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How can I continue? message: Since I met my soul love six months ago, my world has been turned upside down. My husband knows about my ‘cheating’ but does not realize how deep the love is that I experience for my soul love. I don’t know what to do with my husband, I have built a wall to him. I just can’t manage to open up to my husband anymore. I can no longer be intimate with him. It really doesn’t feel right. I don’t know what to do. Who has experience with this and could help me on my way?
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Ask if your husband wants to broaden your marriage. You cannot expect him to realize how deep the love is between you and your loved one, most partners cannot realize that 1 2 3 just like that. You married someone who has his family If he sees his property, then I would choose the following option: Take a year away from your soul love. Completely radical. DO NOT secretly do anything, do not smuggle anything at all. what it does to you and you do not have to feel guilty that you would be unfaithful to your husband (you put the word “cheating” in quotation marks). After a year you see again, a year is gone in no time. (Unknown)
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Good question! you really just want to live in your marriage and I have to say that I succeeded for a long time, I continued on my mind so I could also be intimate with my husband for a very long time, but once the lid went off of my carefully maintained barrier, and I finally began to understand something of it when it no longer felt good, you no longer feel your husband’s partner, but your twin and that is no longer compatible for me either, you want to share the most intimate with your partner but your heart and soul are with your twin .. have ever tried it but it feels fake..yes, I thought for a long time that I could keep it up..it is difficult because you marriage is in danger and how you want to deal with that is up to you .. I also read that you should not give up your marriage for a twinflame because it causes you sadness and I think so too, but I try to do it in such a loving way, yet there are people who continue in their marriage because they think that it is better, but how do they experience it? or do they no longer have a sexual relationship? I don’t know, it would make it so much easier if you could see it separately. sex at a different level or something, that is also a question for me? maybe there are people who can do it? hopefully they respond too! wish you a lot of strength with your search, love (Unknown) but how do they experience it? or do they no longer have a sexual relationship? I don’t know, it would make it so much easier if you could see it separately. sex at a different level or something, that is also a question for me? maybe there are people who can do it? hopefully they respond too! wish you a lot of strength with your search, love (Unknown) but how do they experience it? or do they no longer have a sexual relationship? I don’t know, it would make it so much easier if you could see it separately. sex at a different level or something, that is also a question for me? maybe there are people who can do it? hopefully they respond too! wish you a lot of strength with your search, love (Unknown)
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Dear questioner and strangers: In the last few years my life has only consisted of dilemmas and I must say that does not make you happy. Some things are so big, bigger than yourself, spirituality that also gives responsibility, to tackle what you are being offered and that is what I am going to do, I believe in the unbelievable, in a reason behind things and then you cannot ‘wise’ (yes what is wise?) are more but you go for the call in the desert. I can no longer get involved with energies that are no longer good for me than I pull myself down! I can close myself to it but I no longer want to worry about it every day. The purpose of my life, my way as it is now beginning to develop, I have to go along with that, at least that’s how it feels. Accept that your life has turned out differently and accept it? No! take matters into your own hands and be brave, that is what we can choose and I think many of us on this site. it is not given to you for nothing and you walk on the right track, (a bit scary and wobbly sometimes, it is like learning to walk), then you are helped to realize that and I notice it again and again .. if I doubt (= fear) I am in a vacuum, a prison .. then I feel nothing and I am sad again, so away with that fear! that feels good again! strength for everyone here on this site .. sweet (Unknown) then you are helped that realization and I notice every time .. if I doubt (= fear) I am in a vacuum, a prison .. then I feel nothing and I am sad again, so away with that fear! that feels good again! strength for everyone here on this site .. sweet (Unknown) then you are helped that realization and I notice every time .. if I doubt (= fear) I am in a vacuum, a prison .. then I feel nothing and I am sad again, so away with that fear! that feels good again! strength for everyone here on this site .. sweet (Unknown)
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Supplement to my previous answer: sometimes you have to accept when things have turned out differently, that you need time to get everything on the ride and that you can do that while growing towards each other and perhaps together, that would very beautiful and then time doesn’t matter anymore .. (Unknown)
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It is very difficult that you have been married for so long and you suddenly encounter your twinflame. Your twinflame also often opens your eyes to the relationship you are currently in. Consider whether the relationship you are currently in is loving. Try looking at your relationship with different eyes now that you have met your twinflame. Love between twinflames is very intense. You will always be drawn to each other even if you break contact with your twinflame. You now also have the feeling of cheating with your husband because you have a much more intense feeling with your twinflame. I understand you don’t want to hurt your partner. You also explained that it is your twinflame, but if your partner was not allowed to experience this feeling, you cannot explain this either. Your task in your process is to make a choice between your partner and twinflame. Are you happy if you completely break the contact with your twinflame and start to build up a relationship with your partner again? You can’t hide that intense feeling, whatever you do. Lots of suc6 in your final choice! (Unknown)
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A loving relationship must come from two sides, paying attention it is so important … twins often look alike, in giving away and do not want to face with the nose in front .. often they have the same relationship .. twins do give and it is too intensive, too beautiful to be able to think it away, it will keep on pulling … know it! Making choices with your heart even though it is / seems unwise and almost impossible to do, that is true for a twin. Love conquers, as long as you follow your heart and not your mind, because then the ego goes between them again. (Unknown)
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Doubting, weighing things up, I have had it, did my friend say that it is finished, that we will no longer continue together, that has been difficult and difficult but better for me and how it goes on? this is fairer for both of us. after all, after a long journey, you all end up at your destination, whether you go fast or slow .. whether you want to row against the stream or let yourself be fed .. you can’t get around it..this is your home, first with yourself and then together, if all goes well. (Unknown)
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To eradicate the current, you build up (mental) muscle strength. That is useful and desirable for the twinflame. Watch out for the tipping point, when will it be exhaustion? I like a bit of resistance, I can’t sit on a soft couch all night, terrible! Getting carried away with the flow is beneficial, but also makes … people? (Unknown)
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I am now going to focus completely on myself, you cannot rely on anything and that is like sitting in the waiting room, I am tired of it and have had it with the whole twinflame happening, I want to live again and I am going to see where my here is and now feeling good with it .. and that is looking at all the friendship that I do get close, that still makes my life worthwhile .. I threw everything overboard and that might have been stupid, because then you are not standing More open to the beautiful things that are still coming your way and have learned a lot but do not want to wait for the rest of my life for an unattainable love that never comes, I cannot do that and it makes me unhappy. hope to see him as a friend often if that doesn’t hurt too much, if we can both deal with it and give it a place ..,
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I have built up a great deal of mental muscle power, but it should not only stay with building, it will still exhaust you one time … is it still useful? after the construction it is also good to relax and see what you have made and an evening on a soft couch; delicious! (Unknown)
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And secretly you keep hoping that he will be on the sidewalk once in a while, because my heart I cannot close it for him, no matter how I try .. help me (Unknown)
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Dear unknown questioner, the last answer to question 401 is perhaps an eye opener for everyone who is struggling with the problem partner and twinflame, I feel that it is so true. you are / become unhappy if you do not choose your twin in the long run, but slowly but surely it will happen, because you simply cannot do anything else. (Unknown)
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Addition; that eye-opener is now not the last answer, but the second-to-last answer of question 401 (Unknown)
Answer I was married for 28 years, but not always had a loss. My boyfriend is still with his wife. As strange as it sounds, I have no problem with that. the no me and my friend go much deeper than that. we get everything out of it and are happy. The rest is not important. We are there for each other. In addition, I am a lot older than my friend. We are each other’s painkiller. (Unknown)