Q0268. Is it good to keep the friendship?

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We met 10 months ago. It felt like coming home, the click, the recognition. A stormy relationship ensued, he moved to my hometown, very close by, in the summer house in my garden. Now he has decided to live further away, to end our relationship as partners, because he still has so much debris to clear. Asking for a friendship, where it was all about in the beginning. No promises for the future, but with the prospect of sharing beautiful things. My love for him is overwhelming. This man has all my heart and soul. Together with him is 1. He asks me to give him the space to build his own life, with me as a very special friend in his life. I doubt, no, I don’t want to lose him. Know that I have to let him go, not keep hoping for more, not now. But it hurts so much, every time I see him I long for our time back. But he says that I have to look ahead, have faith in the future. Every day I miss him so much, long for our being together. Just sent him a text. “Out of love for you I let you go”. But I don’t really want it, I don’t want to let him go. Know that he loves me, but now does not have the space in his head, there are so many other factors, no, no other woman, more finances, children, a divorce must go well, problems at work. May I hope he will return someday, is it good to keep the friendship? Every day I miss him so much, long for our being together. Just sent him a text. “Out of love for you I let you go”. But I don’t really want it, I don’t want to let him go. Know that he loves me, but now does not have the space in his head, there are so many other factors, no, no other woman, more finances, children, a divorce must go well, problems at work. May I hope he will return someday, is it good to keep the friendship? Every day I miss him so much, long for our being together. Just sent him a text. “Out of love for you I let you go”. But I don’t really want it, I don’t want to let him go. Know that he loves me, but now does not have the space in his head, there are so many other factors, no, no other woman, more finances, children, a divorce must go well, problems at work. May I hope he will return someday, is it good to keep the friendship?

Answer
It is very good to keep that friendship. But you first have to process and release the debris of the past for yourself. Well get through the separation, mourning process that follows, but then you get fresh energy for a new beginning. The universe gives you what you need, also your soul love, but then at the right time and the right place. (Unknown)

Answer Keep the friendship if that feels good, you can grow together because each word can suddenly fall wrong how surprisingly and that makes you both sad, and that comes twice as hard .. but also the joy that I now feel again , love has become stronger again .. growing and clearing up debris and then .. just make sure you have direct contact so that there can be no confusion .. with us that ‘not’ yet but will come and I would be very alone be happy and I know my twin too. now it is unclear and you do not know what exactly is meant and who said something and you are sad while you love each other so .. lfs (Unknown)