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I always read that it is so wonderful and beautiful to meet your soul love, a heavenly gift, the best thing that can happen to you. That is also true, completely true I was so happy and luckily nobody can explain I was complete. I met him 6 years ago and I had a relationship for half a year and now after all this time I am still longing for a lack of something as if something had died inside I am really not happy that I ever met him in fact, I think I would never have met him. I have met 4 other men in the last 5 years but could not, really tried but the soul love was always there in my mind. It was impossible (after 5 years) to enter into a relationship. It may be the best thing that can happen to you now I have become a totally different person after I had to let go of my soul love that I still can’t do. Does anyone know how I can deal with this, something has really died inside. like serious reactions and tips, because this is sometimes no life. I have really tried everything to resume my normal life, but I can no longer be happy. Who recognizes this and how do you deal with it?

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Sadness and pain are something you experience yourself. It is not a given. It is your experience of the situation. You can also choose to experience the situation differently, without sorrow or pain. The art and the difficulty is to make that your own. What helped me a lot are lessons from so-called ‘masters’ such as Saint Germain and Ramtha. There are ‘channeled’ books, videos and even films by these masters. They do not specifically treat soul love but spirituality in general. Read how they view pain and sadness. In the beginning it is strange because you are not used to looking at it that way. But if you make an effort to see things differently, you will be amazed at how you can learn to deal with emotions. If you look differently it is also different. Also look at the answers fromquestion 123 . (Tiny)

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My question is: if you both go through a crisis of emotions, because you have to go through that processing process, do you still understand each other in that period? I read that you tidy each other’s attic (heart). It seems difficult to me to understand each other. but if I then read that after that the band is stronger and deeper than ever, then it must be alright. Otherwise, not so many people would mourn for their soul love, I think. (Agnes)

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I was also worrying about why it hurts so much. Why you met someone. I was 15, he then 22. Then he had a girlfriend, when I was 16 almost 17 that went out for the first time. And since then he has been with me every second, sometimes I even do mistakes for myself, because that is the only moment he is not with me. And it is really drama, because he constantly goes back to his ex, who in turn hurts him very hard. And that pain, that is unbearable. A few months ago I found out that he was my deaf soul, because of astrology, numerology and hypnosis I saw him completely chronologically at different times and I also saw ourselves in heaven, when I first saw him after flashes of light or celestial body. And then I described it as a sphere, that we would always be together and that we would always love each other. The “heaven” was also very surreal. However, what I also knew as a contract between us is that we would come together, but that we still had to do a lot! and development and we would eventually meet again in a few years. Strangely enough you continue to feel that pain, I now have a little bit of theory about letting go, I don’t know if that is possible, sometimes I have the idea that a twinflame also keeps bothering you or doesn’t let go and that is why he always stays with me is. What I do think is that maybe the pain that you feel is the drive to develop yourself. It may sound strange but from the age of 17 he has been my drive, the reason I chose my studies, that I do things for charities, that I work on myself. To be with him sometime. And that can be very painful, because sometimes it really drives me crazy. But perhaps that is the idea behind it, that by doing so you do everything to develop yourself. (Agnes)