Unknown
I think, if I summarize this site a little, the most important topic is: Let go. In my opinion, this site is no different from other dating or love or relationship sites and forums. Then followed by Privacy and then Ego. I have looked at it globally and did not start peat. And I think spirituality is number four. So from the most earthly to the least earthly subject. What do you find most important about yourself in the long run? Letting go, privacy, ego, spirituality, everything at once, or something else?
Answer 1
What we mean by letting go is not ‘LET GO’! Not even at all! Letting go means releasing dependence on this person. The urge to possess this person in earthly terms. So everything that the community sees as a relationship. For example, labels. He is my friend and he should do this and that etc. Letting go is: All ideas that you have known so far about what love means and especially the proud side of it. Why? Because this twinflame love is unconditional. Different rules apply, different laws apply … A soul love is a love that has no jealousy, no pride and no egoism. This is the love in which they say “I want YOU to be happy, no matter what happens to me.” Keeping another unconditional. Even if this person is with someone else or is this person doing things that are not acceptable in normal relationships. But these are the life lessons. By unconditionally forgiving and giving this person your unconditional love, no matter how hard it is for you, you grow spiritually. That means letting go of all earthly boundaries. This is very difficult, and this is letting go of the ego. You can never really let go of a twinflame. It always stays with you and with you. You feel them every second with every breath. So letting go is not about that. Forget everything you have known so far about how things should be. Be pure, offer yourself for the happiness of your twinflame. He / she will do the same for you (when he is spiritually ready. There will be all kinds of difficulties and tests between Twin Souls. Everything, which would destroy everything in a normal relationship. But that is precisely why it is so important to understand that these difficult processes are there, to show us that we must be so strong and that we must love someone unconditionally in order to ultimately overcome this. All twinflames who cannot be together are restrained by these tests and lessons. You need to look so much further than these limits. There is nothing I would ever let between my twinflame and I. Even if it is very hard for me or very bad for my pride. That is letting go! Releasing all rules and laws, pride and selfishness. Do not think of yourself but of the other. That is unconditional love. But that is precisely why it is so important to understand that these difficult processes are there, to show us that we must be so strong and that we must love someone unconditionally in order to ultimately overcome this. All twinflames who cannot be together are restrained by these tests and lessons. You need to look so much further than these limits. There is nothing I would ever let between my twinflame and I. Even if it is very hard for me or very bad for my pride. That is letting go! Releasing all rules and laws, pride and selfishness. Do not think of yourself but of the other. That is unconditional love. But that is precisely why it is so important to understand that these difficult processes are there, to show us that we must be so strong and that we must love someone unconditionally in order to ultimately overcome this. All twinflames who cannot be together are restrained by these tests and lessons. You need to look so much further than these limits. There is nothing I would ever let between my twinflame and I. Even if it is very hard for me or very bad for my pride. That is letting go! Releasing all rules and laws, pride and selfishness. Do not think of yourself but of the other. That is unconditional love. All twinflames who cannot be together are restrained by these tests and lessons. You need to look so much further than these limits. There is nothing I would ever let between my twinflame and I. Even if it is very hard for me or very bad for my pride. That is letting go! Releasing all rules and laws, pride and selfishness. Do not think of yourself but of the other. That is unconditional love. All twinflames who cannot be together are restrained by these tests and lessons. You need to look so much further than these limits. There is nothing I would ever let between my twinflame and I. Even if it is very hard for me or very bad for my pride. That is letting go! Releasing all rules and laws, pride and selfishness. Do not think of yourself but of the other. That is unconditional love.
So my answer to your question: Number 1 is my love with my twinflame. And in that package is: Me & my twinflame, spirituality, love, everything. Number 2: overcome ego. So overcome all the hard strokes of the tests and lessons. Because everything is falling apart and the only thing that ALWAYS remains standing is WE. I think you may not know this feeling completely. That’s OK. Not everyone experiences this. But it’s the best thing there is. Once you have this kind of bond with someone, you see the world with completely different eyes. It is so wonderful to feel your sweetheart with you all the time. Simply beautiful. I know this may sound very floating, but this is so real. You should never let go of your twinflame! NEVER! Only the “but” and (unknown)
Answer 2
What do you think about Love .. and with soul love comes spirituality … privacy is secondary and ego an obstacle..so I see it .. and letting go is not even possible anymore (unknown)
Answer 3
That is a difficult question and it also depends entirely on where you stand in the process. I still miss a very important one and that is openness and honesty towards each other as twins and I personally still miss that myself. Anyway, we’ll just say everything in its time. For me, I think spirituality comes first, I had been working on it for a while, but when I understood the big picture, subjects like “ego” and “letting go” suddenly became completely clear. Not that I could apply it right away, it takes some practice and time, but I suddenly understood the how and why and that made it a lot easier. And privacy, I don’t know if that’s really relevant to me because I don’t have any secrets for my twin, but I’d rather tell him myself and don’t like it when he involves others. That is still a hot item between us as far as I’m concerned, not knowing who and what still feels very unpleasant. Hopefully that will happen once! elost because it has considerably damaged my confidence in him and as long as that piece is not clearly spoken, I notice that it remains between us. Not to blame, by the way, but to understand so that we can close that chapter. Kind regards (Unknown)
Answer 4
Being satisfied with what I have. Enjoy the little things. Tame my ego on no. (Sanne)
Answer 5
My nr 1: Personal development (Unknown)
Answer 6
Great answer answer 1.. Totally agree .. no matter how difficult it is sometimes again .. (Unknown)
Answer 7
It is for me to dare to let go of everything to be completely open to yourself and your twin relationship .. to dare to walk the narrow path .. an advantage .. it is not busy there! Have I ever felt Lot’s wife .. look around … but be careful not to become a salt pillar. now I feel happy because I have dared .. that jumped into the deep without certainty..but with a lot of love in me..for my love and the universe..we never lose each other again. (Unknown)
Answer 8
Thank you for your answers. The subject of family is also hardly discussed, marriage, own family and friends much more. In another country (eg South Korea) it would undoubtedly produce a different picture! Loneliness is also not often mentioned as a subject. With a twinflame you are not lonely but you are lonely. Funny, I think I am in my last life so this is the last chance for me to be alone, I enjoy that as much as possible. (Who knows)
Answer 9
I, too, agree with the first answer. Lots of love. (Elselina)
Answer 10
The most important thing for me is getting to know unconditional love for my twinflame. This has led me spiritually so far, that cannot be described in words. If you discover that you love someone regardless of what they would ever do, then that is an uplifting experience. It teaches you to recognize that you can let go, let the other person live his life, make his own mistakes and not intervene or chew. Just let it go. But don’t literally let the other go. Letting the situation go is a better way to explain it. twinflames always stay together regardless of distance and the like. I find the most difficult thing is that almost no one understands this, and judges by earthly standards. You are forced into a straitjacket and hopefully you will be ready to do that. Nothing more to care about what people say. (Unknown)