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My question is, this site is for people who mourn because of the loss of the soulmate. Can there also be a site with people who are together? Or do they not want to share experiences here.
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This site has been set up to support people who are ‘robbed’ in their lives by love of the soul. As a recognition that that ‘crazy and deepest love’ really exists. That what they feel is real and a well-known phenomenon. And to give these people practical tips and support to process this life-changing experience and to give it a place in their daily lives. This often goes hand in hand with grieving and learning to let go. The site is not set up as a wall but as an exhibition of how others process their experience so that you can take advantage of it with your own processing. Many people have already indicated that they have had much use of this website for this purpose. The moral of this website is mainly to help people let go rather than make them desire; do not complain about what you do not have but enjoy what you have received. Because whether or not you are with your soul love, it is the most beautiful and deepest love that you have experienced. (Tiny)
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May meet your soul love in this life that is a gift from heaven. But why only at a time when you are already nestled? Why not sooner? Soul love is the deepest love ever. But sometimes it seems as if you are being punished in this life. You can experience the best, but how difficult is it to let go of the best you have? Something deep can never pass. So I can really understand the people on this site that they keep moping because of their great love. (Unknown)
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How can you enjoy the best that you have had when you no longer have it? The sun which is extinguished forever, can you enjoy it? This great love will dominate your life forever. (Unknown)
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I just want to respond to (this love will dominate your life for all time), that is true, no one else can make you feel the same love, this person will be in your heart forever. After my soul love I have had 5 ordinary loves but I can’t be happy with that. I long for my soul love feeling, for the person who could give me that warmth, I will always wait for her. (Dylan)
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Yes what I think is a shame that this site is very stressful that you have to let go and that you no longer have to desire … too bad because I think if you overcome all storms you can come together. that is what I miss here, desire is a very common phenomenon and here it is portrayed as something you must overcome, but why? to keep others happy? longing indicates that you want to be together, that as twinflames you long for each other (from your heart, your soul) that it is a sign! you can’t keep fighting a natural phenomenon, it always comes back .. whether you want to or not, for me it’s a call from ‘up’ to take action, no matter how difficult .. I think letting go in the first instance is good for both to grow but that does not mean that you must always let go in the end .. there are twinflames who conquer everything because they feel that they cannot help but be together, that they want everything share! real love you have to give something for it, I think that is also the task from ‘above’, follow your heart / love / god. Eventually you can only let go of love which no longer works for you, even though it seems so difficult and that is certainly NOT your twinflame. (Unknown)
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I can completely agree with answers 2,3 and 5. I met my twinflame 13 yrs ago. Apart from the well-known being completely changed, I am less and less aware of the “usefulness” of having a twinflame, than to enter into a relationship with it. I think it is a tantalus torment and I cannot find anything “divine” in it. My twinflame (husband) was married when we met. Only now after years, I have the feeling that he is more inclined to divorce his current wife. To start a relationship with his twinflame, me. But now I am married too, and my life, like many with me I know for sure, is very much like a soap. It remains exciting, with all kinds of twists and turns. No, it is certainly not boring, and I am sure that others can confirm this with me. (Unknown)