Q0056. What is the essence of love? Why is this happening? What should I learn from this?

Suzanne

Two and a half years ago I met my twinflame. Half a year ago I saw him again after almost two years of calling alone, we fell in love and after a month he decided to stay with his girlfriend whom he dearly loves. Since I saw him, my world has been upside down, everything seems different, the world is less empty, my self-confidence has grown and yet it cannot be experienced as a huge gnim with him, the feeling goes so incredibly deep, it works like that ‘ n pain … I tried to break all contact with him, because I just didn’t pull it and I don’t think it’s fair to his girlfriend (he can’t tell her what I mean to him because she won’t understand). But I can’t help it, need it, in a way. It takes a lot of energy and at the same time I get a lot in return, it brings me closer to myself … and yet I don’t think it’s better to stop this, I just don’t know anymore what is better: the pain that he she chooses the contact, or the distance? I really want to go further, also go further, try to live my own life to achieve my own goals and find it so incredibly difficult to really let him go. What is the essence of love? Why is this happening? What should I learn from this? try to live my own life to achieve my own goals and find it so incredibly difficult to really let go. What is the essence of love? Why is this happening? What should I learn from this? try to live my own life to achieve my own goals and find it so incredibly difficult to really let go. What is the essence of love? Why is this happening? What should I learn from this?

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You have probably already met your soulmate. But it may well be that you may already be ready but he is not. He may not be familiar with the word twinflame at all. He does have a profound feeling for you, but cannot fully place this feeling. For some soulmates it can even be frightening to find so much recognition in the other in terms of feelings and similar situations that one of the two flees. If it is your soulmate then he just belongs to you because he is a part of yourself no matter how crazy this sounds. Somehow he can’t live without you and one day when he realizes he can’t live without you. But that still requires patience on your part. Because when that happens, nobody knows. Just try to pick up your own life again. Love. (Samantha)

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nicely said Samantha. I agree with you, something deep is never going to pass, time will tell, keep following your feelings. A soul’s love will always be and remain a part of you that you will never let go. A gift from above. (Dorine)

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If I find it difficult to let go of my soul love and want to cut through knots that I really don’t want to cut, I always read a spell he once sent me: if you love something, set it free. If it comes back to you, it was and will always be yours. If it never returns, it was never yours to start with. (Unknown)