Q0935. Soul love without telepathy?

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Is it true soul love? If you can NOT feel your alleged twinflame remotely, can it still be a twinflame? And if your feelings seem to ‘decrease’ if there is no contact, is that ‘letting go’ or has there never been any soul love? It has been playing for me for 6 years now and I recognize quite a lot, but none of the telepathic contact, and when I have not been in contact with him for a while my feelings become calmer and more livable, as if it fades into the background. I therefore doubt whether it could have been a ‘real’ situation of soul love.

Answer 1
Of course I can only speak from my own situation. In my relationship to my twinflame, telepathy is at the forefront. Everything actually started with that. We said the same words at the same time, finished each other’s sentences, I knew it when he stood at the door without him ringing, he called me when I was just thinking about him. I can go on for hours. We also have telepathy in dreams, by the way. Telepathy is something that we definitely belong to twinflame, it is one of the characteristics of a twinflame relationship.
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Answer 2
Everything revolves around telepathy but also feeling. I have both astral conscious and unconscious exits with telepathic conversations. And in my dreams I also meet her and talk telepathically with her. Unfortunately we do not see each other much in daily life. Sometimes at parties but that is very rare I think I can hear her at a distance. I haven’t actually paid attention to that yet, but I think I can do that too haha. I have never really been close to her and I think she consciously tries to prevent that. We also have no contact with each other daily or via e-mail. Previously via the hyves but that was broken for 1 reason or another. Who knows, that might come again that seems nice to me.
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Answer 3
Thank you for your response. It’s pretty confusing. The feeling of recognition and belonging together is there. When my unconscious during a coaching session unexpectedly told me that we had led a common earlier life (with a story that I really would never have made up myself!) Everything fell into place for me. My dependence on him. The constant feeling that I had something to make up for. He has always kept his distance because I am married (and want to stay that way with my wonderful, dear husband) and he advised me to do the same in order to continue, but the times we talk to each other there is always that with me ‘ know’. Then there is even no doubt. That there is something elusive between us. That I love him and he loves me. Then I dare to express all my feelings. It also feels very familiar to touch him. I saw it at the first encounter between his eyes / eyebrows, a certain characteristic that I cannot name but that caused a reaction and a feeling to get away from recognition. The feeling of lack has been terrible, but lately I seem (only by avoiding all contact) to let go better. But he is on my mind once every hour. Usually even more often. I don’t know if that is the other way around. He never contacts me by himself, also to protect me (and himself). I think about the future with some kind of confidence. If it is not to be, then not. Contact as friends is impossible and too painful, it is never enough. And if it has to be that way, then it will be fine (in the next life?). I spoke to him a few months ago after a year without contact and told about our possible previous life together. He didn’t think it was strange at all and it felt completely like old times. But it took me three months to get him back out of my system. I only now understand that letting go is the only thing. Friendship is not in it, because it will never be enough, the desire and lack remain. After such a conversation, I am weighed down by weeks of heavy loss. Better not. All in all, it feels like a twin to me (despite having no telepathic experiences). Maybe I shouldn’t have to doubt … I only now understand that letting go is the only thing. Friendship is not in it, because it will never be enough, the desire and lack remain. After such a conversation, I am weighed down by weeks of heavy loss. Better not. All in all, it feels like a twin to me (despite having no telepathic experiences). Maybe I shouldn’t have to doubt … I only now understand that letting go is the only thing. Friendship is not in it, because it will never be enough, the desire and lack remain. After such a conversation, I am weighed down by weeks of heavy loss. Better not. All in all, it feels like a twin to me (despite having no telepathic experiences). Maybe I shouldn’t have to doubt …
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Answer 4
My opinion: Yes you can indeed, IN THE BEGINNING. It is like having a pregnancy: in the beginning I felt nothing, then little bubbles ahw and then more and more comes into play. That’s because those twinflames feel energetic increasingly coordinate with each other. If they do that right away, then you can no longer do your daily things and you burn out in no time. It is a built-in safety, so you feel nothing at first, but because of the mutual chakra connection , which is established in every twinflame system, even if they only meet two or three times in their lives, that telepathic contact starts. In a week after the meeting I had a telepathic emotional contact, about three times as if I could literally feel it.
