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A few months ago I met him. Love at first sight, I know he felt the same, he just kept looking at me. His gaze made me very embarrassed. Saw him several times a week and did not get him out of my head. After a while we had to work together on a project and actually got to know him. He looks like me, his view of the world, interests and humor. After a while, he started contacting outside of our cooperation in an innocent manner and also wanted to meet. The attraction was always very intense, with him in the neighborhood everything around me no longer mattered. The problem that I felt was stopping him was his relationship. He was not happy with her, he told me that often and I could feel it well in him. I was not at all jealous of his girlfriend. When the project came to an end and we had to say goodbye to each other, I confessed everything. He reacted very cool, w! I began to doubt my feelings very much. I didn’t talk to him for weeks afterwards, but he never disappeared from my mind. The week that I decided that I really had to let go of him, I received a text message from him and so it started all over again. Now I am back and I miss him very much. Last night I even dreamed that he kissed me, but said he can’t let go of his girlfriend yet. I would like to let him go, but I really don’t know where to start anymore … I didn’t talk to him for weeks afterwards, but he never disappeared from my mind. The week that I decided that I really had to let go of him, I received a text message from him and so it started all over again. Now I am back and I miss him very much. Last night I even dreamed that he kissed me, but said he can’t let go of his girlfriend yet. I would like to let him go, but I really don’t know where to start anymore … I didn’t talk to him for weeks afterwards, but he never disappeared from my mind. The week that I decided that I really had to let go of him, I received a text message from him and so it started all over again. Now I am back and I miss him very much. Last night I even dreamed that he kissed me, but said he can’t let go of his girlfriend yet. I would like to let him go, but I really don’t know where to start anymore …
Response
I am the questioner and I am really stuck and cannot go anywhere. Is there anyone who can help me. (Unknown)
Answer 1
You only let go when you have completed the entire process.
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Answer 2
It is heavy. Try to accept and not fight against the feeling. Fighting makes it harder. Worry too. I know it won’t let you go. But … you also know that you help yourself in the destruction if you allow it. Love yourself and move on. Put the love you feel for him in yourself and you must see where you end up! And who knows what will happen next .. It will get better, really! But it can take a while! Be patient, work on yourself, be kind to yourself.
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Answer 3
Stupid question perhaps, but what exactly do you want to let go?
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Answer 4
I want to let him go. He dominates all my thoughts. It is so tiring to think about him all the time and not being able to do anything with it.
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Answer 5
You can never let go of a twinflame that will always remain in your system. In the beginning it is very fierce and confronting. Later in the process it becomes milder until you arrive at a point that it becomes second nature. You arrive at a point that you are going to really enjoy it instead of bothering you Because you slowly know who you really are and where you come from. You see the whole complete picture more and more and the love mutually flows more and more.
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Answer 6
My opinion: Your twinflame is still bound. For him the choice of what he will do with this. Listen to your feelings, which tells you what to do. Keeping in touch in the beginning and staying yourself is wise. Eventually his feeling will become more intense, so that he will distance himself out of fear. It is then important that there is a break so that he can get closer to his own feelings and come to a decision himself how things will go on between you. Wishing you lots of strength and love!
(Alicia)
Response
Thank you very much for the nice answer I get. It is difficult to always be convinced of your own feeling, but deep down I know that my feeling is really right. I haven’t heard from him for a while, but I feel his presence every minute of the day. Last night I woke up 3 times shockingly. I wonder if he has anything to do with this. (Unknown)