Unknown

It has been an inner struggle of almost four years. A fight with myself, through the confrontation with him. It started with the well-known ‘look each other in the eye and time stood still’ and then all the phases that I read back in other people’s stories; denial, not talking to each other about it, dreams, nerves, signals, trusting each other to the depths of your soul when you look at each other. The phase in which all the contact between us almost physically hurt. It has changed me enormously. Now is the time to say goodbye. Our ways will separate, because we will no longer occupy a place in each other’s daily lives (we are no longer colleagues). And it feels like our souls are preparing for it. Although my love for him will never fade away, everything feels less intense. As if it started flowing, as if it has become a matter of course, like brushing your teeth. Still special, but in calmer waters. It scares me. Afraid of the fact that we have never spoken to each other and that he will now disappear from my sight. That the feelings seem to be less intense. That I hardly dream about him anymore. When I ask a question I always get answers from the universe in characters. But I see his name less, less and less influenced by his presence. Can this love ‘ebber away’? Will I lose it? Has it perhaps never been there? Have I imagined everything? Is love over? Afraid of the fact that we have never spoken to each other and that he will now disappear from my sight. That the feelings seem to be less intense. That I hardly dream about him anymore. When I ask a question I always get answers from the universe in characters. But I see his name less, less and less influenced by his presence. Can this love ‘ebber away’? Will I lose it? Has it perhaps never been there? Have I imagined everything? Is love over? Afraid of the fact that we have never spoken to each other and that he will now disappear from my sight. That the feelings seem to be less intense. That I hardly dream about him anymore. When I ask a question I always get answers from the universe in characters. But I see his name less, less and less influenced by his presence. Can this love ‘ebber away’? Will I lose it? Has it perhaps never been there? Have I imagined everything? Is love over? Can this love ‘ebber away’? Will I lose it? Has it perhaps never been there? Have I imagined everything? Is love over? Can this love ‘ebber away’? Will I lose it? Has it perhaps never been there? Have I imagined everything? Is love over?

Answer 1
No girl, if he really is your twinflame, then you can’t lose it. It can, however, shift to the background for temporary. I am currently experiencing this myself. I also know since 4 years that the man for whom I had feelings for much longer is my twinflame and now I also notice that I hardly dream about him anymore, that there is distance, he now has a new “girlfriend” (and I deliberately put this in quotation marks because he never talks about her, and I am sure that his feelings for her are not that deep). It comes and goes. You will also notice that. It never disappears completely from your life. (Unknown)

Answer 2
I think it is true that if you have not had a fusion of soul then he or she is not the universal truth and you can lose it. (Remco)

Answer 3
I think it depends on a few things, in particular: the more you develop, the stronger you become and the less you become dependent on the feeling for your twinflame. And if, in addition to these things, you no longer see him, the bond is permanent and you will not lose it, only keeping it comes in the background. The more you develop, the less he / she comes to mind in daily life. The less he / she comes to mind, the less you notice or encounter the signs around you.
(Petra)