Bambi
But now the next problem is that we can feel each other’s energy from a distance. I often wake up at night with his energy, and can’t sleep anymore. I feel his pain, and have seen him standing by my bed once. Very often I don’t even get to sleep, because I keep feeling him. then I get angry and scold him that he must let me go. But I also know that he feels me. If I am sad, then he feels a strong pressure on his throat and knows that this is mine. Don’t tell me I’m in control of this. Because then I will tell you that until recently I was being treated by an alternative therapist. he has tried to break this lovingly. I felt the energy of the therapist raise my legs, and then felt that two invisible hands jerked it down immediately. My heart chakra tore and I couldn’t breathe. And I felt many spirits around me, and a cold, an intense cold. I can actually perceive and feel entities. it took hours before I was warm. So and now you again !! At that time I had a strong feeling that this was arranged from above, so that our learning process is not over yet. I and the sleazy spanjard call it the connection, or rather have a thread with each other. It is good that we are now separate from each other. So that we learn to grow further. And yet it doesn’t feel like we are divorced. that our learning process is not over yet. I and the sleazy spanjard call it the connection, or rather have a thread with each other. It is good that we are now separate from each other. So that we learn to grow further. And yet it doesn’t feel like we are divorced. that our learning process is not over yet. I and the sleazy spanjard call it the connection, or rather have a thread with each other. It is good that we are now separate from each other. So that we learn to grow further. And yet it doesn’t feel like we are divorced.
I try to pick up my life as good as possible. There is no lack of attention from men, and this also results in a double feeling, because the sleazy spanjard has given me self-confidence. I don’t let others get any closer, I cat men, or laugh them straight in the face, while this is far from my nature. I am pretty soft of myself. Do you know he even feels it when I flirt with other men? He then feels a kind of activity!
How do I get rid of this connection !! I want to continue my life. We have changed each other’s lives forever, but it hurts so much. One of the last times he was with me, he met with me and shouted: Feed me, no one can give me anything new, I know it all. I laughed at him and we talked about everything I had enriched him in the spiritual field, etc. etc. We came to the conclusion that this was not new either, but you only have to remember. Suddenly he looked at me and said: there is something that you have given me new .. Oh yes I answered, what then ?, half to half I expected a joke. Our conversations consisted of holding up the mirror to each other, but were often peppered with a generous portion of humor! And he answered very seriously: you are sweet !, I have never experienced that in anyone.
It was like a hammer that hit me, even though I kept rattling on. With this he has left an indelible impression. And I know what life was like for him. I had told him before: you didn’t run away from me because I am so complex, but because I love you unconditionally, and you don’t know that! Even as I write this piece to you, I feel his presence with me, as if he knows that I am busy with him. I feel his pain.
Who can help me to let go of the connection. I have tried everything, putting yourself in a golden cloak, etc., to that therapist. I know I have to let him go to dissolve his own karma. And I really want to be open to another. I know that there are many other great experiences open to me. but I wake up with the thought of the sleazy spanjard and go to bed with him. I hope he learns to handle everything, and finds the light, but especially not to forget our conversations about life.
So this was it then. Lots of love from Bambi (this was his nickname for me, he just thought I was a frisky deer.)
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Boy Bambi, you ask what you have to do to get loose, but you have experienced everything in a very short period of time (since February this year, right?) If you share such intense experiences and feelings, you cannot just leave that behind you, your sleazy spanjard won’t be able to either. Have you broken the relationship or he, and do you still see him or not at all? I am not very spiritual myself (or I am on the one hand, but on the other hand very earthy again) but I know from my own experience that such a thing takes a lot of time and to be honest I am still not done with it . Before I knew what soul love was, I kept a sort of diary of my feelings at that time, and what emerged most of all was the tornness and the scorching love that I felt. Try to banish that from your system! It would be so easy if you could do that with external help, but I don’t think it will help much. You have to look for it in yourself and I think you can only get rid of it if you can let it go and accept that you will never forget it, that you always have a bond, but that you give each other the freedom to respond to your own answers Search. (Normally I don’t sign my reactions here, but because you draw with Bambi myself, I now choose the name I gave myself as a child.) Strength with everything (Coco) that you always have a bond, but that you give each other the freedom to search for your own answers. (Normally I don’t sign my reactions here, but because you draw with Bambi myself, I now choose the name I gave myself as a child.) Strength with everything (Coco) that you always have a bond, but that you give each other the freedom to search for your own answers. (Normally I don’t sign my reactions here, but because you draw with Bambi myself, I now choose the name I gave myself as a child.) Strength with everything (Coco)
