Q0328. In balance with yourself and still need your twinflame?

Unknown

When you feel unconditional love with your twinflame and you have gone through all layers of consciousness, how can you get in balance while you are still married to another. my marriage prevented me from feeling happy. my twinflame is also married and feels happy. How is that possible? I like it for him, I also saw him when he saw me that he was shining, a light emanated from him. I feel that I fall back in fear because I want to be with him so badly. Can you really be in balance?

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I wonder why you are still married if your marriage hinders you from feeling happy. How do you think you can sustain that in the long run? And is it fair to your husband to maintain the marriage if you feel unconditional love towards your other half (because that is your twinflame your own other half). You can continue “alone” because you are not really alone and you will not, with your twinflame here on earth. And build a good friendship with your current marriage partner this is my tip. A soul half wants, if it has found the other half, only one thing: UNITY and if you are going to share the FEELING of oneness with someone else it probably feels like (self) deception to you,

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Oh apologies, indeed it must be stated above: it is not about him but the soul you are with, thanks for the rectification! Maybe I have another good tip: I went to a psychic and he could be with our twinflame and see that we had to meet in this life not for a relationship but because he is becoming an angel and I guide him thereby, therefore we had to meet not for “earthly” relationship but only on “transit” to next relationship in a next life and in a few lives eventually 1. It has helped me a lot that I now know this and it has dispelled many doubts, maybe this will help you. (Unknown)

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that UNITY is beautiful if it is chosen from both sides. I have already found that Oneness within myself, some of which, also on this site, say that the purpose is to find your twinflame. Do you mean the UNITY of both twinflames? or from the Oneness within yourself, because then you could be happy with any situation. You then simply no longer seek unity with your marriage partner and then continue to live as friends and also have the spiritual UNITY with your twinflame. I think it is the intention that once you have found each other you will still choose each other, that is perhaps your assignment in this life .. I think twinflame have an assignment together .. for light and love .. consciousness .. wholeness Know that as a young girl I already felt that something was about to happen around this time .. I just can’t fully surrender yet, I feel so responsible for all the people I have been traveling with for a while .. I want to unpack the gift from God / universe so much .. pick it up, put it away again. .but it’s for me! especially for me and one day I will open it! (Unknown)

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I mean Oneness with twinflame. Small explanation: My twinflame is in the development that I went through 15 years earlier, young family recently graduated, huge focus on career and then your head is not very much to do with soul but to yourself in society. theoretically (!) get a relationship then he’ll be gone in no time because he may not be able to handle that emotionally. Yet there is Oneness between us, and I was already quite ONE of myself (60% female / 40% male, such a thing) no relationship no friends, 15 years celibate conscious, happy with my adolescent son, I am slowly releasing it and at the end of last year I came across someone who makes me feel very happy from next spring and who is sent on my path to a kind of feeling “buffer” to form between me and twinflame.I wonder I can do that sweet and nice boy who is 20 years younger, because he already knows that from day one we are not with two but spiritual with three! He, TZ and me. And what if I Make energetic contact with Twinnetje at night? Belongs to it, it has become “normal” for me now. But yes, he really wants it so time comes and I guess it is fun. If you read it that way… (Unknown)

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Find it all so double, how can you feel so one with your twin and then enter into a different relationship, with intimacy you try to achieve unity, my twinflame always played along with me, it was with me when I was with my spouse was intimate. that will no longer work if you feel so one with your twinflame. for me it feels like being unfaithful and denying the other half to which you belong, then you are not honest to yourself and your spouse and your twinflame. Then your soul will revolt! Is it not true that you have to follow your heart and go for your twinflame even though you are both married? This is your partner who is destined for you by god / universe. I think you have to choose. (Unknown)

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Yes if I am very honest then I find a “normal” partner now also surrogate …. But this statement makes me restless again because my twinflame is in a normal relationship, how can I claim to him that it is surrogate, who am I to deny the marital relationship of my twinflame? Probably because I knew unconsciously from my reincarnation that I would meet my twinflame in this life, I never had a real relationship, it was all fake for me. society under enormous pressure to have a relationship anyway and if you do not know when you will come across your twinflame then you must be strong in your shoes. I advocate education in schools about spiritual partnership, in addition to sexual education, it must be in 1 package.Is Twin Souls perhaps the last taboo, because there is no market for …. (Unknown)

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LOVE is never surrogate, the love for my husband is less deep and intense than that for my twinflame, but it is love. I thought for a long time that that was not enough, but see it differently now. your twinflame can be there and enjoy it when you meet but do not depend on each other! otherwise that beautiful intense love will hide, then your ego will come in and it will no longer flow, is my experience. let go, enjoy beautiful moments, know that you do belong together and look over your life, if the intention is you will come together. I think you can also enjoy a “normal” love. It gave me air and LOVE again (Unknown)