A confused woman

About two years ago I fell madly in love with a woman. It started with spiritual, really beautiful, special dreams. I finally told her. It was not mutual at all. I now have a nice relationship. But it will always gnaw at me because this feeling is so deep, and it has caused me a lot of pain. I wonder if it is possible that she doesn’t feel anything at all or is sensitive to me. That makes it hard for me to let go. She is still in my life now and then and I love her in a different way. But I can’t get to know her. Sometimes she was very easy to reach and sometimes very repellent. Would this mean that she doesn’t want to know or feel it?

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I don’t know anyone who has experienced that one feels it and the other does not. Soul love exists thanks to reciprocity. You can’t feel when it’s there. Deny or ignore or close. Someone can consciously choose not to give in to this love. Someone just can’t stand to face that much confrontation with themselves and then shut themselves off for that soul love. It is sometimes difficult to accept the choices of others. Accepting that is also love. (See also the previous question) (Tiny)

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If it is true soul love then the other person MUST feel it too. My “other half” was also in a “denial phase”. I just KNOW that he feels the same for me as I do for him. You just KNOW. Just as well that the grass is green you KNOW this too. The Other Half Of Me Has The Same. (L)

If it is true soul love then the other person MUST feel it too. My “other half” was also in a “denial phase”. I just KNOW that he feels the same for me as I do for him. You just KNOW. Just as well that the grass is green you KNOW this too. The Other Half Of Me Has The Same. (L)