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The karmic bond causes a strong bond. To let go of this is very difficult. A true struggle with yourself. A sea cannot do without water, And we cannot do without each other. You are always related to each other. If twinflames go their own way, do they still communicate with each other? Yes, they are always in contact with each other. Even though they have lost each other completely out of sight, there is always an unconscious bond. You can compare it a bit with the telepathic contact that identical twins have. There is always interaction. They are influenced by each other’s experiences: if one has a bad experience, the other feels it at a certain level. There is only 1 twinflame, since you can only be woken up once. Through that encounter with a soul-like, an important part of what slept in you is brought to consciousness. That can only happen once, because once you are awake, you cannot put yourself back to sleep. You can no longer ignore that part in yourself that you have always denied. So any later encounter with a soul-like person will never again give that strong reaction from the first time, since you are already awake. So the next encounters will be easier and easier, so that you will no longer stick that label “twinflame” on it. Tip: You should never throw away the most beautiful thing you have found on earth, because you will never again get the Same. (Unknown) You can no longer ignore that part in yourself that you have always denied. So any later encounter with a soul-like person will never again give that strong reaction from the first time, since you are already awake. So the next encounters will be easier and easier, so that you will no longer stick that label “twinflame” on it. Tip: You should never throw away the most beautiful thing you have found on earth, because you will never again get the Same. (Unknown) You can no longer ignore that part in yourself that you have always denied. So any later encounter with a soul-like person will never again give that strong reaction from the first time, since you are already awake. So the next encounters will be easier and easier, so that you will no longer stick that label “twinflame” on it. Tip: You should never throw away the most beautiful thing you have found on earth, because you will never again get the Same. (Unknown)
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Even though you are going to live on the other side of the world, this soul-love connection and experience will never let you go, it will always remain a part of your life. A part that belongs to you. You will feel that strong bond that you have together wherever you are. You feel each other. no matter how many times you marry afterwards. He / she will always be a part of you. learning to live with it, that will be the only thing, but going into battle with yourself, going into sorrow, the end cannot be overlooked. So become happy without your soul love? No, after all these years, I have never found happiness again (Unknown)
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Nobody can help you with that. You can only do that YOURSELF, and then only on time, when you are ready for that. I have asked Tiny a question (question 252) above, in which you can read in my article how it went with me. There is ONCE a time, an experience, an event that makes you think: but I don’t want this anymore … I want and have to go further. I have to stop opening myself up for him / her. But I know from experience that you cannot do this a second earlier than when you yourself feel that this can and does happen. This is probably a consolation, but it is a spiritual path that we must go all the way, with all the pain and sorrow AND teaching for the rest of your life. In other words: you can’t do something or turn a button or consult a therapist who takes care of it, that you get it out of your system. It is time … and time will give you the strength to be able to do this, but also to want it. I wish you (and everyone) a lot of strength that is still in the midst of this terrible pain and lack, but keep fighting for yourself and you will come out! Cleansed and purified and learned a thousand times life lessons in a few years. Love (M)
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What did you give a nice answer, finally someone who says exactly what I actually already felt deep inside, namely that you can only be woken up once, touched once deep in your soul, but then there is room again afterwards for new soul love, that you can again allow a soul match. Of course you always stay connected with that first soul love, such a breathtaking experience, as if you are being flooded by a tidal wave of unknown emotions you can only experience once. It may sound strange, but I think that is a very comforting thought that can really help me move on, I hope it will help others. Thank you (Coco)
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Well coco I have nothing on this. nice for you, that you can do something with it. you can let a new soul love come to you again, I read here (which is unbelievable for many) as if you just throw the first one away and grab a new one. If you are married again, you do not need a second soul love, I came across that first by chance, and what we had together was indescribable! A 30-year marriage is not something you simply do away with. while I know that I cannot live without my soul love either. But the one will also have to continue. You are talking about a second soul love that the first will never be able to replace. (Unknown)
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I think you should read carefully to what I responded. The karmic connection always remains, and you do not trade one soul’s love for another. I believe that your twinflame is not the same as soul love, that is love that you can feel for others who touch you in your soul on a different level – soulmates, soul contacts, soul minds. Your twinflame is really not exchangeable! Strength (Coco)
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Dear Bambi, I recognize myself in your writing. I too feel my soulmate as if he is standing next to me while he lives far away from me. The more I forced myself to stop feeling him, the stronger it came back. What I have learned is to accept that the feeling is present and knowing that the bond between him and me will always be there. I have been carrying this feeling with me for 3 years now. A special feeling that I have never felt with a man. The time will tell whether we will come back together. In the meantime we have had contact again after a long time, which has led to something good. What I want to say is Bambi: the only option is to reach acceptance differently and you will see what kind of feeling is released in you. (Frensjie)
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Soul Love never ceases; it’s not an experience. even if you decide to go further, forget it; you have nothing to say about it. You are unexpectedly confronted with it again. with every new connection this twinflame love will pop up again and remind you who is really important and au it only hurts. You can only work on yourself in the meantime and enjoy the feeling. except you close it mentally by denying it, then you lose it. Do you want that? I don’t think you’ll ever get another chance in this life, something so strange. we live in a disposable society, you can dispose of everything, replace it, cut it down, but not this. that unconditional has something beautiful. work on yourself and find a way with your twin and with the others you love. (Unknown)
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The only thing you have to do is accept that it is .. It never goes away will never go away. This is a strong cosmic connection to love your twin as you love yourself. No more and no less .. (Unknown)