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What will happen if you decide to approach your twinflame? What are you afraid of?
Answer 1
We approach each other very often. Have regular contact but just as friends. Tonight I received an SMS from him. I heard my phone and knew it was him. Sometimes I call him the other way, sporadically, and we never meet. That is very strange, we live in the same city. You don’t have to be afraid to approach him, if it’s your twinflame, he knows exactly how you feel.
(Unknown)
Answer 2
In my personal case: approaching my twinflame makes no sense, he will only answer me bluntly, as always. The word bang is idd in its place here but then in the sense that I am “afraid” of wasting my time and energy on it. No, for that matter (it’s my twinflame, I mean) a jammed full-length album (oh, w8 that’s very old-fashioned) well, well, a CD-ROM that got stuck and always says the same thing: I don’t want anything to do with you. ”Well, well, I have that. And you ask the question, do you have that too, have you ever approached your twin if not what are you afraid of or are you not afraid of?
(Unknown)
Answer 3
‘Afraid’ of rejection … ‘Afraid’ that he will get mad at me … these are absolute pains of mine. The last words from him to me were: Kenker on … And he was right … He certainly couldn’t do anything with it then. In the meantime, there have been enough opportunities for him to take a step in my direction. (It has happened to me ridiculously often that I ‘accidentally’ (careless handling via mobile) make sure that I get into his field of vision: invitation to FB, following on Twitter, general invitation to LinkedIn because I didn’t realize so quickly that mn the entire address book was used in which it still appears … stupid: /) Because, on the other hand, there is complete radio silence, I assume that it is not yet time to get back in touch. And besides, I want to leave him alone, that’s actually what he tells me by completely ignoring me. I also really want him to go his own way. That is what he deserves, to which he is entitled. But I’m so rotten, curious how he is! I also really want to walk this path together, learn, experience, grow … I am not contacting me because I am afraid of destroying more than I would like … but I also still have the feeling that he is contacting me somewhere will take on… and I actually ‘wait’ for that. Until then I will continue with all the changes (new work, study, end of relationship) that take place in my own life and fully trust my guides, universe, that we will speak to each other again at exactly the right time. But I’m so rotten, curious how he is! I also really want to walk this path together, learn, experience, grow … I am not contacting me because I am afraid of destroying more than I would like … but I also still have the feeling that he is contacting me somewhere will take on… and I actually ‘wait’ for that. Until then I will continue with all the changes (new work, study, end of relationship) that take place in my own life and fully trust my guides, universe, that we will speak to each other again at exactly the right time. But I’m so rotten, curious how he is! I also really want to walk this path together, learn, experience, grow … I am not contacting me because I am afraid to destroy more than I would like … but I also still have the feeling that he is in contact with me somewhere will take on… and I actually ‘wait’ for that. Until then I will continue with all the changes (new work, study, end of relationship) that take place in my own life and fully trust my guides, universe, that we will speak to each other again at exactly the right time. grow … I am not contacting me because I am afraid of destroying more than I would like … but I also still have the feeling that he will contact me … and I ‘wait’ for that. Until then I will continue with all the changes (new work, study, end of relationship) that take place in my own life and fully trust my guides, universe, that we will speak to each other again at exactly the right time. grow … I am not contacting me because I am afraid of destroying more than I would like … but I also still have the feeling that he will contact me … and I ‘wait’ for that. Until then I will continue with all the changes (new work, study, end of relationship) that take place in my own life and fully trust my guides, universe, that we will speak to each other again at exactly the right time.
(Lilly)
I would like to get in touch with Lilly from question 1004 ant 3 Due to circumstances I have lost her email address, hence my question.
Lilly can pass on her email address to the editors.
Answer 4
I have sent her a letter but that is 4 years ago or something. Then she gave a fierce response that she didn’t want contact and that I had to live my own life. That letter made me very scared haha at least I did not expect her to respond that way. So you see that reality is much different than the spiritual world. Our dreams have now totally changed towards each other. I no longer dare to approach her the 2nd time because she has a friend and a child. I feel her character and I know exactly what she is like. See if she really cares about me, she will contact you sometime.
