Annemie
Fellow sufferers, why do I find all stories here of people who have met their twinflames and have not been able to spend their lives with it? (Well, tired, the same thing happened to me) Why doesn’t anyone have a nice story: that they are coming together again, that the attraction is too great. I often find that one or both are in a relationship at the moment of finding the twinflame: this is such a striking experience that I myself would give up everything for it! imagine: a life together with your twinflame !!! and yet the other does not choose it. Usually (I read here) it is the men who do not dare to step out of their relationship … On the one hand, it is a shame if you are left behind by your twinflame: the reference remains until the end of your life: a subsequent relationship is always difficult … I am mortgaged for this (in love) for the rest of my life. all my life in search of “the Love” .. found … and taken away again … this is so contradictory: if you have been one, why not reunite?
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Your story will wake everyone up because you are right. You cannot let go of the best of your entire life that you may experience. You ensure that you stay with him / her for the rest of your life. It is just like a magnet, you are stuck together for life. You will never be able to love someone else at the same level. I think most people want to be scared and especially afraid to break up with an existing marriage. And later regret that they did not start a life with the love of soul. But then you have thrown away many years. And you stay in a marriage. {you can’t live without your soul love} so you hurt yourself, your soul love and your family. (Moniek)
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I wonder if men also experience it so deeply because I read here; they are most women who can no longer live without their soul love. What about the men anyway? Can they give it a place and continue as if nothing happened? (Unknown)
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A soulmate / love when you encounter it, you don’t have much with which you have this kind of experience. I think a soulmate is just / or / even more special than a twinflame. Most here on this site have a twinflame relationship. Soul love is not only a twinflame but also your soulmate. With a soulmate you stay more / eternity than with a twinflame. (Unknown)
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It seems almost inhumanly cruel to have to let go of something that feels as good as a twinflame. But if you also love your partner very much, that choice is extremely difficult. Especially when children are involved. Because in the end, they are the best in having their parents together. Especially if your relationship is essentially good, the twinflame’s lack is all the more poignant! How many times I have thought I had to make the decision … they are countless. But I also think I should fight for my marriage. Although that is sometimes an almost unfair battle. Meeting your twinflame does not mean that you will also be happy together in a relationship. Especially if you both have a lot to learn and process. But one thing is for sure, once you experience it you can never ignore it again !! (Unknown)
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If you make a choice, you also make them for your children. most marriages stay together just for the children. But once they are large, out the door. What then? Do you want to grow old with your current partner? In 10 years it may be too late for your twinflame. (Unknown)
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Yes, I can also see myself getting old with my current partner, which is perhaps the biggest problem in a nutshell. My love for my soul caught me by surprise because I thought I was happy in my marriage. There will always be things that you miss with a person, but that doesn’t mean you can’t be together. Only that sense of deeper “soul knowledge” is not there, and it is almost impossible to explain. So it would be much easier to make a choice if you are not happy with your current partner. Maybe that is also the lesson. (Unknown)
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It seems difficult to stay with your current husband (now that you know that deep soul love) because with your soulmate you discover that you have never really loved your current husband. That is living without love. (Unknown)
Answer With my heart I chose years ago for my soulmate. Only my mind stops it, family etc. What could be better than a love baby together with your soul love? (Unknown)
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As a man I experience it as deeply as my soulmate, when she says something she immediately touches me in my feeling center. I am also married and thought that I was happy but when I met my soulmate it was overwhelmed and so far my mind has let my feelings prevail then I had already been with my soulmate we have been divorced a few times and then she stays in your mind, we are going to try to be friends, sometimes I am desperate, but the pure love that you may receive is fantastic. (Unknown)
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If you have already grown to such an extent that you end up in a higher energy, then you simply cannot continue with your partner even though you thought you had such a good relationship .., the universe / God is also going to tap you , then you choose your twinflame, and we are now in the middle of it, after 10 years! what is 10 years on eternity!? so annemie and all other doubters, I don’t know how you are doing now but it can be fine, with a lot of pain and effort but it is worth it! (Unknown)
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I am a man who left his twinflame behind. The reason for this is that she denies it and has said very firmly that nothing has come and will come. It will be the fear. But it is not the case that the person who leaves the other person is always the fearful one. I tried and work on my process on a daily basis, but nothing comes back. The only thing you can do is leave the other in love and move on without … No matter how hard that is. The daily pain and sorrow will haunt you for the rest of your life. Yes, I am in my strength, otherwise I would have ended up in an asylum. But it is not always the case that the person who runs away does so out of fear.
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Here also a man who has left his twinflame behind. Also through denial on her part. I have now made the choice to complete my own process and to live in freedom. If she ever dares to make the move to approach me again, I will be open to that, but I don’t expect it. She has done everything to push me away as far as possible, but I feel that she does not really want that. It is no longer up to me to take another step towards her, as much as I would like it to be … For me, a life without a partner remains, the choice to choose another partner is no longer possible. It is being blocked by my twinflame. And if all this hurts? … No, not even anymore, it has already been accepted, .. the only thing I would like to be able to understand is her choice ??? …
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Why you are not being reunited? You actually already give the answer yourself, you have not yet learned your lesson and so he will come forward again. Just until you have learned. You have been searching for love all your life, you find her and she disappears again. Back to start…. Yes and no, yes because you think again (ego) I have to look for love…. If you had found that love in yourself, you would not have had to ‘search’ again.