Q1048. I don’t want to think about my twinflame anymore, how do I do that?

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Because it takes away all my energy, I want to stop thinking about my twinflame. He is also in a relationship so it only hurts to be busy with him. Does anyone know how to get him out of my head?

Answer 1
You are not supposed to lose energy to your twinflame or because you are working on it. My experience is that even when I’m working hard, concentrating on myself, my twinflame can just cycle through it. Apparently it doesn’t just depend on you. The other person may have an earthly relationship, which does not mean that the other person unknowingly tries not to connect. That happens to me all day long, even though my twinflame is in a relationship. Focusing on your work, on your passions, on your meaningful pursuits already makes a difference – getting yourself out of your thought patterns. Stop constantly asking yourself questions that the other person might answer but don’t do. Things start to like again for themselves and not because they remind you of your twinflame. Doing new things who have nothing to do with your twinflame. And if that’s not enough, go to a 5-element acupuncturist (I was with Zhong Dao in Almere) and see if he can help you stay with yourself as well as possible. Was very effective with me.
(Arundash)

Answer 2
You can start looking for a lot of distraction, but feeling it does not go away. Hopefully it will give you more peace when I say that he is also very busy with you. I understand that it is difficult that he is currently in a relationship with another, but I think positively. He still has to learn a lesson from her and you also want a man who is stronger in his shoes. His feelings for you are becoming clearer because of this. Think positively by thinking that she can never surpass the feeling that you have together. He will naturally come back on your path.
(Alicia S.)

Answer 3
Well it is true that the person never goes out again. You are connected forever because it is your twinflame. If you don’t think about him, he will reappear the next day. You should learn to live with it and that needs time.
(Remco)

Answer 4
@ 2, dear Alicia, you don’t know half how your answer makes me feel better. I know in my heart that this is true, and that he is also thinking of me and that she can never surpass me with him (this is somewhat annoyingly expressed but you understand what I mean I hope). And yet it still feels so heavy at the moment, so inhospitable. Today, for the first time, it was possible to block it for the first day as I call it. Every time he came to mind, I sent him away. And every time I saw a sign that could be his; this morning a license plate with its initials followed by twinflame-47 (= 11). Pfff, and his name several times. Well, I can’t seem to run away from him. But I can make sure that I don’t think about him anymore and focus on other things. The weird thing is that when I do that, he is just going to pull again (and maybe that is exactly what I want … to be honest). Of course I would like a stronger man later, and I know that he is entering a period of intense growth and change with this lady. I know that she is a rader in the development process and that he will see the relationship with me magnified. But as said; I also remain human alongside the spiritual and I have a hard time with it. That goes so far that I don’t want to see him because that is too confrontational. And there are plenty of times when we have to see each other … how can I best deal with that? I know that she is a rader in the development process and that he will see the relationship with me magnified. But as said; I also remain human alongside the spiritual and I have a hard time with it. That goes so far that I don’t want to see him because that is too confrontational. And there are plenty of times when we have to see each other … how can I best deal with that? I know that she is a rader in the development process and that he will see the relationship with me magnified. But as said; I also remain human alongside the spiritual and I have a hard time with it. That goes so far that I don’t want to see him because that is too confrontational. And there are plenty of times when we have to see each other … how can I best deal with that?
(Unknown)

Answer 5
I think that is a funny answer 1. I think my twinflame asks me packaged questions. Sometimes I answer but usually I don’t feel the need to answer. Maybe because I think that if he wants to know something, he should ask me personally, via e-mail or something. But he does not (dare). I’m not going to make it too easy for him (-;
(Unknown)