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My soul love / friend (that he is, I am only just behind, because I had never heard of it before, but when I read the stories about soul love, I recognize everything in it!), Says I no longer love me . He and I are both married. I think he could no longer handle the confrontation with my intense feelings. I also think that the home situation prevents him from continuing our love of friendship. I always feel that he does love me. I feel and think and am almost certain that he will be back. It feels that this just CANNOT be over, that it is too deep, at least in my heart, but I also think in his heart (although he says otherwise). He says he’s not coming anymore. He has now been gone for more than 5 months and I feel him in my heart every second. There has been such sadness and hope and powerlessness for so long. I feel so connected to him. Now there is a wall from its side. But I don’t think that’s the feeling that really lives in his heart … I know I’ll wait for him. Are there people who also experienced something like this and where it was all right again that the person who says they no longer love you and does not come again has nevertheless returned?

Answer
Hey! I understand very well how you feel, I am now experiencing it! I’m going to answer your question, I know that for sure. All you need is a little patience … All love. (Patries)

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In the meantime, almost 6 months have elapsed since you gave me an answer. (So in total almost a year …) How are things now? Is your soul love back in your life or are you still (like me) separated from him? I did, however, have contact with him recently, but as soon as it concerns feelings of love, there is no more conversation. I still think / hope / feel that he is coming. But when? Strength! (Me)

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I am in contact with my soul love after a 3.5 month standstill thanks to a fight. The subject of feelings has so far been fearfully avoided (mainly on his part because he cannot talk about it; on my part because I have already chased him away with it a number of times). I recognize so much in your story. But it is possible to restore the contact. (Unknown)

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Yes, I also recognize a lot in your story: After he left, I also drove him away from me by expressing my feelings… After a long time he seemed to be coming my way again, but then everything fell again silent … The seasons follow each other … meanwhile the seasons have already changed 5 times … and I still believe and feel that we are coming together … and I (and he ??) go through all kinds of phases, which I will increasingly recognize in the stories that I read here on the site. Thanks to your answer, I believe in it a little more … and I hope it is also a support for other Soul Lovers who are separated: keep believing in your love! And how wonderful for you to be together again …! (Me)