Q0168. Why are so many people scared / afraid that a relationship can destroy everything?

Unknown

The soul relationship is created when you meet your soulmate. The soulmate is someone you know from a past life that makes you incredibly familiar with this person. In fact, it seems that you have known this person for years, even though you only meet him / her for the first time. My question is: You will receive a gift from heaven! Why are so many people scared / afraid that a relationship can destroy everything? What we have is greater than the desire for each other? Why don’t most people dare to be in a relationship with each other? Afraid to lose the best they have?

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I do think that some people do not dare to go further in a soul love out of fear. Especially if you have already lost something before that felt good. And if you have not properly processed that experience, then it is all the more confronting when you experience something that feels good, especially when it comes to your soul love. Isn’t a soul love for that, to confront, especially with yourself? I speak from experience; my soul love does not want to go further than the friendship we have, while he knows about my feelings. But if he didn’t have them for me, he would have disappeared from my life long ago, right? So I have patience … I have that for him. In the meantime, I come across enough obstacles in my own life to clean up, so the time when we are not really together is good for something. (Unknown)

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I have had it all with all that soul love. I’m so far now that I would almost want to commit murder myself? Oh how beautiful my soul is. Sorry. (Unknown)

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That despair is enormous, how can something that touches you at the same time sometimes hurt so much. I fully recognize that and I sometimes also think “if only I had never met him”. At the same time, I know deep down that I didn’t want to miss it, so hold on. I have been struggling for almost a year, I have felt depressed, sick and broken, but light is coming again. (Unknown)