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Answer 5
When it disappears into the background, your twinflame will take a break by letting go of you. At some point you can consciously control it through experience. Do you have dreams with your twinflame
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Answer 6
Sorry but I think the above answer is very short, I understand that twinflames usually experience telepathy, but I have just noticed that this also depends on the circumstances, my relationship with my twin ended 5 years ago, of which I had 3 years I have not seen any more, I have had a lot of telepathy with him, feelings, dreams, signs, and self-exits. Since I last saw him in 2009, those feelings have been slightly reduced, they said to me: now it will be a long time before you will see him and then I became very sad, they told me that I was in the future will be with him. I felt him a few months later, but from 2010 it was harder to have spiritual contact with him, it seemed to fade away and I was very annoyed by it, 2011 was the same and now at the beginning of 2012 not much has changed. Now I think the following: the fact that you are not in contact with each other has a certain reason, I felt strongly that if I got signs and telepathy and sensations, it would make it worse for me if I didn’t see him , that it would have an effect on my daily life and I could no longer function and also not develop myself, I had no diploma and could not move forward in any way, now that the pain is still there, I still think about it every day h! em and I still feel it cut, but it has been set aside a bit more and above they now think that I have to shape my life first, and I agree with them. In 2009, I almost literally felt crazy about him everywhere, my mother almost wanted to place me in a madhouse. So what I want to say to you is that it is a reason that your soul wants to avoid some spiritual contact, it may be that you will not see each other for a while and that you still have to learn and so do he. But that does not mean that it is not your twin, you can only agree, if you really feel it then you know it is so !! beware, I have seen many people who tell themselves that he is their twinflame, dare to be honest with yourself, because this way you disrupt the chance of a real encounter with your real twin! I got it because I am clear, she told me that he was my true love before I realized it, before it penetrated my soul, listen to your signals and signs that you give and to yourself! it may be that you will not see each other for a while and that you have to learn and so do he. But that does not mean that it is not your twin, you can only agree, if you really feel it then you know it is so !! beware, I have seen many people who tell themselves that he is their twinflame, dare to be honest with yourself, because this way you disrupt the chance of a real encounter with your real twin! I got it because I am clear, she told me that he was my true love before I realized it, before it penetrated my soul, listen to your signals and signs that you give and to yourself! it may be that you will not see each other for a while and that you still have to learn and so do he. But that does not mean that it is not your twin, you can only agree, if you really feel it then you know it is so !! beware, I have seen many people who tell themselves that he is their twinflame, dare to be honest with yourself, because this way you disrupt the chance of a real encounter with your real twin! I got it because I am clear, she told me that he was my true love before I realized it, before it penetrated my soul, listen to your signals and signs that you give and to yourself! if you really feel it then you know it is !! beware, I have seen many people who tell themselves that he is their twinflame, dare to be honest with yourself, because this way you disrupt the chance of a real encounter with your real twin! I got it because I am clear, she told me that he was my true love before I realized it, before it penetrated my soul, listen to your signals and signs that you give and to yourself! if you really feel it then you know it is !! beware, I have seen many people who tell themselves that he is their twinflame, dare to be honest with yourself, because this way you disrupt the chance of a real encounter with your real twin! I got it because I am clear, she told me that he was my true love before I realized it, before it penetrated my soul, listen to your signals and signs that you give and to yourself!
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Answer 7
Answer 3: It sounds more to me as someone with whom you have a karmic relationship than frankly as a twinflame. twinflame without telepathic experiences does not exist, it is one of the greatest characteristics, even though it may not be experienced as strong at the very beginning, as Wieweet says. You also say that you feel dependent on him and guilty. These are also two things that tell me it is not a twinflame. In a twinflame relationship you never feel dependent on the other, only a perfect addition, and guilt is not an issue, because you know that the other understands you better than anyone else and can therefore understand your missteps seamlessly. There are many types of relationships between people. Soulmates is one of them, karmic relationships too. Twin Souls is a concept that only really applies to very few people. Without telepathy no twinflames is my opinion.
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Answer 8 Great
, all answers! Thanks! Response to answer 5: I rarely dream about him. Usually a bit more in the period that I start to let go during the day, very strange. Or not ?! But they are always ordinary dreams. Releasing gives a lot of peace, but does not mean that I have forgotten him. Still in my mind, but less painful, more livable. Then I also see the special and beautiful in the situation. NB: My responses are recorded here as answers, but answer number 3 is therefore mine, the questioner. (I used the wrong email address the first time, that’s why I think.)
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Answer 9
Reply 8, yes by letting go you see the relationship much clearer and purer, then the ego does not play such a role and everything is much more as it really is. In many cases, letting go also means that the other person is getting closer. The harder you pull (by thinking a lot about him, being obsessive about it etc) you drive the other away from you. Does not mean that you may not often think of him as lovingly, but does not connect any wishes / hopes to it because then you pull. Let the soul love in your heart just be there, then the rest will come naturally.
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Answer 10
Answer 7: Yes, that may well be correct. I think I have equated soul love with twinflame. Because that it is soul love, I do not doubt that. But in this forum it seems to be mainly about twinflame. And so I thought that’s the same thing. Anyway, this (probably) karmic relationship has been particularly intense and painful. And it is so wonderful, that moment that you realize that you have been able to let go again. Somehow I have faith that things will turn out fine between us. One way or the other. He says it’s already good. But I mean that someday we can be together again.
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