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I went to a dating site because I wanted to meet new people. And then, quite unexpectedly, I found a profile of a man who pulled the bottom of my feet away. There was such a recognition in me, and his text spoke from my deepest soul, I finally knew what I wanted in a relationship. I don’t dare write to him. On a meditation weekend he came up in me again and again in strong, calming madnesses. Then I emphasized him. He was very interested. But he cannot reconcile with his sense of romance that I have a child and my son’s father comes to the house every week to get my son. He always wanted to meet up with me and then cancel again. It is very painful for me. My friends say I should stop contacting only my best friend sees how strongly I react to him and is in favor of it. Now he has canceled another appointment (for the fourth time) while he writes that I am very much of his ideal image of a woman and he thinks I could be a possible soulmate. I also had a psychic reading and she also said that this was true, and that if we have a relationship it will be all right. I just can’t let go, everything in me wants to go to him. So I suggested to him to keep in touch over email and to share what is there. He is also for it and says he feels the same in terms of thoughts and feelings about me. I find all this so confusing, and it makes me so very sad. There is a man somewhere who could be my soulmate, I feel like I could die for him if I have to, could love him unconditionally, but he doesn’t want to meet me. How should I handle this?

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Don’t feel sad. Even though you have no relationship with him, he apparently has released a lot in you. SEE ANSWER TO QUESTION 35 (Tiny)

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idd, don’t be sad. try to focus on what you have with him and not on what you don’t have. I have been in contact with my twinflame for over three years and after about a year I wanted to meet her. I wanted to feel her, look into her eyes, hug and just know what it felt like to really be together. however, she kept me at a distance in a similar way as you describe. promise a meeting and then start back. a few times we were close and every time I was severely disappointed. in the end I angrily broke off the contact because I couldn’t get to know her. we have had no contact for almost two years and three weeks ago I actually met her after 1 email in which the contact recovered immediately. suddenly she wanted to meet and see me and of course I didn’t have to think twice about it. it was great and we are both so happy that we did it. but sometimes you have to be very patient in life and I know …. when it comes to soul love, patience is the hardest thing there is. maybe you shouldn’t assume that you will ever have a relationship or become loved ones because you create very high expectations for him with that, maybe that will feel oppressive for him. (I will just call you) Anyway …. be happy for the time being with what you have, if it has to become more, it will come naturally … fate plays a terribly big role in this kind of love, let fate leave its work (Unknown) but sometimes you have to be very patient in life and I know …. when it comes to soul love, patience is the hardest thing there is. maybe you shouldn’t assume that you will ever have a relationship or become loved ones because you create very high expectations for him with that, maybe that will feel oppressive for him. (I will just call you) Anyway …. be happy for the time being with what you have, if it has to become more, it will come naturally … fate plays a terribly big role in this kind of love, let fate leave its work (Unknown) but sometimes you have to be very patient in life and I know …. when it comes to soul love, patience is the hardest thing there is. maybe you shouldn’t assume that you will ever have a relationship or become loved ones because you create very high expectations for him with that, maybe that will feel oppressive for him. (I will just call you) Anyway …. be happy for the time being with what you have, if it has to become more, it will come naturally … fate plays a terribly big role in this kind of love, let fate leave its work (Unknown)