Q0561. Pity for yourself?

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Who recognizes this? that you think; well, I have had enough, I think that now and then I deserve some luck, that you no longer feel like that sadness and that you think; why am I doing this to myself?

Answer 1
Yes, if you have the feeling that you have a choice, I can imagine that thought. For me it is very strange, of course I have the choice to step out of my relationship, but in one way or another that does not occur in my “scenario”. It would also be very against my feeling. So I feel I have no choice, while I do have a choice, you know? And if I did choose something then something is wrong or something, sorry it cannot explain otherwise. (J.)

Answer 2
I recognize it a bit, but I also know that I am not consciously putting this on myself, because I live my life, just go on. With soul love it is unfortunately the case that soul love has power over you. With ordinary love it is also difficult, but you can still let the feeling wear out over time, soul love is a recurring process that you simply cannot get rid of. Acceptance is the only thing you can do, cry if you miss him / her and continue your life in between. It looks like a chronic disease;) you carry it with you for life. Dear questioner, also try to enjoy the moments that you do have. Save them as a photo album and occasionally look back at your beautiful moments, helps a little against the pain. love (F.)

Answer 3
Could it not also be that tension spring? That you feel that you have arrived at a point where you can no longer fool yourself? If you feel like you are sacrificing yourself for a family, then there is something wrong within that family and nobody benefits. It is a different story if the family is still harmonious, then it is heavy but then it does not feel like a sacrifice, perhaps something to think about. Strength and love! (J.)

Answer 4
So agree with both answers! That is exactly how it feels to me. I once doubted if I just had problems with an ordinary crush on the man who is my twinflame. But after 16 years of falling in love that comes and goes in wave movements, you can no longer speak of a crush. It takes far too long and is far too intense for that. A normal crush falls off after about 2 to 3 years. But it remains upright through everything and occasionally flares up into a blaze of fire. The flame is always there. Depending on how I (and he) feel in my skin, it flares up. I have never thought that I would rather not have this, for that it is too much a part of myself, soul love I AM, not wanting to feel that, is a denial of myself. No, you have to deal with it. It cannot be otherwise. You can hide from it, walk away and build a wall, but those are all temporary “solutions” that lead nowhere. Sometimes it just has to be, because you are not ready for all that fierce! e feelings. That is why I also understand why my twin is currently doing this. He is so busy with his process. That is difficult, but I know it leads to something better. I deal with it differently myself. I store all the moments that were between us in my heart. I write down some dreams and other occurrences or signs in a special booklet so that I can occasionally look into them. That gives me confidence again when I no longer like it. I also try to be in the NOW as much as possible. And when we meet, I enjoy it with every fiber in my body. Soul love is for me the feeling of living to the tips of my toes, do you know that? (Unknown) Sometimes it just has to be, because you are not ready for all that fierce! e feelings. That is why I also understand why my twin is currently doing this. He is so busy with his process. That is difficult, but I know it leads to something better. I deal with it differently myself. I store all the moments that were between us in my heart. I write down some dreams and other occurrences or signs in a special booklet so that I can occasionally look into them. That gives me confidence again when I no longer like it. I also try to be in the NOW as much as possible. And when we meet, I enjoy it with every fiber in my body. Soul love is for me the feeling of living to the tips of my toes, do you know that? (Unknown) Sometimes it just has to be, because you are not ready for all that fierce! e feelings. That is why I also understand why my twin is currently doing this. He is so busy with his process. That is difficult, but I know it leads to something better. I deal with it differently myself. I store all the moments that were between us in my heart. I write down some dreams and other occurrences or signs in a special booklet so that I can occasionally look into them. That gives me confidence again when I no longer like it. I also try to be in the NOW as much as possible. And when we meet, I enjoy it with every fiber in my body. Soul love is for me the feeling of living to the tips of my toes, do you know that? (Unknown) That is why I also understand why my twin is currently doing this. He is so busy with his process. That is difficult, but I know it leads to something better. I deal with it differently myself. I store all the moments that were between us in my heart. I write down some dreams and other occurrences or signs in a special booklet so that I can occasionally look into them. That gives me confidence again when I no longer like it. I also try to be in the NOW as much as possible. And when we meet, I enjoy it with every fiber in my body. Soul love is for me the feeling of living to the tips of my toes, do you know that? (Unknown) That is why I also understand why my twin is currently doing this. He is so busy with his process. That is difficult, but I know it leads to something better. I deal with it differently myself. I store all the moments that were between us in my heart. I write down some dreams and other occurrences or signs in a special booklet so that I can occasionally look into them. That gives me confidence again when I no longer like it. I also try to be in the NOW as much as possible. And when we meet, I enjoy it with every fiber in my body. Soul love is for me the feeling of living to the tips of my toes, do you know that? (Unknown) in my heart. I write down some dreams and other occurrences or signs in a special booklet so that I can occasionally look into them. That gives me confidence again when I no longer like it. I also try to be in the NOW as much as possible. And when we meet, I enjoy it with every fiber in my body. Soul love is for me the feeling of living to the tips of my toes, do you know that? (Unknown) in my heart. I write down some dreams and other occurrences or signs in a special booklet so that I can occasionally look into them. That gives me confidence again when I no longer like it. I also try to be in the NOW as much as possible. And when we meet, I enjoy it with every fiber in my body. Soul love is for me the feeling of living to the tips of my toes, do you know that? (Unknown)

