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I wonder why someone who has a twinflame contact does not want an earthly contact? And I also wonder why someone who also feels this same contact and acts in “earthly existence” as if nothing is wrong and that the other thinks that he is completely crazy. I would like others to talk about it so that no one gets blocked in his / her life. a small confirmation wouldn’t hurt, right? or do I ask too much? and my opinion is that someone takes energy from the other is very selfish. so in other words, the lusts and not the burdens … that is not a good development for both. and yes feel good but 24/7? no that’s not what i want. Maybe someone knows what to do? Creating a little distance .. how do you do that?
Answer 1
I want earthly contact but it just can’t be she is in a relationship. But we can still just become friends. But that is not possible either. We have astral contact with each other every now and then. Now it’s a bit less than before. How do you take energy from someone else in my experience that is not possible. Everyone has their own fitness work on your fitness and you have more energy. It is really separate from it.
(Remco)
Answer 2
I recognize that. The lusts and not the burdens. It also annoyed me that he told me you are crazy and a sign for your head. How can anyone change and act ugly. Are you going to doubt again, etc. But I am sure I have him. I will not let myself be caught for the lusts. This gives Me a sense of self Respect. It is hard to know that it will probably be heavenly. I think the most beautiful thing is if you can keep your twin in a way in your life for your transformation process. Keep thinking. Good luck.
(Unknown)
Answer 3
Mmmm, shall we pick up your question a bit? For example in: 1 Yes / no earthly contact and denial of soul love. 2 Getting blocked versus taking energy? 3 And creating distance in the 24/7 contact. Let me give you my opinion on this. Your question also raises many questions. Get the idea that you’re having a hard time, strength with everything! 1 How do you know that your twinflame does not want earthly contact? Perhaps your twinflame is just doing nothing about it because there is such a deep connection or he / she cannot access it. Have you tried to talk about it? Do you find earthy contact a burden? 2 What do you mean by getting blocked in life and is that due to denial of a twinflame? What are your experiences with this? How does energy capture work with twinflames? I now get a lot of energy from the twinflame contact. I have had warnings from people about the energy. I also think that was because I was so involved with him that it sometimes seemed like an obsession. 3 I think it is important to first accept that the connection is always there 24/7 so – whether you always feel it or not. Surrendering to that helps and distraction by doing things (work, something fun, sports) and being absorbed in it also helps. The contact goes up and down with me and there is also development. On the one hand it becomes deeper / more intense / more loving (less ego-confrontations) and on the other hand I am more absorbed in the daily things that I do (and then I am less concerned with him in my head and that is nice) ), but sometimes I suddenly miss him extra strongly). I also think that was because I was so involved with him that it sometimes seemed like an obsession. 3 I think it is important to first accept that the connection is always there 24/7 so – whether you always feel it or not. Surrendering to that helps and distraction by doing things (work, something fun, sports) and being absorbed in it also helps. The contact goes up and down with me and there is also development. On the one hand it becomes deeper / more intense / more loving (less ego-confrontations) and on the other hand I am more absorbed in the daily things that I do (and then I am less concerned with him in my head and that is nice) ), but sometimes I suddenly miss him extra strongly). I also think that was because I was so involved with him that it sometimes seemed like an obsession. 3 I think it is important to first accept that the connection is always there 24/7 so – whether you always feel it or not. Surrendering to that helps and distraction by doing things (work, something fun, sports) and being absorbed in it also helps. The contact goes up and down with me and there is also development. On the one hand it becomes deeper / more intense / more loving (less ego-confrontations) and on the other hand I am more absorbed in the daily things that I do (and then I am less concerned with him in my head and that is nice) ), but sometimes I suddenly miss him extra strongly). Surrendering to that helps and distraction by doing things (work, something fun, sports) and being absorbed in it also helps. The contact goes up and down with me and there is also development. On the one hand it becomes deeper / more intense / more loving (less ego-confrontations) and on the other hand I am more absorbed in the daily things that I do (and then I am less concerned with him in my head and that is nice) ), but sometimes I suddenly miss him extra strongly). Surrendering to that helps and distraction by doing things (work, something fun, sports) and being absorbed in it also helps. The contact goes up and down with me and there is also development. On the one hand it becomes deeper / more intense / more loving (less ego-confrontations) and on the other hand I am more absorbed in the daily things that I do (and then I am less concerned with him in my head and that is nice) ), but sometimes I suddenly miss him extra strongly).
