Daan
Letting go, It is often said that you must let go of your soul love, I say that you must hold on to your soul love, so do not let go. You don’t come across your soul love for nothing, you come across it with a certain purpose in your life, nobody can tell you what that purpose is. I had a relationship with my soul love for a while and this ended in nothing, I was about to really try to let him go, I tried everything to forget him myself to hate him but none of it I succeeded in all that, so I went into battle, and we are now together, not in a relationship, but together through thick and thin. Whatever has happened or happened we can always rely on each other no matter what is going on. I think you come across your soul love just not to have a relationship with him, but more to come across and get to know yourself. So that money for both if you meet each other, mirror each other and get to know yourself even better, I wanted to let go of it with all my might, but I am happy that I did not do it and fought for it despite all the suffering and misery. try not to let go because that is really impossible, the only thing you can do is come to terms with yourself and then the time you can spend together is the most beautiful thing on earth, yes soulmates are for ever. What I still have trouble with is the feeling from a distance, the feeling that something is going on and that you feel terribly restless, that is something I think I will never learn to place but that is with him also the case, yes the two of us met each other on earth for a certain purpose, and what that purpose is that time will teach us. But I do not say let go, hold on to each other because if that is not the intention behind this, you would not have met each other.
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I think that letting go means releasing your dependence on your soul love. And that you don’t need the other person to be happy yourself or to be yourself. This letting go is independent of how you interact with each other. Letting go does not mean that you could not keep seeing each other. (Unknown)
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I totally agree with Daan. Know how difficult she was with her soul love. Proud of your Daan, you are growing considerably together with your soul love. You should never let go of the most beautiful thing you have. You will not meet each other for nothing, in this life. (Unknown)
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Daan If I understand correctly, you will now continue together as heart friends, your buddy, your friend, your other half, with whom you share everything. What if the one later gets a relationship? Will you continue to share everything with each other? Is there no jealousy? Does that third person agree with that? That you share everything with the other person, who means so much to you? (Unknown)
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Yes we treat each other as if we are together and together. No sexual relationship, but as soulmates. and my soulmate has a girlfriend at the moment, and it’s very weird I’m not jealous of it, because what he and I have is unique, that has nothing to do with a sexual relationship. We talk about our problems together and help each other in this, we go out together, and we are ready for each other when necessary, we complement each other in a great many ways. Soulmates is more than sex or a man-woman relationship, soulmates are always there for each other whether you are in a relationship together or not. We have met each other for a specific purpose and time has to tell what that objective is. Although it is strange if another man looks at me or shows interest that he is jealous and tries to take a little distance, but no matter how he tries, it will not work, we look like two magnets that are drawn to each other time and time again, sometimes it is simply daunting how this can be done, I think this is a bit like what a single twin felt. It is nice to be able to experience this, but on the other hand it also causes a lot of sorrow and pain, I am now trying to understand where the feeling of pain and sorrow comes from. if I find out in time I will share it with you by describing me in words. (Daan) I am now trying to understand where the feeling of pain and sadness comes from. if I find out in time I will share it with you by describing me in words. (Daan) I am now trying to understand where the feeling of pain and sadness comes from. if I find out in time I will share it with you by describing me in words. (Daan)
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But if you see him together with his girlfriend, doesn’t it hurt? (Unknown)
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yes in the beginning it hurt a lot, but now I am so far that it doesn’t hurt me, because what he and I have is unique. What hurts me is that when I have been with him and I go home I kiss him as I always do, on his mouth, when I look into his eyes I see him hurt, yes and that hurts me then again sadness and pain. I know what is between us and as long as he is not ready, I respect that. it is more difficult for me to see that he is in pain and sorrow than I am, because I know how to place it, so he does not yet. but it will not be long before I think he finds out why we have met in this life, and this is more than soulmates twinsouls etc etc this what we have rises far above this. And we interact with each other and the whole world can know and see, because if you have to deal secretly with each other in such a case, something is wrong, because this love is pure and pure and the whole world can see that. Our love is stronger than what he has with his girlfriend now and he also says that honestly, I think he is trying to place it, it is frightening for most people who experience something like that if you don’t know how to handle it, then they try to shut themselves off from it and that doesn’t work, not as long as you live. So I think he’s putting his feelings in, and if they fall into place, it’s time we get together and not sooner, And jealousy has more to do with trust in yourself than in the other, if you’re jealous then you don’t trust yourself,
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Thank you for keeping us informed Daan, because I am also in such a process. And it is heartbreaking, someone with whom you have shared everything (but then also really shared everything), to see it with someone else. Perhaps it is even harder for twinflames / soulmates than for twinflames. Because twinflames are certainly about true love. while twinflames are more about an intimate friendship. (sister-brother band. Twinflames know each other from past lives. And that love for each other goes very deep. A third person will never be able to “stand” between you, because what you has remained unique for ever. (Unknown)