Answer 5
I read here so often that people can’t do anything with it … isn’t that ‘tucking away’, not denying yourself? my twin also continues to point to my trial, he then says she is not ready, but I wonder if my twin is ready, I don’t really get that answer from him. you are each other, you are in each other’s system and yet you cannot do anything with it? you are that other person, you feel that other person and yet you are not together because .., it just no longer matters to me that you deny part of yourself so much, I have my doubts about that, love is love but this goes through your entire system in the long run, as you say into every fiber. I choose peace in my heart but I cry deep inside, although I can’t take it from my center anymore, I notice I can handle it, but deep inside I cry,

Answer 6
Answer 4: Not from the tips of my toes, but since my meeting with twinflame my natural sensitivity has recovered, become paranormally gifted and a different sleep rhythm / biorhythm.And all within 1 year.Also no longer fancy unhealthy food remembering more and more things from past lives, these are all gifts for me, I didn’t have to do a course for anything. Only meet my twin twice, haha ​​lol. Good joke. (Unknown)

Answer 7
Yes answer 5 indeed you become a sort of nun. Against will and thanks, not out of necessity, but you can hardly do otherwise. The soul knows so much dedication. She knows no selfishness, no revenge, she’s done. .The story of Abelard and Eloïse, or Madame Butterfly. And it seems to be in our system, because why else do these themes keep coming up with Christmas on TV and theater, in films and operas? (Unknown)

Answer 8
Living to the tips of my toes, no not yet…. Now think I know what that will feel like someday, but now I still have the feeling of living with a thick cloud veil, because I am not yet “ready” and have to finish this in this life. Not easy, double and complicated, I wish I had the feeling that I could choose, while of course I always have a choice according to earthly standards. No, wake me up again in 2 years … (Unknown)

Answer 9
This love, it will never pass, once spontaneously said without understanding when .. But as a twin you do not want, do not go before you .. what do you go for; half-baked love that ‘is still there’ or infinite Love that is ‘not yet’ real..a sort of ‘better than nothing’ or are you waiting for .. that ultimate chance that life now offers you, a gift from above, pick it up and never put it away again .. a twin to enjoy and not only to dream of, I go for positive..and yes preferably yesterday..just earthly because I love that too , I can very much yearn for that .. (and that is not an ego, but just heart / love desire) .. love, love you. (Unknown)

Answer 10
So true what you all write. totally agree .. but very heavy indeed, you become a nun .. I have it just like in reaction 5 very difficult that you can not do anything with it … I want but my twinflame. He doesn’t want me and doesn’t want to see me anymore .. He blames me for everything and actually I didn’t do anything .. How can you continue and enjoy your life? Someone tips ?? can use them very much…. Is it really through .. Does not feel really happy even though your twinflame is lasting … Love …. (Unknown)