Q0236. How do I get out of this dilemma?

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The following dilemma plays my part: two years ago I also met someone I love dearly and have a feeling that is indescribably intense. when I am with him I feel him very well and words come out of me as if it was coming from above. Even when I’m not with him, it feels like I’m connected to him with a kind of umbilical cord and I feel his presence and state of mind. A year ago I broke the relationship with a lot of pain and effort because he was so incredibly concerned with himself that a relationship was very difficult. we had no contact for a year, but I cannot let him go. he always comes to my mind again and I get confused. recently he contacted again and said he felt the same way but also unable to handle a relationship. Now I also have a relationship with someone I love and feel good about. We have a very nice relationship and since I want to have children, this is a very good option. The other person, on the other hand, indicates that they probably no longer want any children (already has 1) … so mentally not a difficult choice, but … I can’t figure it out and before I even start with children I want to get out of this dilemma …. I can’t get him out of my head and I don’t know if that will ever work. who has tips or a suggestion? but … I can’t figure it out and before I even start with children I want to get out of this dilemma … I can’t get him out of my head and I don’t know if that will ever work. who has tips or a suggestion? but … I can’t figure it out and before I even start with children I want to get out of this dilemma … I can’t get him out of my head and I don’t know if that will ever work. who has tips or a suggestion?

Answer
You actually see the answer in question 237 . If you start children with another. Then it becomes even harder to return to your soul love. Which you can’t miss afterwards. Think carefully about the choice you make. (Unknown)