Lotje
I have a hard time knowing it is that way and not knowing what to do with it. How do you keep it up? The emotions are so deep and the environment understands so little … Where do you get the peace from to trust in your feelings? Give things their time if you KNOW there is no escaping it?
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I just sent an answer to Jetteke of question 80. I want to send you the exact same email. Perhaps it is not a real answer, but more to let you know that you are not the only one in such a difficult, unclear situation. It is actually impossible to sustain, but my belief in the fact that we will eventually be together again, let me maintain (but this belief is not based on any apparent fact … only on my feelings and the telepathic contact I think to have contact with the person with whom normal contact is now not possible.
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Thank you for your response. It’s nice that there are also people who understand this. I, too, FEEL his emotions in a sorrt of telepathic way … and that is deep inside pleasant because it confirms that we have a bond that cannot disappear and that he is therefore always with me. But it is also very difficult because we have no further contact (yet). Recently we discussed this together for the first time and discovered that we both feel each other … Now recover and process what this is and what it means to us. I regularly get mad of desire to talk more to be with him! But he needs his time … (I think) and I have to be patient and make sure I am ready when OUR time comes. But it’s not easy. (Lotje)
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With this I remain strong thank you Me for these words. Only on my feelings and the telepathic contact that keeps you strong, love is your strength and energy. (Unknown)
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I have had a soul love for more than 5 years, of which I also had crisis years, and I have not spoken to each other for a long time. I must say that we sometimes had vague mail contact with this. But our love was our strength, and we saved it, soul love does not pass, that is eternal love, and when someone says; I don’t love you anymore, he has a different reason, loving you, and just as intense as when you first met. It does entail serious crises because it is so intense when you meet. But soul love conquers everything, try to get the power and energy from your love, and keep believing in each other, it will all be alright. (Angel)
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Well .. and wouw! Those are encouraging and positive words, Angel! I have been thinking and feeling that way for so long, but very often my mind takes over and I have completely lost that feeling and I fall deeply in sorrow and a sense of lack. If I don’t like it anymore, I will read your words. I hope and think that many other people can also draw (again) hope and perseverance from this. (Me)
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Dear Me, I know your feeling exactly, I have been working on it for 5 years, if you want to talk to me via msn or something, then I hear it, come on he keep believing in your love, then everything will be fine , mean it. (Angel)
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Thanks for the sweet words, Angel. Maybe (later) I would like to exchange ideas with you, but I am trying to “let it go” a little bit {which I am advised from all sides: only when I let go can it come again} . But I would still like to know from you whether your soul love is back in your life and whether it has cost you many difficulties and whether it is all right now? (I have a lot of trouble with it that there is a lot of grief, of course with yourself but also with your partner where you are with and in your family. I think / know for sure that, for example, that is one of the things why my soul love has left me, but will soul love eventually win, also in view of the fact that it causes a lot of sorrow to the “laggards”? (Me)
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Dear Me, if your buddy is gone for that reason, He thinks this will save you sadness, out of respect for your marriage, but he doesn’t know how painful it really is for you. Is he also in a relationship? He must also feel that pain right? Why don’t you send him a long email? I never really lost my buddy, we always had “contact”. Due to things that happened we had little or no contact (in our hearts we are always together) we cannot do without each other. And I will die at the thought if I ever lose it. The feeling is so intense what we have but at some moments you really drown in sorrow. If you have a bad day again and you miss each other. I myself think that our love overcomes everything as we have already overcome many things. T life is short, we must enjoy, at the moment I think a lot about my life. If I had known everything in advance, get married … Never again. But as you yourself already say and of which I was completely silent, who do we all feel sad idd. Are we thinking about ourselves or? (Angel)
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Hello Angel [and everyone] We are both married and I feel that he idd “left” for that reason. Although he says something completely different … The feelings were too intense, too intense, you can flee to avoid that. When we were together there was a lot of pain and struggle and sorrow (because we were both bound). But of course there was also the very intense feeling of soul love with all the beautiful and nice things and moments that came with it. Now that he is gone, there is only the sadness and the lack. But the feeling that we are “together” and (later) really get back together has never been gone. I have sent many emails, but so far that has not had a good effect. I would really like to take a look into the future, when will we be together again? There are a number of clairvoyants who say this is going to happen. Are there people among you who have experience with that; that that indeed happened? I feel it myself too, but everyone says: patience, patience, patience .. I have been patient for more than 11 months now (and I found 1 day without each other so difficult ..!) It is very heavy and varied: the one day full of good hope and courage and full of “feeling”. The other day just “mind” and think: this is no longer good (while you know better with your heart). But I understand that you can not “just” be together? (Me)
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Hi Lieve Me, sorry I didn’t show anything, I was really tired, but I’m back, And no idd we can’t be together in a normal way, but we miss each other very much. I myself am married too, making everything very difficult, and I know your feeling exactly, the sadness that torn you inside, (I really suffered a lot in those years but that does not outweigh the feeling of love that is so deep), knowing that somewhere there is someone you love more than anything else, you do not feel very inside without the other. You get older and you think hard about your life, my biggest fear is, when I am a little older, I will regret my life, why did I not put the knot on, and left everything behind? to be happy with my great soul love. I have it just as hard as you Me.