love and feeling of loss is back, who has experience with this?

Ria

Does anybody have experience with this? After a difficult long soul love time and struggle, my Soul Love 3 years ago chose to disappear from my life. The next two years I was devastated by grief and I ended up in a huge transformation process. A year ago I decided that I had to go back to my own life and no longer have to wait for him. I had a very busy, intensive working year and it seemed that I had completely deleted my soulmate. I haven’t even thought about him in recent months…. And SUDDENLY, now after he has been gone for almost 3 years, the whole soul love and feeling of loss is back again …. I find this very confusing, because now I think: maybe he is busy with me again and wants to come back again ??? But I thought I had already left that behind me … Can someone explain this to me, based on experience?

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Hi Ria I know that feeling and you shouldn’t doubt that either. These feelings go on and off, but you handle them well. If it is your twinflame you keep that feeling and that will never go away. Until he contacts you again. But you can do nothing more than wait. It will have to come from him to contact you. But I certainly think he thinks a lot about you and you can feel that. does not mean that he will also come to you soon, years can pass that.and no one can tell you, only you can know and feel it.But do not sit there waiting. let it rest.and think with yourself … .. well then you will not come.if it must be that there must be a contact between you he will come, but when the time is right. and you are ready to be ready. I think there is much too much in the way of him. Have patience … I know it is difficult I have had this for years. and sometimes I feel him, I smell him and you feel that intention … but I am now so far that I can put it very well. it doesn’t hurt anymore. I also have a man that I love a lot and I wouldn’t want to get rid of them for gold. my twinflame belongs to me … and is a supplement to what I now have with my husband. but my twinflame did not play a leading role in my life. and if you try to do it that way, everything can be faster! go if you think so. Greetings. (Unknown) I also have a man that I love a lot and I wouldn’t want to get rid of them for gold. my twinflame belongs to me … and is a supplement to what I now have with my husband. but my twinflame did not play a leading role in my life. and if you try to do it that way, everything can be faster! go if you think so. Greetings. (Unknown) I also have a man that I love a lot and I wouldn’t want to get rid of them for gold. my twinflame belongs to me … and is a supplement to what I now have with my husband. but my twinflame did not play a leading role in my life. and if you try to do it that way, everything can be faster! go if you think so. Greetings. (Unknown)

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But I feel him with me all day long, the desire is so great to feel him for a moment and look into his eyes .. I can go on, but it feels like my heart is about to explode … even .. (Unknown)

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Do you then have a normal marriage relationship? I can no longer give myself completely to my partner, those other feelings are in between .. am also grown away from my partner, am away from him even though I still feel love for him, sometimes it all does not know anymore .. and my twin just goes on in his relationship .. I do not understand .. I hear nothing and I do not know anymore .. I feel calmer and it hurts less but sometimes I have the feeling that my twin and I do in this living something together, and not just as friends … that there is something that we should seek together as loved ones, and no other marriage fits in with that, does it? or is it just my wish, an illusion and should I be happy with a platonic love affair? I think it’s good if I only know .. I am not jealous because if he is happy then that is good .. he came once .. if I know what he wants then I can continue with my life.Now I stand still at least in this area, man what is life! complicated .. it hurts me very much .. (Unknown)

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Jeez .. also very recognizable .. since a few weeks I have the same “problem”. 2 years ago my twin broke off contact with me without giving a reason. 3 months ago we were able to pronounce everything, the good thing is that he knew that I was not angry with him. He also said that he knew that I wanted to make an attempt to argue with m so that we would no longer have anything to do with each other haha ​​.. I did not do it because I know that he does not fall for it anyway. Anyway .. we have closed everything together well. After the conversation I felt so relieved and I could go back to my own life … until 3 weeks ago … I just dreamed that we were together and he said he was ready for me .. held my hand and then in my dream came a very intense kiss that I felt for a very long time when I woke up. In fact .. that feeling stayed in place for a whole week .. and .. I am completely back in terms of feeling … I think about him again 24/7 … pfff have the idea that it can never be closed. Because if I really .. but then really go on with my own life .. then he pops up again somehow .. Now I also wonder how long this goes on .. It always happens when I think: it is ready .. I choose myself .. pfff as if there is an invisible chain, to which we are both attached … And … I miss him very much … So I get the feeling .. (Unknown) I am completely back in terms of feeling … I think of him again 24/7 … pfff have the idea that it can never be closed. Because if I really .. but then really go on with my own life .. then he pops up again somehow .. Now I also wonder how long this goes on .. It always happens when I think: it is ready .. I choose myself .. pfff as if there is an invisible chain, to which we are both attached … And … I miss him very much … So I get the feeling .. (Unknown) I am completely back in terms of feeling … I think of him again 24/7 … pfff have the idea that it can never be closed. Because if I really .. but then really go on with my own life .. then he pops up again somehow .. Now I also wonder how long this goes on .. It always happens when I think: it is ready .. I choose myself .. pfff as if there is an invisible chain, to which we are both attached … And … I miss him very much … So I get the feeling .. (Unknown)

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Be happy with the relationship that you do have !!! That is the only thing I can tell you very hard. I met my twin as a bachelor, she is single too, but she told me it will never be something between us, she has even said that I should leave her alone or she will take action. I can no longer start a new relationship, there will never be someone to start a relationship with, because that person will always remain in second place. So be happy that there is someone in your life that you can love so you don’t have to have your twin with you physically. Be happy with what you have! When I get home it is quiet and no one is having a conversation with you. Just a feeling that someone is asking for your attention all the time. And that person is just now not available …. (Unknown)