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What I have to learn is that I show my feelings. With what I feel inside that fits with my outside. I know this is the reason I have met my soulmate now. He can respond very well at times when I make myself very vulnerable and he sometimes ignores me unexpectedly. Every time I understand why it happened, no matter how painful it sometimes is, I can then reason why he did it this way. And every moment is a moment of growth. As a man he is sometimes very short through the bend but the way he says it exactly touches my core and I grow from it. I notice that I can do this for him too and that I can hit him at the right moments and I see him also grow emotionally. We have exactly the same purpose in life, are emotionally exactly the same at work and have respect for each other. Because we feel each other so well and read each other, things are going very fast. Sometimes I notice that he understands me so quickly and that there is little! g words are needed. The contact becomes purely the work situation intense. I notice that I am changing and that my contacts in my environment are also changing, I show myself more and more and I feel happier. I also notice him so when we are together we shine on all sides (work related) If there are others he does not look at me because he is aware that he radiates to me. I notice that I now also want him physically really want to give him a hug. If I indicate this via text message, he says, do this too! but when the moment comes, that enormous embarrassment on his part and he physically shuts himself off … And then I am nowhere, I want his permission for this hug too. I notice that this is good for us, just learn to give a hug out of warmth and because we are both warm people, but this has been absorbed by our life experience. But we are also male and female and we find each other physically attractive. I v! Ind difficult this and I wonder how to deal with this. Who recognizes this and how did you deal with this? With kind regards!
Answer 1
Oh girl, you should know how much I recognize all of this. This is exactly how it is for me and my twinflame! That rapid growth because you feel each other exactly, the striking comments that are not always pleasant but that do give you a push in the right direction. And yes, that desire to touch each other. I certainly recognize that too. And also the distance he takes when others are there. My twinflame does that too, and sometimes I do too, depending on who is there. There are times when he does allow touch and sometimes takes the initiative for it himself. Then he comes up to me and gives me three kisses on the cheek and puts his hand on my arm while he does that. But I almost experience eye contact as even more intense; that is so intense and so crystal clear. In addition, words are unnecessary, we can speak with our eyes. Sometimes he just smiles at me and you can carry me away. When he hands me something, he always touches my hand. And he calls more often and has d! it may be a reason but in between I taste that he just wants to hear me. Delicious. I notice that we grow fastest by just being close to each other, seeing each other as we are. He brings out the best in me and when he is there, everything works out while I can normally be a real jerk. When he is there I am much more witty, more ad brake, and funnier. He always laughs at what I say and vice versa. It is wonderful to just chat with each other and often I don’t even register what he says, I only listen to his beautiful voice. Pfff, in love? Seems like that;) When he hands me something, he always touches my hand. And he calls more often and has d! it may be a reason but in between I taste that he just wants to hear me. Delicious. I notice that we grow fastest by just being close to each other, seeing each other as we are. He brings out the best in me and when he is there, everything works out while I can normally be a real jerk. When he is there I am much more witty, more ad brake, and funnier. He always laughs at what I say and vice versa. It is wonderful to just chat with each other and often I don’t even register what he says, I only listen to his beautiful voice. Pfff, in love? Seems like that;) When he hands me something, he always touches my hand. And he calls more often and has d! it may be a reason but in between I taste that he just wants to hear me. Delicious. I notice that we grow fastest by just being close to each other, seeing each other as we are. He brings out the best in me and when he is there, everything works out while I can normally be a real jerk. When he is there I am much more witty, more ad brake, and funnier. He always laughs at what I say and vice versa. It is wonderful to just chat with each other and often I don’t even register what he says, I only listen to his beautiful voice. Pfff, in love? Seems like that;) it may be a reason but in between I taste that he just wants to hear me. Delicious. I notice that we grow fastest by just being close to each other, seeing each other as we are. He brings out the best in me and when he is there, everything works out while I can normally be a real jerk. When he is there I am much more witty, more ad brake, and funnier. He always laughs at what I say and vice versa. It is wonderful to just chat with each other and often I don’t even register what he says, I only listen to his beautiful voice. Pfff, in love? Seems like that;) it may be a reason but in between I taste that he just wants to hear me. Delicious. I notice that we grow fastest by just being close to each other, seeing each other as we are. He brings out the best in me and when he is