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Suppose the 1 does not want and you still have a connection with each other. How do you deal with that?
Answer 1
Just let it be. Let go and live your life. The other person must gain insight at his own pace and there is nothing to be enforced. Let go and enjoy your life, that’s what you have to do.
(Unknown)
Answer 2
I mainly think of all the signs that connected us to each other, of those ten years in the street and neighborhood where I lived, named after the place that had to do with my twinflame (his childhood). In that house with three storeys I lived respectively, above that two sisters since the thirties (!) inseparably with each other and above again a loner neighbor, terribly nice man, who was his medical instrument maker his whole life (my twin is surgeon). lived under it for ten years and had no idea that it had to do with my destiny …
(Wieweet)
Answer 3 Do
twinflames always have a connection or are you referring to a specific type of connection? And dear questioner is your question hypothetical or not. I mean – if it’s your own situation – who doesn’t want something? You or your twinflame? Does one of the two want a real relationship? Then there is the question: a love affair or something else. I find the perspective of a remote connection without relationship, however, very difficult. With our love there is also a lot of lust, that constantly flows into each other. How could I reconcile that with a mere friendship or possibly a relationship with someone else in the future?
(Unknown)
Answer 4
Yes, that is exactly how I often felt and sometimes and certainly when I first knew him. I felt really forced but did not realize what it was exactly. Now I know that my twinflame forced me to make and maintain contact with him. I certainly did not like that, nobody likes being forced. In the beginning I did not know how to deal with it, with all its consequences. Now I use my now learned and applied methods.
(Unknown)
Answer 5
That is difficult, yes, you might want to stick the other person behind the wallpaper … because it affects your life so enormously emotionally, and the other person treats it so indifferently. (of course people are now going to respond who say that ‘sticking behind the wallpaper’ is not nice). Yes, as a little person here on earth you don’t always have everything under control, so you just have to learn to live with it.
(Unknown)
Answer 6
it sometimes seems that all this is about love that does not receive an answer. That’s not true. It is not a simple love or something. It is something that strikes like a bomb in your soul. The other can sometimes not do anything with it, and what do you do with that is hard to understand in our earthly being. Perhaps the one is more sensitive and the inner person knows a little more than the other, but for the one who realizes this is not something simple. You cannot understand this nml. What should you do with it? Waiting or? No idea.
(Unknown)
Answer 7
Well, how do you deal with that? I find it really hard myself. You feel the other person, but it is not answered, you cannot do anything with it. A lot of pain, sorrow, desire. You miss that other person. What does the other person feel, and how does he experience it? I’m curious about the answers.
(Unknown)
Answer 8
I would recommend to everyone here to take a closer look at the phenomenon of desire and read the book The Secret. I was also skeptical when I started, but what is my surprise? Our thoughts and wishes have much more influence than you could ever dream of. If you consciously focus that energy on what you really want, it will also come into your life. Believe me, I experience it every day. And you can also bring your twinflame closer with this.
(Unknown)
Answer 9
To 4: How on earth can you force another person to keep in contact? Seems impossible. Are you sure it’s not just unconscious energetic contact? For example, have you ever asked that other person?
(Arundash)
Answer 10
Well, how do you deal with that? I find it really hard myself. You feel the other person, but it is not answered, you cannot do anything with it. A lot of pain, sorrow, desire. You miss that other person. What does the other person feel, and how does he experience it? I’m curious about the answers.
(Unknown)
Answer 11
It is (following on from answer 2) varying, for example I get signs and messages about our future, he reads them and gets angry, then I sometimes think: “Let him do the dirty work himself”. occasionally frustrating, that you have to increase on the purchase (which purchase?). It will always be alright, although it will take hundreds of years and several lives. It depends on what you have eaten in previous lives.
(Who knows)
Answer 12
Reply 5 “paste behind wallpaper” is exactly how I sometimes felt, so no it is very realistic.
(Unknown)
Answer 13
Accepting that your twinflame is not yet able to be in contact for any reason. Trying to let it go, as far as that goes. And have patience and confidence that they will all arrange ‘it’ above when the time comes. We often want a lot, but I feel that it is not up to us to want anything. I also tried to get in touch, but I never received an answer, or it didn’t happen. I’m not going to try it again for the time being, if he can’t get in touch with me then I get it and have faith that it might come one day. Of course I would prefer to have contact with my twinflame as soon as possible. I mean earthly contact, hey.
(Unknown)
Answer 14
Question 9: I wonder, I am from answer 4; why do you think it is impossible to force someone to have contact at soul level? very interesting
(Unknown)
Answer 15
Question 9: I have forgotten to add this: I cannot ask my twinflame, who says no, no and no more everywhere (because there is a lot at stake); he is lying so I have nothing. It is quite logical idd: just asking would be the same in daily normal life. My twinflame, however, is not the same.
(Unknown)
Answer 16
Earthly contact will be great, but it must really come from her. I did my attempts years ago when she didn’t want to. All this has changed drastically in our astral experiences. I am open to an earthly contact, she can always email me.
(Remco)
Answer 17
To Remco; Do you feel that it must come from her side now, when she is ready, or do you have the idea / thought of I have taken the first step and now it is her turn. If she now waits for you to contact us .. if you have a good feeling about it then it is very bad to take the second step .. For the time being I will not contact my twinflame because I feel that I now must do it and let it rest first. Maybe I will have another feeling in a month or maybe next week, I don’t know.