(Unknown)
Answer 4
Thank you for your question. A general problem, which bothers me pretty much. It usually comes down to one twin not wanting to talk about it with the other. While it is often the case that both can feel each other, suffer from it, are affected in their privacy. So one of the two just runs away from the connection that is there. I would be satisfied if the other person took the trouble to look inside himself where all those disturbing feelings come from. Regardless of whether you should enter into a relationship afterwards. Apparently the fear of that development is so great that it is no longer allowed to talk about it. But that is my interpretation: because we don’t talk about it, we all grope in the dark about the motives of the other person. In my case, the other person believes that it is impossible for us to have a relationship. Ready, end of story. In the meantime, my twin is getting really upset. What is behind this now? For most people it is very threatening to discover that there is someone else who can feel what you feel. That is shocking, the day you find out. That was it for me too. It took months before I wanted to accept it, I first needed hard evidence. Our ego exists by the grace of separation from the rest of the world – I am me, and fortunately no one can get deep inside me. That is suddenly different now, you are not only naked in front of the other, so to speak, even thoughts and feelings are no longer safe. That is threatening, unless you dare to open yourself up on earth for that other person. You can also do that safely, because there is no other option. Or you can separate yourself and continue suffering under it, feeling criticized by the other just because you are doing things that do not match the deep connection you have. And then blame the other. It is a choice, how dangerous is it to surrender to someone you already know inside and outside? I’ll tell my twin here. You indeed take energy from each other. And if you do not compensate for this in the earthly existence, by dealing with each other on the earthly level, it leads to an imbalance in yourself, to health problems, blockages. Can’t hold out. Of course that all depends on the kind of couple. There are twinflames who meet, acknowledge, talk about it, and go happily with them, possibly with their existing relationship. I’m not talking about that. There is also a group that now needs it to work something out together or to do something together. Without it, they will both become sick in the long term, they will not be able to continue on their path of life (even the one who does not want to hear) and there will be a lot of pain and suffering with what should not have been there at all. This is not a reproach. I fully understand that such a landslide requires some time to learn how to deal with it. Someone said to me: “It would take me at least a year to process your experience.” You will therefore have to allow an unwilling twin for one or more years to find his or her way. Creating distance does not succeed on an energetic level. A permanent connection has been created, you have become one, and there is energy exchange. It’s not always fun, Astral eroticism is often mentioned, but you can also wake up sick from the other to name a few. The only thing you can do is learn to deal with it. I mention 1 possibility: Tonglen meditation. Furthermore, in general: take care of yourself, that is also good for your twin.
(Sharandu)
Answer 5
Well I don’t think the other express pretends that nothing is wrong. I think he / she then or does not yet consciously know what is there, or that he / she does not know how to deal with it when he / she encounters his or her twinflame. So I don’t find it selfish. If someone is not yet aware how can they be selfish. If I come across my twinflame (if I recognize him) then I don’t do anything either, what else do I have to do … wave exuberantly or something? My twinflame does not want or cannot have earthly contact with me, not yet. And I understand and accept that. I would like that and find it difficult, but everyone has their own way and their own process, and if the other person is not (yet) ready, you can do nothing but understand it and wait quietly and patiently. And as often said here, continue with your life.
(Unknown)
Answer 6
@Sharandu These are all the answers I have been looking for and have also received from you. Thanks My twin denies it. with the result that I am therefore troubled in my life and cannot continue. @ answer 3, what sharandu describes is exactly what I am currently in, perhaps this is an easier answer than pinning my whole story down on the questions you still had because of my questions. I am in an imbalance by the other. I often feel a charging point (such as for a battery) for the other with the result that I am energy-free. That is what I mean by grabbing energy. others deny it hard about this energetic existence etc. Thanks for the answers and advice.
(Unknown)
Answer 7
Just go with the waves and let them up there but do the work haha. One day we will both look back with a smile. And we say why we have not actually opted for each other before.
(Remco)
Answer 8
@ Sharandu: can you also exchange energy with someone other than your twin? Or have astral eroticism? I still doubt, because my soul love suddenly entered into an earthly relationship with another. I still don’t understand that that is possible, although you often read that here: entering into a serious earthly relationship while you have met your soul love. I myself could never be together with someone else, while you have felt that pure love.
(Unknown)
Answer 9
Oohh nice answer Remco! (ant7) Get very happy from it Thank you and dear greetings.
(Butterfly)
Answer 10
Answer 4 matches my own experiences. It is true that twins feel exactly like each other and know what the other is doing. Yes, that can be very threatening. I am already used to it myself and dare to open myself to it. But not yet. Sometimes it does it for a short time and then it is as if the contact is completely cleansing without noise. That never lasts more than a few seconds and then he is shocked and closes again. I am very happy that we sometimes see each other in real life. There is room to expand our earthly contact and gauge its responses. He recently said something and at that moment heard for himself how much those words were meant for me, and then he was shocked. I could feel his shock and he expressed my joy about the saying. I also know, now that I am far away from him, that he is thinking of me, missing me and looking at my photos.
(Unknown)
Answer 11
Every now and then I miss her sometimes there is a calmness that I need time for myself to put everything in order. She comes at times when I don’t expect it and I really like that about her.
(Remco)
Answer 12
@ 8: Even though your twinflame enters into an earthly relationship, the connection remains. I see it as a flight away from that intensity, from that happiness. It is quite something. And I dare to say that a twinflame who consciously runs away from the other and enters into an earthly relationship, has been unhappy in relationships all his life.
(Sharandu)
Answer 13
My twinflame is like that, she walks away from me. But deep down she knows she’s kidding herself.
(Unknown)
Answer 14
@ answer 12: Thank you for your answer, Sharandu. You could well be right with your statement! But that is not a complete answer to my question: can you also have these special deep feelings for someone other than your twin? Can you exchange energy and have astral eroticism with someone else?
(Unknown)
Answer 15
@ 12, yes, I share that opinion. My twinflame has recently entered into a new relationship and I see so clearly that this lady is not for him, no matter how he tries to make it appear that way, not least for himself. So weird, but then I see pictures of them together and he hides himself behind his sunglasses and I know / feel that he is sitting with her head and especially not with his heart but with me. He always wears a kind of mask. That girl has no idea (yet), but she will always come second. All of his previous relationships failed because of his feelings for me. And no, he never said that, but I just know this. I know what and how my twinflame thinks and how it works, we share the same soul.
(Unknown)
Answer 16
@ 14: The astral is rather limitless, I think that everyone can use their own discernment to find an answer to that. But the fact that your twinflame has an earthly relationship does not play a role, I think.
(Sharandu)