(Unknown)
Answer 5
To be rejected / ignored again. I have been ignored so many times that it feels like a rejection. The question is: how often can people allow this? The limit has been reached. The initiative now lies with the other. And if not, then not ……….
(Unknown)
Answer 6
Answer 3 Lily: you say that you wait until your twinflame contacts you. What will you do if he contacts you?
(Unknown)
Answer 7
Approach is now very sensitive with us for various reasons. In the past year I have contacted a number of times, usually he ignores me. I once had a very clear rejection. There is now some sort of contact. His answers are never direct, usually via a detour, but he is often very direct about 1 particular subject.
(Unknown)
Answer 8
Answer 1. Thank you for being able to be friends. You want more I understand? Success in any case! We are not going to be friends now. Our contact goes step by step. If we are one step further I am so impressed by the intensity. Then I am in the clouds and also completely upset. On the one hand, I am in a rush of happiness and when that fades a bit, it seems as if I am becoming more myself and that is quite confronting. The reality and my past (and how I lost myself) come to me that extra hard. Then I need to hear something sweet from twinflame. But I don’t always dare to express my feelings … so I understand.
(Unknown)
Answer 9
In response to answer 6 (Unknown): what will I do if he contacts me? I don’t have a clear plan for that. I don’t want that either. That is completely open. I let that go too. (I couldn’t hear that a year ago). The reason why he contacts me will indicate the continuation of the conversation. Perhaps he doesn’t know anything about us as twinflames yet? and for whatever inexplicable reason does he just want to contact me again because he feels the inner urge to talk to me? I don’t have the ego urge to tell him exactly how things are between us. I know that will come up in the course of time, if the time is right. And maybe I will never even be able to tell him that we are twinflames ……… .. What I would of course ask him as one of the first things is how he is doing and how he has fared in the past 1.5 years … Because that is what I would really like to know: how is he doing? I love him dearly and your loved ones would like to know how you are doing so that you can share in their sadness or joy.
(Lilly)
Answer 10
I have approached my twinflame so often. And no, that was not easyAt the very beginning I asked for his song, then I didn’t know anything about the subject of Twin Souls / Soulmates. Later my twinflame also came to me, but let’s talk! I didn’t get anything out of my mouth then, neither did he. It was really turning around each other, without saying a word. I didn’t understand a thing, my world was totally upside down and every time we saw each other .. eye contact, attraction. later we were jerked back to each other and huppa HOI later I was ‘helped’ really like this: Now it’s time for you to make contact. Then many times later I just greeted him because my twinflame is also a DJ in his spare time and was often asked for parties in our neighborhood, that was also the opportunity for me to approach him. And when I look at it now, he has always been friendly. Also while texting, just or not be mad at me. Once he got out of his shoe! hoten, but that reaction was also because his girlfriend was burning between us. This is now 2 years ago, learned a lot and has grown. Now it feels like we are getting closer together, the contact is now familiar and special and it is becoming more and more fun. Thank you my love. Lots of love
(Butterfly)
Answer 11
@ 8 Yes we do see each other regularly, and yes, I want more with him than what is now, but that is not yet possible. I am bound and he now has a girlfriend. But when we see each other it always feels so good. With him I feel completely good, myself, and the way I would always like to feel. Saying goodbye always hurts, I am very bad at putting an end to a pleasant visit or evening. It really feels very disruptive. And in the days that follow I sit and ponder everything that has been said in my mind.
(Unknown)
Answer 12
To Lilly of answers 3 and 9; I have already read more about your story here in the past and I can imagine that it is very difficult. There is also a big age difference between you and I think that is partly responsible for this great distance. After all, he is in a completely different phase of life than you. And a year and a half is really not long in processes like this. I fear it will take a very long time before he realizes that you are his twinflame. You have to go on with your life, and have faith that it will come as it should. Very difficult but it is the only way.
(Unknown)