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Not without each other and not being able to work together! I met my friend about 6 years ago through a chat program. I was reading his profile and had not chatted with him yet but knew that he belonged to me even though we had not chatted a word. He started chatting with me (he visited me) and so it started that we were chatting deep into the night. I loved him, he loved me too, we didn’t have to say anything to each other and yet we knew from each other what we meant. We called it love on the first chat. I was in the middle of a divorce (it ran before I met my boyfriend) and his relationship wasn’t that good either, even though he lived with his ex, he also had his own home. After chatting for 2 and a half months we wanted to meet each other because the tension was very high, it was too crazy for words, we could only think of each other all day long and it was as if we were floating. The meeting was even more intense, we saw each other and literally flown into each other’s arms, we were at least in the middle of the room for at least 20 minutes, saying nothing, just holding on to each other and feeling because what energy is going through your body that moment. So it was not only love at first chat but also at first sight. The next day we were already at the stage where we had decided that we could no longer live without each other, that felt so good. That while I had decided to stay alone with the children and not to start a relationship at all. In the course of the months, we got higher and higher in our relationship, there was little talk, but it didn’t seem to be necessary because we understood each other. Until his behavior started to change. He was depressed and it seemed like separation anxiety, he could not be alone and did not want this either. It was as if he was going to stand in the way of his own happiness (he had a pretty negative past). Now at this moment our relationship is over, as it has often happened and how difficult this may be, I really want to continue because a flashing light relationship requires a lot of my energy, if I continue with this, then I will fall down. Going alone with the children is pretty hard for me, it’s like I’m missing a piece of myself. We have a child together that he does not want to have contact with because he has to face me and I know he can’t. I feel it around me, as if it is looking at me, I feel it from a distance, if I do not carry negative thoughts with me because that was the problem in our relationship, thoughts went beyond feeling in the long run (from both sides) that made sure that we no longer became absorbed in our love / feeling in our negative way of thinking. Is it possible that we know that we are soulmates, that this goes beyond ordinary love but does not know how to deal with this? Feelings are so strong that it turns into fears from both sides, but the fears feel each other, which gives a double opposition. Is it possible that we know that we are soulmates, that this goes beyond ordinary love but does not know how to deal with this? Feelings are so strong that it turns into fears from both sides, but the fears feel each other, which gives a double opposition. Is it possible that we know that we are soulmates, that this goes beyond ordinary love but does not know how to deal with this? Feelings are so strong that it turns into fears from both sides, but the fears feel each other, which gives a double opposition.

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Through my soul love I have found myself again. She has released the deepest from the deepest in me. More feeling and I now see the world differently. An intense deep love really indescribable, so much love and warmth. Eroticism, sex, is much more intense, heavenly, indescribably delicious. We have become 1. I don’t want to think about losing her, if I hear you like that, with all that pain. I can’t live without her, my life would be dark around me forever. (Remco)
Answer If there was real love, then that love will continue to exist, even if the relationship is no longer there and everyone has gone their own way … After a while you will come together again. (Unknown)

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Yes, I recognize your story and I read more people here. I also met my soul love through chatting, I also knew immediately that he was terribly special. A shock came through me when I saw his photo and when I met him it was coming home. Our love was so strong, so special! But he has had many difficult years; in his youth and in his marriage. He is also a very hypersensitive person who projects his feelings onto me. For example, he fills in my thoughts and says that I think for him. As a result, our relationship completely failed. I do not understand at all how it is possible that such a strong love of the soul can fail because of misunderstanding and confusion. I have trouble living on and I notice that I have lost my zest for life. So also: not with and not without him … (A)