Q0333. Pain, sadness, after 8 years, debilitating cannot let him go. Who has advice?

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HELP, HELP I met my soul love 8 years ago, had a relationship for a couple of months but that gave me a lot of tension it was all too sensitive, mutually we have met each other several times, until 3 years ago when I last met him seen. He no longer wants contact and I cannot let go of it my whole life has changed I have become a completely different person. How can I be freed from this misery and how should I let go? it is said here on the site that it is something beautiful to meet your twinflame, indeed it was the most beautiful and the deepest love I have ever experienced in my life but let go ?? terribly real sometimes unbearable. I really tried everything but I can’t get it out of my mind and my feeling what should I do ??? after I met my soul love twice I met someone it was terrible, I can not, my soul love is always there in my feelings and thoughts so also another relationship does not succeed after 8 years. What a struggle Whoever has experience with this terrible misery has even been there for a psychiatrist nothing helps but no one understands the pain. If you have not experienced something like this, you cannot understand it either. Help Help who has advice? I have even been to a psychiatrist for nothing helps but no one understands the pain. If you have not experienced something like this, you cannot understand it either. Help Help who has advice? I have even been to a psychiatrist for nothing helps but no one understands the pain. If you have not experienced something like this, you cannot understand it either. Help Help who has advice?

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Yes, I fully understand what you mean. If you can let go of your soul love, then you can do everything, because this is the hardest thing there is. Was it your twin? Then you will have to learn to “look beyond lives”, so look beyond this life, get a little sense of timelessness. So you have a life in a relationship with your twin and then in a life “you don’t get much out of it” you could say and then the “selfish” comes around again and sadness. Apparently it is necessary to let the soul grow, and then it will be a lot easier for you afterwards (in a next life?) I think that it is indeed a kind of mourning process. (Unknown)

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Where your Twin Soul provides your toughest lessons – you realize: only people who love you intensely at the soul level want to enter into giving you the toughest lessons, with the greatest suffering. (Unknown)
Answer Very understandable that you still have it all cannot accept. Make sure you regain your confidence and work towards a stable life. Please note, there are many bumps in your path during this walking process. Focus on your deeper feeling. If you succeed, you will find that you look at it differently (unknown

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It seems terrible to me if you are still in that grieving process after 8 years. I have had the grieving three months. Then it really had to end. I didn’t want to continue like this. My life was on hold. And I only have 1 life. I no longer wanted to be so dependent on my twinflame who says that she hates me. Sometimes it just makes me angry !! And that helps, for a while. For me it is only 4 months ago, but I am afraid he will never leave my system again. When I read your story, my courage almost sinks. I still cry for him every day. I can’t give you any tips. I can only say that I recognize mourning terribly. I lost 12 kilos. I now try to be close to him by listening carefully to my feelings. Just like if I know how he feels. I also try to send him my love. When I am in bed I crawl against his back in thought and tell him how much! i love him. I don’t have anything else either. I wish I didn’t even need that anymore. It’s just not fair that I have to make this trip on my own and that he lives his life well. But I do have my family, my work, my dear friends, fellow sufferers here, my animals. I am trying to learn from this journey. I would like to learn from this journey, but it will be a journey across inhospitable territory, with no provisional end goal. And I can only accept that. I don’t want to, but I will have to for my own growth. Love (unknown) I wish I didn’t even need that anymore. It’s just not fair that I have to make this trip on my own and that he lives his life well. But I do have my family, my work, my dear friends, fellow sufferers here, my animals. I am trying to learn from this journey. I would like to learn from this journey, but it will be a journey across inhospitable territory, with no provisional end goal. And I can only accept that. I don’t want to, but I will have to for my own growth. Love (unknown) I wish I didn’t even need that anymore. It’s just not fair that I have to make this trip on my own and that he lives his life well. But I do have my family, my work, my dear friends, fellow sufferers here, my animals. I am trying to learn from this journey. I would like to learn from this journey, but it will be a journey across inhospitable territory, with no provisional end goal. And I can only accept that. I don’t want to, but I will have to for my own growth. Love (unknown) And I can only accept that. I don’t want to, but I will have to for my own growth. Love (unknown) And I can only accept that. I don’t want to, but I will have to for my own growth. Love (unknown)