there, everything works out while I can normally be a real jerk. When he is there I am much more witty, more ad brake, and funnier. He always laughs at what I say and vice versa. It is wonderful to just chat with each other and often I don’t even register what he says, I only listen to his beautiful voice. Pfff, in love? Seems like that;) When he is there I am much more witty, more ad brake, and funnier. He always laughs at what I say and vice versa. It is wonderful to just chat with each other and often I don’t even register what he says, I only listen to his beautiful voice. Pfff, in love? Seems like that;) When he is there I am much more witty, more ad brake, and funnier. He always laughs at what I say and vice versa. It is wonderful to just chat with each other and often I don’t even register what he says, I only listen to his beautiful voice. Pfff, in love? Seems like that;)
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Comment
Hi girl, thank you so much for your nice message, I think it is nice and clearly described, nice to read it that way! You also complete what I have not described, exactly the same … it gives peace to share it. Your story can also be mine. I am very happy with the mental contact, which is actually the best thing you can have. And the physical is indeed very small, very fine. Loved, no, how do you get there? haha (Unknown)
Answer 2
Thank you for recognizing yourself in my story (I am from answer 1). To give you an idea: I’ve been in love with my twinflame for 18 years. So very long. And that will never pass. We cannot be together because I am bound. But in the astral souls do not care …
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Answer 3
And still feel it, wow! Do you dream about your twinflame and have you made it negotiable? He was in my dream last night. The special thing is that in my dream, the contact is brought beforehand. In my first dream he fell ill (this was true, he had fallen ill for 8 years that night) and said that we couldn’t see each other for a while. in my second dream he asked me to let him in contact, i said yes after that it was quiet for a while (i didn’t understand that at the time, but my twinflame really needs time. And in the last conversation he indicated that if he really much for someone to feel that he will then become quiet when someone comes too close, now I understand why that was, In my last dream he came to me and how shall I explain it, the dream continued where we last stopped at the office. I said that I was so tired that I wanted to go to sleep and see each other again and we wished each other a good weekend. In my dream I was in a sleeping position and he came to me with a question related to work. Afterwards I sat down next to him and he gave him permission to hug and give him a kiss on his cheek. He cuddled very quietly back. Then he got up and I asked him to keep eye contact in mind, he did this too, was a very nice intense eye contact. I had something like wow !! So beautiful! We are both bound. Then I sat down next to him and he gave permission to hug and kiss him on the cheek. He cuddled very quietly back. Then he got up and I asked him to keep eye contact in mind, he did this too, was a very nice intense eye contact. I had something like wow !! So beautiful! We are both bound. Then I sat down next to him and he gave permission to hug and kiss him on the cheek. He cuddled very quietly back. Then he got up and I asked him to keep eye contact in mind, he did this too, was a very nice intense eye contact. I had something like wow !! So beautiful! We are both bound.
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Answer 4
This is recognizable to me too. We see and hear each other regularly. My twin also finds it difficult to show his feelings, but I am starting to see him more and more and that is very pure and warm. His mask is getting thinner. When I feel his arms around me, I imagine myself in heaven. He recently stood at the door with his arms spread and I fell into it crying. We also both have a relationship which makes it complicated. However, I know for sure that he will never disappear from my life again and I love him “dearly” and unconditionally. Secretly, I hope we have a future together, but we must leave that to the cosmos.
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Answer 5
About the physical contact: You are both still in uncertainty. The 1 falls silent and reflects this to the other so that the other also falls silent. Try not to put pressure on yourself. The more contact you have, the smoother it will be. Try starting with a light touch on his shoulder. Gr.
(Alicia S.)
Answer 6
Well Alicia, I have taken your advice to heart and touched my twinflame a few days ago, just his arm. He did the same to me yesterday!
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Answer 7
I recognize it all exactly! My twinflame also distances itself when there are other people. When we meet each other one-on-one, we greet each other with a few kisses on the cheek and contact comes naturally. But if there are people, we just greet each other with words and suddenly talk becomes much more forced. As if we don’t want others to see what’s between us. At first I sometimes felt hurt when he acted so aloof, but I found that I do it as well myself, we are like mirrors to each other. He recently stopped by and we were alone. Then he is completely different (read: open) than when my housemates are at home. When someone came down, he was so gone. I am still hoping for more moments together, that we can drink coffee together and so on. But that will come.
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