Q0138. My soul love cannot cope with having a relationship with me, while I cannot live without him. Is that true if you are equally at the same time in your spiritual development?

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He does no different than projecting, and is also very quickly hurt and very sensitive, so you understand that it is very difficult. Otherwise I would have chosen him for a long time without hesitation. Yet deep in my heart I feel that I am meeting him again, that it is a higher plan that we have met. And that we are not done with each other, even though he no longer wants contact. I wish everyone here a lot of strength with everything!

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Some soul lovers cannot cope with a relationship with their soul love. But many didn’t want it for various reasons. I said to my soul love; you are the only one who can make the right choice for yourself. If you choose not to be with me despite that super love, then that is an excellent choice because it is your choice. I don’t even care about the reason for your choice. Every reason she finds good is good. Who am I to question the accuracy of her choice? I could not and would not judge on any grounds. It would be ridiculous to say that I think a different choice would be better for her. I can only accept her choice with love. Because I just want her to be happy. With or without me. (Tiny)

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You know what the weird thing of it all is, if you read the stories of other people here, you also see that soul lovers do not come together (so quickly), since they still feel a huge attraction. I really wonder what that is about. Anyway, because you yourself have the feeling that you will meet again, that will certainly happen. You also have the feeling that you two are part of a larger plan. However, I don’t know if it has to do with a higher plan. But it still has a certain meaning / purpose. Advice: let everything go as it should, it will turn out fine. (R)

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I think that finally all soul sweethearts come together again. The attraction and that beautiful love is far too deep. That is my experience. We often get confused when we meet, but after a while it took years for me to experience that it turned out to be your only princess on the globe. You come home where you feel safe with. That alone told me that can give butterflies and warmth. It feels so very familiar. You become more aware of everything. And especially us men, who often do not understand what this intense love is all about. I had never experienced this before. So I renounced my soul darling 4 years ago, I am now aware that that said was far and deeper than I had ever realized. (Alemelo)