(Unknown)
Answer 18
No, I do not have that feeling, I also have the feeling of leaving it alone. No need for me either I am already satisfied with my life. But a friendly band will be fun. But if she does not want it is also good.
(Remco)
Answer 19
To 14/15: I am 9. I have no idea how you can force someone to make contact. Also do not need to be able to. Can imagine that someone makes telepathic contact with me, but that is only compulsive when I accept it. If I let myself be forced. That is my choice. If you don’t do that, then the other person is quickly discouraged and the whole story is over? To 14/15: Have you ever thought that your twinflame can speak the truth? That it might not be an unconscious process? That he is completely in good faith?
(Arundash)
Answer 20
Answer 19: 1 thing I know for sure and that is that my twinflame is “not entirely” in good faith; stronger still more often he is “not at all” in good faith
(Unknown)
Answer 21
Answer 19: of course it is no longer compulsory if you consciously accept it. That is precisely the point, if someone unknowingly goes into it he / she does not know.
(Unknown)
Answer 22
To 20: How can you be so sure that he is not acting in good faith? Proof? Distrust of someone is not conducive to all interpersonal contact, that also applies to twinflames. and 21: Now I am loose. This was about Fri. 4? Quote: “Now I know that my twinflame forced me to make and keep in touch with him. I certainly did not like that, nobody likes being forced “. If you say you were forced, did not like it, you were SO aware of something. So this is not about unconscious contact, is it? Then it wasn’t coercion?
(Arindash)
Answer 23
Again to 20: I believe there is a misunderstanding about coercion. And which side the unconscious person is on. For coercion 2 are needed, and a threat: 1. Someone who says to someone else: I want you to contact, otherwise … 2. Another person who responds, because he is afraid of the consequences. If the other does not respond, then it is not coercion. There may also be imagined coercion. In that case number 1 has no intention of putting number 2 under pressure. There is no threat. But 2 feels that way, for reasons that are only known to 2. That imagined coercion cannot be unconscious on the side of 2, then it could have no reason to accept the suggestion of 1, because 2 does not even know it. Unknowingly forcing someone is also impossible. There is no threat, this requires that 1 is aware of its action. The other can imagine coercion. So it doesn’t matter which side the unconscious person is on, if only one of them is unconscious, there can no longer be any coercion. No real, and no imagined. Twinflames are in contact with each other, whether consciously or unconsciously. The one may be more aware of this than the other. You cannot blame your twinflame for contact. If you yourself are already unable to ignore a contact or signal, you must not require your twinflame to send it, consciously or unconsciously. You yourself may not even know what you are sending or not sending to the other person, and how that person is dealing with it. So it doesn’t matter which side the unconscious person is on, if only one of them is unconscious, there can no longer be any coercion. No real, and no imagined. Twinflames are in contact with each other, whether consciously or unconsciously. The one may be more aware of this than the other. You cannot blame your twinflame for contact. If you yourself are already unable to ignore a contact or signal, you must not require your twinflame to send it, consciously or unconsciously. You yourself may not even know what you are sending or not sending to the other person, and how that person is dealing with it. So it doesn’t matter which side the unconscious person is on, if only one of them is unconscious, there can no longer be any coercion. No real, and no imagined. Twinflames are in contact with each other, whether consciously or unconsciously. The one may be more aware of this than the other. You cannot blame your twinflame for contact. If you yourself are already unable to ignore a contact or signal, you must not require your twinflame to send it, consciously or unconsciously. You yourself may not even know what you are sending or not sending to the other person, and how that person is dealing with it. The one may be more aware of this than the other. You cannot blame your twinflame for contact. If you yourself are already unable to ignore a contact or signal, you must not require your twinflame to send it, consciously or unconsciously. You yourself may not even know what you are sending or not sending to the other person, and how that person is dealing with it. The one may be more aware of this than the other. You cannot blame your twinflame for contact. If you yourself are already unable to ignore a contact or signal, you must not require your twinflame to send it, consciously or unconsciously. You yourself may not even know what you are sending or not sending to the other person, and how that person is dealing with it.
(Arundash)
Answer 24
It all goes magnetically on an energetic wave you are pulled towards each other I have experienced. Those acts that are performed are lessons for a twinflame. You can see that as coercion but it just goes without saying. I have had both positive and negative experiences in the astral world. That made me stronger and I got everything under control through experience.
(Unknown)
Answer 25
@ antw 22 and 23 Arundash (I am v antw 4, 20, 21): For God’s sake can you question that I feel compelled? I declare that I feel compelled and if someone questions that, it can be called disrespectful. (talking about people-to-people contacts) It is the same as someone would say “I feel sick or I have stomach ache” and you would answer “no that’s not true” ?? And then this: in answer 9 you question that someone can force someone else and in answer 19 you say that you can be forced. These are 2 conflicting statements. So what’s it gonna be? I would say. Finally: do you know me or my twinflame personally? No, I didn’t think we were in the same circle of acquaintances. So how can you say in advance that he is in good faith and I am not? Apparently we are not really on the same track so I leave it at that. Thanks for the explanation.
(Unknown)
Answer 26
Answer 25 I have experienced it when I was with my twinflame. That other forces were present that affected me and my twinflame. Then we did certain things that my twinflame did not fully support. But it just happened magnetic and I think those were lessons. I myself have also experienced things in the astral world where I was forced. The astral world has both positive and negative sides. Just like on earth but different. Did you experience that you were forced?
(Unknown)